The Usual Sex Position

hahaha its the exact same here. I watched alot of porn and had a few ideas of my own so when i went down under he had the best time. He still doesn't believe me to this day that it was my first and apparantly I'm the best one he'd ever recieved.

ok first thing is, don't go straight down on him, tease him a little, kiss his thyroid and down his chest very slowly and when you reach his junk, hold the base with your thumb and index and move it ever so slightly, its a very sensitive area and is very stimulating for him.
Begin to lick the head of his dick, circle him and kiss him. Don't suck yet, put some pressure on as you lick the underside of him, facing you, up and down while holding him in place.
Now we go down. Take him in your mouth, go all over his head wit your tongue before going down, as you go down further, move your tongue up and down while he is in your mouth, when you do this, you can rest him on your teeth as long as you dont move your head or he doesnt thrust but dont EVER bite, gums, lips and tongue only. Sometimes you feel like you're going to puke, just eans you went too deep, go up a little bit.
One trick is go down so far that you can't breathe at all. You won't want to gag because he's so far in your mouth he is in your throat, like eating something, literally, your throat is rather small which makes him very happy as the tight fit. Stroke him VERY fast with your tongue while you are down that far and retract completely, you can start from number 1 again or you can just keep doing that step which makes them the most pleasured.

http://www.howtogiveabj.com/

personally i am quite great at giving blow jobs. the first two i gave my boyfriend werent too bad, but i wanted to be better so i researched allll over the internet. thats a favorite site of mine, but also google "how to give an amazing blow job" or something like that. just be sure to

-not squeeze too hard
-NO BITING
-DONT TUG BALLS just cup them and lick them lightly, otherwise it hurts
-swirl your tongue all over his shaft you can also nibble lightly and kiss it. his head is the most sensitive part so when you suck on him tease it a little, but be sure to suck and use your hands at the same time.

again google sites. somewhere there is a free video instruction thing with an asian chick. where i learned good stuff

good luck! soon youll get to deep throat and face fucking! :D

i like this one cause when we do this my nipples rub against the bed and i get really turned on

Start slow and at least give him some hand action. After awhile, just softly kiss it on the head and down the shaft. Then maybe next time use your tongue on it and before long it will be easy to take it in your mouth. I would think that he won't respect you if you keep teasing him like this. A guy wants a woman who is comfortable with sex and willing to experiment and give him something he enjoys.

if you cant bring urself to do it at first try just getting used to being near hi, leave his boxers on if he wears them and kiss and caress thru those...once ur used to being close to his cock try just kissing when giving a hand job, teasing with your tongue but not taking his cock into your mouth! if its smell or taste or anything like tht, go and buy some flavoured condoms and use one of those until your ready to use your mouth! and any guy you go down on will respect you thers nothing shameful bout sucking cock in fact your guy will be begging you for more!

never use ur teeth unless ur sure ur bf is ok with it, suggestions: start with teasing hands and kisses thru boxers unless you've already done the dirty of ocurse in which case still stick to the teasing except ur straight to skin on skin...use ur tongue going up n down his cock and when ur ready take the head in ur mouth, the rest of it pretty much comes natural. if ur realli nervous ask him to help you by not thrusting into your mouth or better yet keeps your hands fimly on his hips and hold him down so he cant move into you...when your ready take more of his cock into your mouth as you move your head up and down, dont deep throat till ur sure ur gag reflex isnt strong...throwing up on your bf is very unattractive and may out you both off rather than start what can be an absolutely fantastic way to start or finish sex!!

My wife agrees that this is a very comfortable position for her to give me head. I also like it to just sit back and enjoy what she is doing to me. I like to have a pillow behind my head just like in the 3-D demo. It makes it nice to watch as she works on my cock.

well, sometimes a girl feels forced to so just make her feel as comfortable as possible and like the comment above said, give her oral as well. try asking her again or just go with the flow. the more turned on she is the more she will want to do it willingly. i know when im turned on i am more likely to do or say things i wouldnt if i wasnt turned on. her age might also be an issue, depending on whether she has had experience with it or not. sometimes if she has, she might be sick of it (as horrible as that sounds) but at times guys can want too much and then its just a turn off and most girls will never want to do it again.

Just ask her again maybe?! Do you give her oral? Maybe you should try that and then see if she'll be open to the oral stuff.

I think as a 14 year old you shouldn't be having any kind of sex, unless your mom wont be upset about it.
It's called virginity. And No, lossing your virginity is having penis to vagina sex and breaking the hymen..you should use a condom unless you want a mouth full of semen, because you could get herepes, and other STI's. Go to a sex ed class before having sex, or the local Plan Parenthood.

I use to feel the same way, and get sooo discouraged that i couldnt make my man finish by using my mouth. Now though I LOVE doing it. especially better than using my hand which is boring to me.

What I do is i use my right hand to help me. I drool ALOT, ask my man to close his eyes and then i spit n rub all of it all over the shaft with my right hand, and when I feel the shaft is moist enough for me to start using my mouth i work up even more spit n then place my lips right over the head and work on moving my right hand and mouth at the same time. its amazing. and then i sometimes suck faster on the head and slow down and very gradually work in what i can. but one you do the head fast and work the shaft fast with your right hand n good pressure you should be fine :)
Goodluck

I used to gag like crazy too. Try gently brushing your tongue with your toothbrush when you brush your teeth. Gradually going back as you can, before getting to the uvula ( the punching bag like thing at the back of your throat ). You'll gag while you do it but slowly get used to it and giving head will be easier. That and you'll get rid of bacteria on your tongue lol and ta da! You get fresh breath and a happier man n_n

Try relaxing your throat and pay NO attention to him. He should even be LUCKY you're doing it for him. Slow and steady is a lovely tease, they'll crave it more and you can easily watch them writhe in happiness.

Do as fast as you please until you are more comfortable. Make sure you're working your hand up and down, slightly tight. Light teeth occasionally.

You just have to find something that pushes him over the edge, try moving your toungue alittle while your giving head. Or softly massaging his balls, guys also like it when you use your hand while giving head.

when he really starts to moan and get into it, do not stop whatever method you were using. If you were going deep, continue to do so, if you were using your tongue a lot, continue. It will compound the pleasure instead of make him get used to a new type of stimulation.

no he's quite big and ive not got a particularly large mouth so makes it just a tad awkward to suck his balls aswell... i do move my hands around. but he likes to hold onto my hands... so restricts movement again...
was just wondering if there was anything to stop it being too intense for him that he ends up needing to stop..

blindfold him, and if that's just to out of place lightly tie him to the bed frame and then blindfold him

uh, i don't think thats possible unless hes the kind that closes his eyes or looks up while hes getting blown