3 Tips for Size Anxiety
Written by Daniel Rose, author of the
Have you ever been watching porn, and thought, “Wow - that guy’s cock is HUGE!” Then you saw how the woman seemed to be moaning in orgasmic ecstasy, and you thought, “Wow - I wish I had a twelve inch long penis too, so I could give women orgasms like that!” I think we’ve all been there, myself included. I’m a below average sized guy myself, and I used to have a lot of insecurities about how big I was. I thought that the only way to give women orgasms was to have a huge penis – that this was the only thing women really wanted.
Later I would find out just how completely wrong this thinking was. In fact, I would find out that there are actually a lot of advantages to having a smaller penis. And you can give women multiple orgasms even if you’re below average sized – you just have to know how to do it.
So here are three ways that you can make her cum harder and more often, even if you’re not hung like an elephant:
#1 – Learn How To Turn Her On With Dominance
As guys, we typically think that a bigger penis just feels better physically for a woman. We think that a bigger penis 'hits the right spots', and this is why women prefer them.
In reality, this is not entirely true. For many women a larger penis is actually physically LESS pleasurable. It is just psychologically attractive and exciting to her to be with a guy with a big penis. You can see this from women's preferences in sex toys. The vast majority of all dildos sold to women are the size of an average male penis or smaller (between 3-5”). That’s because this is the size that is physically ideal to make most women cum. And that’s also why the 12” monster dongs are relegated to the joke aisle – very few women could actually find something that size physically pleasurable.
That said, there is an appeal to a guy with a bigger penis; he seems more dominant, and women find that sexually exciting. And while it might not be ideal physically, psychologically this turns her on.
The good news – the size of your penis is only a SMALL part of how sexually dominant you are. If you can learn sexual skills to dominate her, these will turn her on MANY TIMES more than even the largest penis could.
This is why I say for men who are smaller than average, it’s CRITICAL to learn how to turn a woman on with masculine dominance. This includes doing things like:
- Talking dirty to her in bed. You can refer to the basic dirty talk and advanced dirty talk articles to get you started.
- Doing a few things to playfully 'manhandle' her during foreplay, such as spanking her or lightly biting her neck.
- Taking the lead in bed without hesitating, or asking for her permission
#2 – Use “G-Spot” Sex Positions
Learning how to turn her on with sexual dominance will take you FAR beyond any unskilled guy with a big penis. But to make it even better, there are actually sex positions you can use which are BETTER if you have a smaller penis.
I call these positions 'G-spot sex' because you’ll be thrusting into her at an upward angle to hit her G-spot. These produce some VERY intense orgasms if you know how to do them right.
Guys with larger penises have trouble with these positions because they’ll often thrust too deep and hit her cervix, which may be uncomfortable or even painful to a woman. If you’re smaller than average, you’re perfectly shaped to hit her G-spot (which is about two inches deep into her vagina).
Here are 3 positions which are GREAT for g-spot sex:
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#3 – Develop Bulletproof Sexual Confidence
This is actually the MOST important thing for you to do if you have a small penis. Although learning dominance skills and G-spot sex positions are definitely important, it is many times more important that you love your body and truly believe that you’re sexually attractive.
If you don’t think that you have what it takes to please her - it’ll show, and your lack of confidence will be a HUGE turn-off. In fact, this is the most common thing that turns women off about men with small penises.
It’s a vicious cycle; you don’t think your penis is big enough to give her orgasms, so you have low sexual confidence. Due to your lack of confidence, you don’t give her orgasms, reconfirming the belief in your mind that you’re not big enough for her ... making it all the less likely!
If you are suffering from low sexual esteem, you need to realize that what’s turning her off is not your penis size, and start taking meaningful action today to develop the confidence you’ve been missing!
A great place to start is leaning sexual techniques, so make sure to soak in as much information as you can ... as knowing is half the battle!
If you’re anything like me, being on the smaller side of the ruler is something you’ve been worrying about for quite a while, so it may take a little bit of time and effort to de-activate all of the negative associations you’ve accumulated over the years. However, once you get the ball rolling, its only going to pick up speed from there ... so just start with these three first steps and you should start noticing improvement in your partner’s pleasure, as well as your own, in no time!
This editorial has been submitted to SexInfo101.com by Daniel Rose, author of the Sex God Method ()! For more advanced sexual tips and techniques for men, including video demonstrations of techniques, make sure to check out his !