Missionary Sex Position

well then he might want to use his fingers a bit more often you could too if you're okay with that

Most people are tight when they first start having sex.. Let him finger you a lot and fuck you a few more times and it'll sort itself out :)

i have that same problem...and idk what to do either...

yeahh da same happened to me he just keeps telling me how tight i am n i wnt use a dildo eithaa but he fingers me b4 we do it and he said it makes it easierr.

my FIRST position

it was as he came all over me i cried tears of joy and teddies all over the world! i especially loved it when he "accidentally" stuck it in my ass over and over till i bled. i can tell how much you love me baby and it means so much! oh and thanks for the facial, my skin is feeling fabulous! :)~

Oh my, no it won't hurt him. This is typically the first position that people choose when first discovering sex, it's the best one on the website for your first time. It's really good if your self concious about your body too because he will be laying over it, so you won't be revealed! Great for first timers. Sex usually hurts females on their first time, so it might, but so would any other position! Unless your "cherry" is already popped, its guaranteed you will feel pain, or discomfort.

Sex for the first time hurts for most women, sadly. However, there are things you can do to make it easier.
In my experience the pain from first-time sex comes from 2 sources: the hymen rupturing and the vagina not being used to accomodate the foreign body. The first you can get around by having fingering etc ahead of time so at least you are not feeling both pains at the same time. For the second, have lots of foreplay, use lubricants, and go slowly.
The missionary is a pretty standard first position. Lie back, spread your legs, and just try to relax your muscles down there as much as possible. Don't worry about letting him do all the work. Woman on top gives you better control of the angle and depth. I just feel it's challenging as a first position because you need to kind of know how to move and if not it can get frustrating pretty soon.

i hit puberty @ age 9 and got my period @ age 11... so zip it.

well umm my cuzn is only 12 nd hes thinkn bout rootn his gf, bt he duznt no what position to do eeither nd well he sed wuld it hurt his gf less coz hes only gt a yung nd not huge dik

I KNOW!!!!!! hell, i'm 23 and just recently lost my virginity. and i'm SO glad i waited!

missionary dude just take your time though...

Just go slow and gentle. Don't skimp on foreplay, and use lots of lube. =)

cow girl positions are good.

don't lose your virginity just because "everybody else is doing it." do it when it's right for YOU. i'm 23, and up until 6 months ago, i was a virgin. and i'm so glad i waited.

yeah i know im 17 and i have only literaly 4 months ago lost my virginity i saw all of my frends losing their virginity and thought to myself im never gonna have sex but i met a girl in my local pub and was stunned at how good it was i tought your first time was gonna be bad but i did it outside in the snow in public i felt so naughty but that was a great help it stimulated her more!!

Yes i have a few. Her they are.

1: 14 years old? I doubt you have had sex before, if you have given oral then you have a understanding of where it goes.
2: getting Oral does not count as losing you virginity.
3: Why would she tell her friends? You dont want her to tell her friends how much you suck in bed, rumors will get around. And I doubt you will be anything more than a joke in bed.
4: If it "slips in" then she is not a virgin
5: there is a space between really and enjoy. And there is an "s" after enjoy.
6: spell out the numbers, typing the actual numbers makes you seem retarded. Though you probably already are for posting this.
7: Why would the girlfriend of a 14 year old (dont spell out the age of your name) tell her mother? This is proof that you are retarded, for if you were to think you would know that the mother would quickly ban you two from seeing each other. Although you just have the mind set that if she tells her mom, her mom will want to have sex with you too, and you are gravely mistaken.

I hope those tips help you out in your dilemma.

im sorry but its really hard to give advice to a 14 year old about sex. i dont think you should be doing it anyway. i only hope that your gf is older because i dont think any girl is physically or mentally ready for that at 14 years old. you guys might enjoy it now. i just hope you dont regret it later. im 19 and lost it in january of this year and im glad i waited.

actually i think you should stick with missionary your first time cause i went through hell and back...my problem is coaxing the guy outta missionary!

i actually think missionary is better because with cowgirl u get alot deeper and more pain. its reli amazing after a while too. plus you get a great face to face moment with ur man :)

When me and my ex girlfriend first tried to have sex, I got nervous and couldn't get hard. So don't worry, he'll overcome the nerves.

i cant tell you what's wrong, since im not your boyfriend. but what i can tell you is DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. and deffinately dont pressure him. i'm sure you remember when you were first freaked out by the idea, he's probably just in that state of mind now. let him freak out but let him know that it's ok and that you can wait for him to be ready.

just like girls guys can be unprepared for sex the first time. things like worying about pregnancy preformance and what kind of relationship u guys will have afterwords i recently lost my virginity to the girl i love but it took me alot too. sex is unlike anything hes everdone before and hes robably just worried about all the above stated. if it right it ill happen in time just reassure him u love him and encourage him no matter how the situation turns out. dont forget most guys are not just natural sex machines so if it doesnt go as planned just be a supporting girlfriend. all in all good luck with ur relationship and make sure u love him.