Missionary Sex Position

I really need some help here, me and my boyfriend are both virgins but we really wanna make love together. We are going to use this position. I'm not afraid of that though, I'm afraid of pain. I heard that it was going to hurt on the first time and I'm worried. He promised to be very gentle with me and treat me with great care. He said we would stop if I wanted to but I don't wan that to happen. We are completely in love with each other and we want to move on to this step in our relationship. Please guys I need all the advice you can give me, I need your help. I wanna know what it will be like the first time. Please help.

Hello Sam,

I'm definitely no expert! The main reason I'm replying is both my wife and I were virgins too when we got married.

Its really cool and admirable to save yourself! But, in my case, some small part of my brain came to think that sex is some very rare thing that might go away at any time. Plus I had years of anticipation.

Condition yourself to think that 'I will do this 3,000-10,000 more times in my life, depending. Today is no big deal. It's fun, I love my wife, I'll make it last awhile, and there's always tomorrow or the next day.' Or if you're under 50, 10-15 minutes from now. Lol

Just like the quote from Bull Durham, 'Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, and sometimes it rains.'

Spend time alone visualizing and feeling how you're going to make it last. Mentally go through a whole entire lovemaking session. Visualize making it last. Perhaps separate your lower parts into two different guys. Maybe like tag team wrestling. Mr Happy #1 (your erection) starts out slow, gets faster, then slows down and takes sort of a break. Then Mr Happy #1 speeds up a little again before handing it over to Mr Happy #2 (the prostate and testicles) for the close.

Another tip is that some guys visualize different things when they feel the urge coming on. Things that kind of dulls your sexual desire for a few seconds. Some say think about baseball. I prefer Nancy Pelosi or Hillary Clinton myself.

Hope this helps, and many happy times to both of you!

if you want soemthing less weird, try alternating basic ones like anal and missionary. you'll find guys don't really care about if it's the same position. just change it a little and they'll be satisfied

the only thing i can say is that when you guys actually do it enter her slowly but if you want to give her full satisfaction roll your hips counterclock wise and hold her knees back like your helping her stretch out alittle.
When my ex did this i couldnt stop moaning out and its really good to do. once you guys get used to everything go alittle harder and mix up your movements from side to side and circular i promise she'll love it ;)

i definately think missionary is the best position for the first time ! just go slow and be nice. thiswill show love and affection. congrats to holding out till you were married man.
:)

my man always encourages me to.....

i don't know about other guys but watching a girl play with herself really turns me on

alright one thing u can do since it doesnt seem like u have a bf is have a reaaly close friend dat u trust to have sex with u

You're thirteen, you shouldn't even be having sex. And you're single, so what I'm hearing is that you just want to have sex with a random person, your virginity shouldn't just be thrown away like that..

At least wait until you find someone you care for enough to do it with.
I mean really, kids these days.

I'm in the same position as you actually, he's had a lot of experience and I'm a virgin (and a very scared one at that). I guess all you can do is talk to him seriously and relax before and after sex. Relationships build on trust.

1. make sure its wat u really wanna do you only have one first time
2. talk about it like if u want him to go slow to start (which he shud lol) n since he's experienced he shud know that
3. RELAX!!!!! have fun and enjoy it :)
hope this helps :)

it might be differrent for some than others.some girls it might hurt, some girls it might not. and the reason for the bleeding is because of the hymen breaking.u may have already done this without even knowing.as for the positions talk to him and ask him to take it easy at first.

dont do it unless ur completely sure

If he is only in it for the sex, I say dump him!

deff not a loser the guy who wrote that is so get that outta ur head k. u r a bit young and it mite be better to wait longer but everyones different if u guys r in love n uve been together for a while so id assume so go for it. u seem like a thoughtful kid who will make the rite choices n b protected cuz i dnt think u wanna b a 15 year old daddy lol just b careful

I certainly do not think you are a loser as someone else posted. I could not believe someone would sit at their computer and write something like that to another either. Just so you realise I was shocked
to read that response to you.
The girl is very young to have sex and so are you
but you say you are in a relationship and have
talked about it. I would not like to think of my
daughter having sex at 14, just take care of each other and be kind and gentle.

First of all you are not supposed to be on this site unless your 18 or older. A freaking 15 year old? You are that kid who has nothing better to do than play halo and pretend all the girls like him. You plan to take her virginity away from her and your both gonna regret it. See you guys are way too young. Your never gonna love each other once your out of high school. Its all just a bunch of drama. The 10, 20, maybe 30 years down the road you will want to settle down with a real girl who you really love. You are going to regret sleeping around because you could have saved your virginity for her to take. Sex is not a game, nor is it just something to have fun. It is a serious bonding process and your out there to go and screw it up because your parents dont know how to teach you the proper way of doing things. Of course your probably a bastard and your mommy was pregnant at 14.

i lost my virginity last week. and the guy i was with, we did it in his truck. let me tell you, dont try it in a truck. use a bed. because i was a virgin, this is the position we used and even though it hurt like hell, i didnt bleed. we're all different. just be safe sweetie. the guy i ws with used trojan spermicidal condoms.

i recently broke up with my bf. we did this posi and it was asome! i so wanna do it again but i dunno with who!

i think you should tell him its not cool to have doggy for your first time, your first times meant to be memorable and sort of romantic.. and if thats something you dont find romantic. tell him you dont want to do it.

You mean like doggie style? Sometimes its just primal instinct kicking in. It may be more pleasurable for him to see your rear so that while he is thrusting into you he can see your anus touching him. It may just be more comfortable for him. Its possible he doesnt have energy to take on other positions. But if he doesnt want to see youI think you need to leave him and find someone who cares.

im 14 and i kno what its like wanting 2 hav sex with ur bf but u shoodnt. ur body is still growing and its bad 2 hav sex this young. and it wood be terrible if u got pregnant this young. u shoodnt do it yet.

sexii ,,,, take my advide yer when yur parents go out get him to come over with a condom dont let it split and have it thats what i do !!! i mite seem yur going behind there backs but .... yu'll forget about it coz yu'll be having the time of yur life .

from cloasexmadien xx

Wait!! You are too young right now, and will most likely end up regretting it. Plus, this is a great way to find out if he really cares for you. If he does he'll respect you and wait, if not then he'll move on to the next bitch who lets him get his dick wet.