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Cowgirl Sex Position
In the very popular Cowgirl position the receiver kneels astride the giver and leans forward on their arms; the giver is laid back. The receiver has much more control over depth and angle of penetration - a must-have for good g-spot stimulation. This position is definitely a must-add to your repertoire!
Foreverandalways is absolutely right about guys being clueless. They rarely pick up any but the most blatantly hints. You just need to tell you guy what you want and use guy terms if you like. While doing the cowgirl, lean forward and say, “I would love for you to suck my tits now.” That should get a good response from him. It can be easier say things like that while screwing than when talking outside of the bedroom.
mm this one is the one i did when i had sex for the first time :P
yup this one is a definant keeper!!!! for sure! made me orgasm twice in 10 minutes....it was great....hard work but great...!!!
I love it when my sweetie grabs my hips and controls things when I'm on top, and I return the favor in this position by lifting her under her arms and letting her drop back down onto me.
im a virgin and planning to have sex with my girlfriend soon, i was wondering what position would be best for me and her considering i only have a 5 inch penis? i really want to please her even though im lacking
Ok a 5 inch penis is not that small it is just barely below average. As many women have told me it is not the size but what you do with it that counts.
If you want to please her foreplay is very important, your hand and your tongue are going to please her more than her penis.
I suggest more than one position this one the cowgirl should be one of them, and some version of missionary.
all i have to say is wow....although the last times we tried this is didnt go so well....this time we had much success! wow....is all i can say. i had my first major orgasm....wow....it scared me a little because it snuck up on me....all of a sudden it hit....and !WOW!!!
Ive had sex twice now and my boyfriend wants me to go on top, see i dont mind doing that apart from im scared if it hurts and how to do it... im only 14 and Im not expreienced... so please help.
Nellya don't listen to that person you are not a slut just because you are 14 and are having sex with your bf. It is simple love making and human nature to love that "special someone" this way. So don't be ashamed, as long as you use a condom that is fine to most people, now that doesn't mean that you should go around telling people I sleep with my boyfriend cause people are idiots and will call you crude and rude names that quite frankly trust me you don't want to be called. Anyways about the position tip don't worry about the pain my gf has the same problem with position's that put her on top. The way to get past the pain is to just go slow and to go gently, plus it feels better the slower you go because it rub's against the g-point.(if you don't know what that is have no fear just look it up in the Anatomy part then click on female diagram). Just remember to keep him under control when you are on top it is your world and you are in control got it. But also keep practicing if you wish to continue with this position if you don't want it to hurt eventually it will just feel good.(hooray for the power of practice)
When me and my gf try this she says that it hurts alot when she is on top... i need tip, explanations and ways to get around it ... anyone???
three words...
Motion Lotion Raspberry... and all the pains go away.
i love doing this,
so here is the problem....we have had sex several times....and that is great.....but he wants me to get on top....im ok with that too....but i have a real hard time....for some reason i find the initial penetration difficult ...any suggestions? we have no problem in "deck chair" or "missionary" etc....but this one i have a lot of problem....it is a little upsetting....because i really hear good things about this position....any suggestions??
Get some lube and then take it slowly to get penetration. The nice thing is with you on top, you have the control of how fast the penetration happens. It may drive him nuts because you take it slow, but it should help to get penetration so it doesn't hurt or to get the angle right.
me and my gf are virgins and we have been thinking of having sex for awhile but never can get any alone time to do it. plus are there any recommended posistions we should do ?
i've never done this position before...
and my bf asked me to do it last time, and i refused...
any tips for a begginer?
Just get on and ride, let your self go....touch and explore your body while on top of him. You will love it, and you are in control! Grab your boobs, arch your back and moan away. Just let go! He probably just wants to sit back and enjoy the position while watching you. He wants to be turned on by it so do it and see how it goes. You can always role over and tell him you want him to do you after a couple minutes if you don't prefer or enjoy it. You can turn around, too, and let him watch your backside move up and down while he penetrates your vagina. Men love that. Good luck!
i have been to that i am really good at doin this one and it feels great
this is the postion i would like to lose my verginity in.
I've tried this with my bf but after a minute or 2 he rolls me over and starts doing me. Is he not enjoying it? Could it be cuz he's about to cum and wants to last longer? I don't wanna ask him but it makes me feel like im doing a bad job :\
ASK him what's up. no relationship can work without communication.
I have a question for all the women. My girlfriend says I'm amazing in bed, but she wishes she had more control when we are making love. She also said that she used to enjoy this position with her past boyfriends, but she couldn't place it whether I was not doing something right or I was just not enjoying it as much as she does. Now my question is this...what essentially does a guy need to do when he is not in control such as the cowgirl position? Is he just supposed to lie there or is he supposed to rock back and forth. Just a few pointers would be nice so I know I'm heading in the right direction. Also, some heads up on some common mistakes would be nice also.
While you're doing cowgirl, bring your feet closer to your ass, and bring your hips up... you'll end up pushing her on all fours, and then just go to work... the angle changes, and the sex is phenomenal. Also... get a rhythm... 1, 2, 3, 4, smooth, shallow, and slower... and then 5... as hard and as deep as possible.
if you play the quiet game... the 5th thrust is where you win.
good luck homie.
i know that when my bf and i are doing this position, it gets really tiring and my legs start to hurt. he will usually thrus his pelvis upwards. it really feels good and gives me the encouragment to continue. and it is very unexpected so it adds to the intensity and pleasure for me. hope this helps.
You could try tellin her to go faster or slower or how hard u want her to ride u, its also good to pull her down close to u w her hands and give her an occasional kiss hold her with hips and take control.
run your hands over her body. pull her down to kiss her. bring your hand down to tease her clit. ask her what she likes best.
me and my boyfriend do this position pretty often, and we loove it! expecially him ;) i sit on top of him and bounce up and down, and he definitely enjoys it! sometimes i go slower, and sometimes i go fast, so it keeps him guessing, and he never knows what he's getting! this position also gives good oppurtunites for him to grab, and suck on your tits, which turns me on soooo much. i just get wetter and wetter thinking about it ;)
I know, it's so great. It's fun to tease him, too...go slow then fast. Or when he grabs my boobs and tits, I push his hands away and hold them down while I ride him. He also like his balls rubbed hard while I am bouncing up and down. Yummy!
i love doing this position but i usually get the guy to sit on a couch and i lean back and hold on to his knees, it gives me more control over what im doing:)
LOVE this position !!
i did this with my boyfriend and his best friend last night !
My boyfriend fucked my pussy and his friend fucked my ass THREEE SOMEEEE :D
it was amazing , his friend would wrap his arms around me and squeeze my tits and me and my boyfriend were frenching the whole time it felt so good
god im getting wet just thinking of it !!
I still cannot believe what that was like! You got a lot of attention...big turn on I'm sure!
Wow...how often do you do this? Everyone's ok with it? I bet it is a huge, hot turn on getting all that attention. Do you have a girl instead of a guy sometime or just his friend? And who's idea was it the first time? I'm just so interested in finding out how you initially did this!
damn that sounds amazing
So, I've never had sex, and when I do I want to try this. But, I'm really uncomfortable with a guy being as close as the 68. Or Forbidden Fruit. So, since I'm prob going to be drunk cuz I would never have sex sober--most liekly, what are the best ways for non oral, pain free sex?
You are not ready for sex if you say that you have to be drunk to have sex. The best way for pain reduced sex when it is your first time is lots of oral and lots of forplay. Loosen up by getting hot with your lover not getting drunk. Nervous is one thing, not remembering it bc you were drunk is another.
You shouldnt lose your virginity when you're drunk.
Get in a decent relationship, with a guy you care for and who cares for you, then try it out, DONT TRY THIS, always use oral or sexual massage before intercourse, or you wont b wet enough.
DONT HAVE SEX FOR THE SAKE OF IT YOUR FIRST TIME.
MAKE IT SPECIAL.
Try a shallower position rather than this.
pm me if you have any questions about it??
your first time? dont do cowgirl...its only good when you can get deep and virgins cant get deep...i tried this like the first week i had sex and i couldnt do it it hurt too bad
That's really sad. You are certainly NOT ready at all.
My friend was raped in this position.....it was sad. He held a knife to her throat and demanded it.
aw man, i feel sorry for your friend, was tht horrible jerk put in jail?
awww serousaly
me nd my boyfriend do this alot during sex, i started out jus bouncin up nd down ti one day he told me to try grinding/sliding back nd forth on his dick. it felt amazingg for me, but i wonder which one he likes better. any guys have opinions on which they prefer?
I think this position really works.
Men love to see the women their having intercourse with move in such ways and this is the right position for it.
If you aren't in the best of shape, slightly use your legs to hold yourself up instead of completely relaxing on your partner, this will build up the muscles in your legs and be able to help the movement better.
Also, if you aren't finding it exactly comfortable or you cant feel anything, try going really slow, men love it when they can feel themselves inside you and it is a big turn on. You could also try going really slow when lifting up, and then quite fast when going down as this helps guys climax. It also helps if the guy keeps slipping out, as you can control it more if you go slow.
can some1 please tell me is dis position done up an down or back an forth or either one??????????
Both, grind, back and forth, up and down...they just like to see you riding him and taking control. Pump your hips and he will be captivated. Make sure you are enjoying it too though because that really turns the guy on to know that his dick is the cause of your pleasure.
Most of it is done up and down, but for effect you can do it back and forth right before the guy comes. IT'S THE BEST!
ok so me and my boyfriend have bein having sex for a while and he has bein wanting me to get on top for a while now.
i am really scared to do tht, but i do want to make him happy so i want to try.
i was thinking about tryin this one,but i dont have the strongest leg muscles.
any advice on which position to try
or if this is a good one
and how to go about doing it
do this on the chair its much easier since u wont have to lean on ur legs.
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tried this position the other night and hes not on the small side at all but i couldnt keep him inside me, it also hurt wuite a bit
I have tried to do the Cowgirl position with my last partner and we weren't able to really get anything going because his dick was on the smaller to average size, and when I would try to get him in and ride him, he kept sliding out. My new man is really well endowed so I am not worried about the sliding out part, it's the sliding in part... any tips on how you girls get someone really big into you easily? I want to try this out with him asap! Also any tips on how to prolong it and not wear ourselves out so quickly, since I'm not in perfect shape. =)
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