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Cowgirl Sex Position
In the very popular Cowgirl position the receiver kneels astride the giver and leans forward on their arms; the giver is laid back. The receiver has much more control over depth and angle of penetration - a must-have for good g-spot stimulation. This position is definitely a must-add to your repertoire!
Oh yea by the way girl don't be shy or scared to look at him, it will turn him on even more when you look into his eyes and ride him how he want you to.. let him put his hands on your waist to guide you and just enjoy the ride his giving you!!
I love the cowgirl because I like being in control sometimes. I love riding him and doing exactly what I wanna do. I love moving in circular motions making him fuck me harder!!
my bf wants me to do this but im like soo shyy!! i kno he'll be like watchin me and that kinda freaks me out a lil! i feel bad too cuz like idk how to do this and if i try it im scared tht imma make a fool outta myself and kill the mood or something :/
help anyone?!
thanks
if you`re too nervous to have him watch, put a pillow over his face.. make him think it`s so that he won`t know what to expect.. just make sure you don`t smother him to death, that would be kind of a hard one to explain.
yesterday was my first try and its actually not all that scary or hard...its the easiest position i have ever used. dont be scared youll have fun.
I want to do this to my boyfriend but I'm so shy when it comes to being on top >.< especially having him watch me the whole time is like scary lolz How to get unshy?!
ah, the only way i can cum.
hi, im a virgin still and i want to kno wats the best position to do it in your first time, that way it will hurt a little less.
~victoria~
okay just to let you know im not very expierenced in this field i only lost my virginity 3 months ago. when my boyfriend and i lost our virginity together we used the missionary position. it was very magical and calming having the person i trust and love so much on top and being gentle and kind with me the first time. but honestly i hate missionary, because i can never orgasim while in that position(very frustrating), but my boyfriend has no probs with cumming (so unfair). my personal fav for having a great time is when i am on top, because he can rub my clit and touch/suck my breasts. not to mention i can kiss him and moan in his ear. it is just mind blowing. also we love to play music with a quick beat while we fuck, it makes it 100X better.
oh and btw, if it is with the right person at the right time, it wont hurt. i was worried about the pain of the first time, but we had done lots of sexual stuff together before, just not going all the way. at one point though i knew i was ready and so i talked about it with him. he got a condom and he started off by turning me on and when i was ready i guided him in with my hand. there was no pain at all.
hope that helps u out
well the best position for your first time is missionary where the man's on top. But after that you can try whatever you like... missionary was my first. It's intimate aswell. me and my partner quite often start off like this... its basic and enjoyable.
xxx
agreed, missionary is definitely the best for the first time.. hurts less, and you don`t have to do anything, you can just lay back and take it and after it stops hurting you can really get into it.
if your partner is a virgin aswell, the easiest position i know is missionary. of course once you've mastered that go on and explore! cowgirl is so amazing, definatly my favourite, and they seem to enjoy it too! ;) but remember, you will remember your first time forever, so just keep calm and nothing should go wrong! good luck sugar! xxx
This is my favorite position because I can do so many moves that make my bf want me more. he loves it when I am doing it then start to sway my hips and grind on him. It is so erotic for both of us
This is one of my absolute favorite positions. I love how i have control over my man and it turns me (and him!!) on so much. I love the ability to control the depth and speed of penetration, and he likes to sit back and watch me ride him hard. It allows his hands to be free to explore my body, playing with my tits (which i absofreakinglutely love) and massaging my clit and/or ass. Some tips:
*try this but lying down on top of your man, it allows more intimacy and you can kiss and neck better, plus there's the added hotness of even more skin-on-skin, and more ability to thrust
*try the cowgirl position while sitting up in a swiveling desk chair... its so much fun!
*in a car, this position is great, straddling your man while he is sitting up... i love the added closeness and he can easily wrap his arms around me and bring us even closer, or play with my ass. also, it provides amazing clitoral stimulation against his pelvical region. god, im getting so wet just thinking about it.
*be sure to vary the speed and depthh of how you ride your man; mix it up from quickly moving up and down, to nice short little thrusts that only go about halfway down his penis or just around the tip, then slowing down, savoring every last inch of his rock hard shaft to the base until it's completely inside you, and take a moment to just sit there; while you sit straddling him with his cock fully inside, surprise your man by squeezing the muscles of your vagina... it's like a massage for his penis wHILE he's inside you! also, grind against his body, trying not to release any of his penis (you can use him for support, putting one hand on his shoulder, and one hand behind you on his leg or the bed for support) and begin to swivel your hips in a circular motion, every now and then completely switching the speed and/or direction... this will be such an amazing treat for your man, because he'll never know what to expect, and his eyes will roll into the back of his head with the insane pleasure. at the same time, you won't be able to get enough of him inside you, and you enjoy the intensely pleasurable sensations that will most DEFINITELY lead to orgasm, and usually simultaneously. ;)
*another great aspect of this position is when i get tired or can't ride him anymore, like after i orgasm, and he wants to finish off, is he takes my hips into his hands, and can move me up and down his shaft while i lay panting on his chest. that way he gets to have a little control at the last couple seconds or so, while still having the stimulating benefits of me being on top. =)
-kacey
Kacey, great advice. My wife also likes to lay flat in this position. Does make for added contact, kissing, and ass play. When she sits up I love to play with her tits. When her nipples get nice and hard and erect, she really likes nipple play and for me to pinch and squeeze her nipples. If I'm not playing with her tits, then the visual is great seeing them bounce as she rides me up and down.
*When she gets tired and stops, I can still move my hips and keep my cock moving in her and can still get us to orgasm. The other day when we did this position and we orgasmed, she layed back down on top of me and we just layed there for awhile. Once my cock started to go soft, I could feel the cum running down my cock and onto my pubic area and balls. It was fun to feel that runnin onto me and to have it all over when she got off. Once it started to dry was about the time to get up and clean us both up.
I used to ahve a problem with this position aswell but all you really need is practice and help. Get your partner to help you with the rythim by helping you move your hips up and down or w.e its much easier and after a while you get used to it and you won't need his help anymore.
i love when my girl is on top like this. she has two little tricks that all girls should do. #1 she will lay with her chest on mine. raise her hips and reach between her legs and grab the bass of my c***. then go up and down just on the tip. so amazing #2. while shes riding me she will sit my up and reach behind her and play with my balls. she will also rub hard on the place between you balls and a** hole as im cumming. its INSANE. ladys do this to your man and he will scream
Like the lass below me, I need help with this position?! Where am I suppose to be getting the bounce from? & how much am I suppose to be leaning on him? This is my boyfriends favorite position to watch and I feel so bad I dont know how to give it to him. Ive tried once but I feel so stupid.
im in a relationship and just want to please my bf, he wants me go on top only problem is im rubbish! i cant get any rhythm and just don't know what to do. im fine in all other areas of sex, im just rubbish at actual sex. any tips...
You can do pretty much anything, us guys dont mind that you dont have a rythem, usually when we see that your struggling we normaly will start trusting upwards so that you can base a rythem off of that, and if you do mess up just relax and continue
my girl is very good @ this
my man and i do this all the time. i love it cuz when i sit up his dick goes deeper and he can look and my body. he can play with my tits (that turns me on the most) and play with my clit. its aso nice cuz after i can lay on his chest with him still inside me and we kiss and he holds me close.
Whenever she's on top she makes this circular movement with me in her... It feels awesome... Tell your girlfriend to do that!
love this one, its so hot I love the over powering feeling makes me not want to stop. I love it when my bf grabs my breasts too. ;)
i love this position. its a great break for me to let her ride me. i love her hands on my chest. it leaves room for both our hands to wonder, she can stimulate her clit or nipples and i can grab her around the waste, or grab her breasts..
we love this one, its a classic whats not to love?
We do girl on top like this all the time, but I like to tuck my feet under his bum/pelvis. It tilts him up at a great angle and makes penetration even deeper. My man's a really big svelt kinda guy and I'm pretty little, and I like feeling like I'm in control. I love being able to bury my face in his chest or kiss his neck/collarbone/ears while I'm riding him.
me and my bf tried this on valentines day. it was the first time we'd had sex and i luved it. he luvs it when i go on top and i always orgasm really hard. i was doin this last nite and he started playing with my brests. i leant right back and he played with my clit for like ten minutes. we both love this and never tire of this position. we kept this up for 20 mins last nite and we both screamed so hard that our neighbour complained.
he and i just did it like 5 minutes ago and at this moment he's grabbing my breasts and were doing doggy style!!
hey do any of you guys moan/scream??
i moan.. lol.. and grunt.. my gf likes it.. :)
Oh boy do I moan!!! Alas the harder I try to be quiet the more excited I get. Also I think my husband gets turned on as he knows he is pleasing me.
me n my man do this all the time. heloves when im on top. he usualy helps by thrusting or grabin my sides n helpin me go harder n faster. it makes him moan alot.
me and my gf do dis position all da time and its is gr8 it often becomes to much for her and she wants 2 get off wen i thrust. (hits da g spot every time)
Our favorite woman on top position. I usually also help out by thrusting also. She has alot of control and I enjoy the view her her titties and access to fondling them.
I also find the up and down and action tiring, and i am by no means unfit, my bloke used to comment that i did put too much pressure on his chest after a while.(oops) I definately agree that grinding is so the way to go, G- spot stimulation everytime, and then slip the up and down action in. Just make sure when he is about to come you try and stick at the one thing, unless you want him to go that little bit longer.:)
go to a strip club and watch how the girls shake their asses... it's not about the legs, it's not about the arms, it's not about the abs... it's all in the butt. start slow, bring your ass up, then shake it down-- you'll feel the rhythm soon enough... your ass'll just take over for you.
i do dis all the time with my man
From leaning forward with my hands on the sides of his head & letting him do the thrusting, next, up with hands on his chest. Then sitting up full rocking my pelvis front to back (nice clit contact for a hands-free orgasm), to leaning back so I can reach his scrotum. Also squatting makes up & down action for him easier for me, just can't do that one very long.
Every so often the girls likes to take control. My girlfriend loves this position because she can control the speed, the force the penetration everything! OOh Man!!
When I Have Sex We Always End Up Doin This Position & As A Girl I Dont Feally Feel Im Good At This Position ... I Dont Feel Like My Bf Is Gettin Anythin Out Of It.. Anyone Got Any Tips How I Could Improve?
i actually think this is the best position i have ever done.
my gf and i did this the last time. we both love it. infacts, i penetrated her g-spot and she was screaming.
I agree with the people saying they get tired on top... It's probably harder for women on top than the men because i could hump all day long if that's what it envolved but we have to go up and down which requires a lot more effort...
But it's always a real help that my boyfriend helps me out so we're both doing the work (:
I think being on top is sooo hard :( i get so tired after like 5 mins, any tips?
instead of performing an up and down movement, try sitting with his cock completely inside you and begin grinding against his body, rocking back and forth, and swiveling your hips in circular motions. it stimulates the g-spot AND the clitoris, and it requires less strength and energy. also, it'll make your guy moan so much, because it feels incredible on his cock. ;)
-kacey
instead of how they show it, still have the girl on top, but her laying down. that way it can be calm, less harsh on the back and easier to thrust. Thats how my love and I do it, because I screwed up my lower back, so you still get the really good sensations. try that!
There are a few I can recommend: the cross, the fusion and the head to toe (inverted missionary) all a similar variation on cowgirl but easier on the thighs. emjoy. :)
I completely agree. Every time that he wants to get into that position I dread it. I can't use my legs that long because they hurt and I am still working on rhythm. He laughed the last time we tried. T_T
both of you need to get in shape..and maybe lose a little weight.
hurts the first couple times. charlie horse in legs when i do my boy. =[
I seem to have a hard(not a pun) time reaching my ejaculation point in this position, well, not quite this exact position-I sit up instead of lying down. I don't understand why though.
Still feels great though.
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