G Spot Stimulation
Where is the G-spot?
If your partner is lying on her back, then her Grafenberg Area, commonly known as the G-spot, is located roughly 1.5" inside her vagina on the upper wall. The most ultimate Orgasms come from a woman having her G-spot stimulated. This area inside the vagina typically has a different texture; ridged (not as smooth) as the rest of her vagina, and when aroused feels spongy. A G-spot orgasm is often associated with the mystical legend of Female Ejaculation and 15-30 minutes of a euphoric sensation where she is in complete bliss... Don't expect much from her during this time, she is in heaven.
G-spot Technique
With your fingers approximately two to three inches in, move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of the vagina. It generally feels best if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls while fingering. You may wish to give a LITTLE extra pressure towards her belly as long as you don't break the steady rotational rhythm. Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the (usually slightly ridged) area of the vagina just behind the pubic bone and exert pressure towards her belly (upwards). This is direct G-spot stimulation, and it usually feels best if the fingers are subtly moving. You can move your fingers in small, slow circles, or point your fingers more sharply and rock them back and forth.
An advanced and very successful technique is a combination of the two. Trace the inside of her vagina with your finger(s), while moving in and out. Make sure that your fingertip always hits the g spot on each rotation. Finding a nice rhythm is critical in this technique, and when you get it right, she’ll be asking you how you learned that!
Stimulating G-spot During Intercourse
This topic is covered in greater detail in the Vaginal Intercourse article in the Intercourse section, but keep in mind the angle you position yourself during intercourse. Being able to stimulate the G-spot during intercourse will definitely increase the likelihood of your partner reaching orgasm through intercourse.
Sex Toys
These are designed specifically for this area and are a great way to enhance your sexual experiences. They can vibrate, stay hard, and best of all they don’t get tired. There is no better way to learn how to experience vaginal orgasms than by using a vibrator to help you figure out how to pleasure your body better. If there is a way to stimulate it, there is a sex toy to automate the process and to no surprise this holds true when referring to the G-spot. Check out our article on G-spot Vibrators.
I suggest you buy a radically curved G-spot sex toy so as to take turns and not cramp your fingers with such harsh contortions or so as not to make him give up in frustration. If you get your motor running, so to speak, then he can do the last 30 to 50% of the work with ease and see that it was all worth it. Once you get it aroused, it is easier to give him feedback about just where to hit the spot, how much pressure to use, etc. In younger women it may need more extreme pressure directly on the spot as the lining of the vaginal wall is thicker in younger women. After more sex and having babies, the vaginal wall may thin out and be easier to stimulate with less pressure in older women (Cougars rule!) LOL.
My boyfriend and I are trying to get me to have the BIG ORGASM that this article talks about. However, no matter how much he tries he can't do it.. and I don't get the peeing feeling unless I'm doing it to myself, which I get tired after about 10 minutes (fingers cramp). When my boyfriend fingers me, he gets a bit tired as well, and I just give up and just have a clitoral orgasm. Am I missing something here? I have read so many articles on how to do this, but I can't possibly succeed... I want great sex... but it's not happening.
Dear girl, you get tired after about 10 minutes?
Try to find a situation where you get more time to spend alone with your boyfriend: a full morning for example and start play with him..
good luck!!
ive heard that not every girl has orgasms. i think im one of those girls,lol. ive neva even cum before o.O how weird. but im sure dat'll change wen me and my bf staart doing it ^.^
same here i have not had an orgasm unless im doing it myself i want that great sex too and so does the boyfriend but ive done almost everything and still cant seem to get there (from clitoral or g-spot) although one time i almost was there but HE FINISHED FIRST!
okay, make him finish the job. if its too much for him then get him to do something else to get you there. you need to orgasm. that is not fair of him. my bf will usually finish first but then he makes up for it with the best possible clitoral orgasms ever. lie down and have him push your legs over your head and over his shoulders and have sex, it will get your g spot better. or get on top and sit with your feet on the bed and lean back a bit, with me and my boyfriend whoever is on top has the most control and the quicker orgasm. if it doesnt work make him keep going however. lay on your back and have him stick a finger or two in you and make a "come hither" motion and rest his chin on his palm and spread your lips with the other hand, make sure your clit is totally exposed and have him suck and lick and breathe go on until you cum. tell him hed better not stop no matter what, even if its a lot for you until your vag pushes his fingers out of you. for those who are scared to squirt have him tie you up, i know it sounds kinky but it works because you cant stop and your only option is to cum!! its amazing. and after that have him untie you and have you lie down so you can rest...youre gonna need it.
So what if he finishes first... he can still use fingers, tongue, toys, etc. to finish you off too! Any caring man would!
use trojan ribbed condoms. it works. Pleasing me didn't work for a long while then he used this condom. I'm not sure why it works or how it works. but i have to beg him to stop.
my boyfriend and I are active, well...Im the one who keeps him active, lol. Anyways, hes been hitting my G-spot from time to time when were making love...but I never seem to really...finish. Its like...Im going, Im feeling it, hes got it, any second now...and then...its gone..and I feel so, ugh. Hes been feeling disapointed because every since he found out that he can hit my G-spot, hes been trying to hit it even harder so I get more pleasure...and when it goes away and i dont have the G-spot orgasm..I see him getting disapointed :[ we've tried may things like switching positions and things, but he seems to get it when Im on top... Im just wondering..is it my fault? Maybe Im the one making it go away or something...? HELP? :[
When you feel your G-spot building tell him to keep up the same position, motion, pressure, and all the same approach... He shouldn't change positions, at that point, until you pop.
Its never anyones fault but the thing ya need to know is take note... if you can concentrate.. on the things that feel good... and spen like a whole time focusing on them its not like you or him are at fault its just as the old saying goes *Practise makes perfect*... or is it... just do what ever the hell feels good for as long as you can mixing it up ^ ^ you decide
i don't really think it feels good when my g spot is touched. i mean, it feels nice but not as nice as the clitorial stimulation. Lol. Maybe it's just not being touched the right way? I've had the pee feeling though.
It may not have felt too comfortable to you because you were afraid to let it go, thinking you would pee and embarrass yourself. It also may need more firm direct and repeated rubbing to bring you to a huge climax. It usually must be rubbed firmly as it is embedded within the vaginal wall and not right on the surface in there. The most desirable orgasm is a combined clitoral and G-spot orgasm when manipulated together. It can result in a deeper vaginal, "whole body orgasm" like rolling waves of thunder throughout a woman's entire body and having many aftershocks, too.
Yes, a G-spot orgasm is certainly more intense than a clitoral orgasm... and it is something I kind of figured out on my own with a dildo. Once I knew how it worked, (usually I need both g-spot and clitoral stimulation to get the BIG O) then I was on my way to some the best sex I've ever had.
yea same here, ive had multiple g-spot orgasms using my dildo
Wats the difference between using a dildo n just fingering urself or rubbing ur clit im curious n always wanted to ask a girl how it feels to use a dildo
To finger yourself so deeply it may require harsh contortions of the fingers, palm, and hand that may cause cramping of your entire hand and add tension... thereby diminishing pleasure and leading to frustration and anxiety (not conducive to getting into the pleasurable feelings happening inside). Using a dildo specifically designed to reach around behind your pubic pelvic bone structure and in deep enough is much better for self masturbation. The more radically curved a G-spot dildo, the better. A lover's hand may more readily reach the spot waving their fingers over the spot very firmly in a come here motion. Or with 2 fingers alternately but moderately and firmly "galloping" across it with firm pressure and a desirable, timely rhythym.
I've been looking for the g spot, not sure if I found it, she gets wet but after a few minutes she wants sex, should I make her wait and keep fingering her, is there a little bone that comes out around g spot?
tease her a little more till she can't take it, but dont leave it too late and one the upper side of the inside of the vagina most of its smooth and a part is ridged and thats where it is x
I don't know if i have one? i tried but it just made me feel like i had to pee....
You should have kept going. The G-spot is within the tissues of the vaginal wall, near the urethral sponge, which is near to your "trigger" that releases the pee. Because that sensitive but elusive G-spot seems to respond at first like an urge to pee many people stop there or get afraid to continue. That feeling should pass soon and become more and more highly pleasurable. Keep going, and don't be afraid to squirt. That female fluid has been lab tested to be the same as the male ejaculate but without little spermies in it. Let 'er rip!
make sure you pee then before sex or whatever. but usually with an orgasm, with a not completely empty bladder, you will either pee or ejaculate. the feeling is the same either way.
this is common and next time you try to find it weather on your own or while your BF/GF is fingering you pee before hands to make sure that it's the G-spot and not your bladder
"Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” - Robert Heinline
i try and i rub and stuff but nothing happens. what's the problem?
that's ejaculatory fluid building.
She starts to cry during sex I think because she is so sensitive in this spot.
io agree with lad, just try talking to her, dont fele shy to ask if it hurts and tell mher to tell you when she feels uncomftable x
Are you sure you aren't just hitting too deep? In some cases you may hit her cervix, which can be unpleasant for both people.
Try to go gentler is all I can say. If she's still hurting, it may be good for her to see a doctor.
found it and tred to give wife vaginal orgasm but no luck yet. just keep on trying. saw video on efucked of G spot orgasm and it looked as if she is having a fit. want my wife to experience it too
i saw that too. that was the craziest shit i have ever seen. i hella wanna do that
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