G Spot Stimulation
Where is the G-spot?
If your partner is lying on her back, then her Grafenberg Area, commonly known as the G-spot, is located roughly 1.5" inside her vagina on the upper wall. The most ultimate orgasms come from a woman having her G-spot stimulated. This area inside the vagina typically has a different texture; ridged (not as smooth) as the rest of her vagina, and when aroused feels spongy. A G-spot orgasm is often associated with the mystical legend of female ejaculation and 15-30 minutes of a euphoric sensation where she is in complete bliss... Don't expect much from her during this time, she is in heaven.
G-spot Technique
With your fingers approximately two to three inches in, move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of the vagina. It generally feels best if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls while fingering. You may wish to give a LITTLE extra pressure towards her belly as long as you don't break the steady rotational rhythm. Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the (usually slightly ridged) area of the vagina just behind the pubic bone and exert pressure towards her belly (upwards). This is direct G-spot stimulation, and it usually feels best if the fingers are subtly moving. You can move your fingers in small, slow circles, or point your fingers more sharply and rock them back and forth.
An advanced and very successful technique is a combination of the two. Trace the inside of her vagina with your finger(s), while moving in and out. Make sure that your fingertip always hits the g spot on each rotation. Finding a nice rhythm is critical in this technique, and when you get it right, she’ll be asking you how you learned that!
Stimulating G-spot During Intercourse
This topic is covered in greater detail in the vaginal intercourse article in the Intercourse section, but keep in mind the angle you position yourself during intercourse. Being able to stimulate the G-spot during intercourse will definitely increase the likelihood of your partner reaching orgasm through intercourse.
Sex Toys
These are designed specifically for this area and are a great way to enhance your sexual experiences. They can vibrate, stay hard, and best of all they don’t get tired. There is no better way to learn how to experience vaginal orgasms than by using a vibrator to help you figure out how to pleasure your body better. If there is a way to stimulate it, there is a sex toy to automate the process and to no surprise this holds true when referring to the G-spot. Check out our article on G-spot Vibrator toys, or to browse a selection of vibrators with curves to connect right where it counts.
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Good to know
My boyfriend and I are
My boyfriend and I are trying to get me to have the BIG ORGASM that this article talks about. However, no matter how much he tries he can't do it.. and I don't get the peeing feeling unless I'm doing it to myself, which I get tired after about 10 minutes (fingers cramp). When my boyfriend fingers me, he gets a bit tired as well, and I just give up and just have a clitoral orgasm. Am I missing something here? I have read so many articles on how to do this, but I can't possibly succeed... I want great sex... but it's not happening.
ok plz dnt get mad at me 4
ok plz dnt get mad at me 4 sayn dis bt yo man dont no wat he doin i do dis all da time to females n u really missn out on a full body orgasm so i mean if u want it done rite pvt msg me sweetheart
same here i have not had an
same here i have not had an orgasm unless im doing it myself i want that great sex too and so does the boyfriend but ive done almost everything and still cant seem to get there (from clitoral or g-spot) although one time i almost was there but HE FINISHED FIRST!
is it my fault?
my boyfriend and I are active, well...Im the one who keeps him active, lol. Anyways, hes been hitting my G-spot from time to time when were making love...but I never seem to really...finish. Its like...Im going, Im feeling it, hes got it, any second now...and then...its gone..and I feel so, ugh. Hes been feeling disapointed because every since he found out that he can hit my G-spot, hes been trying to hit it even harder so I get more pleasure...and when it goes away and i dont have the G-spot orgasm..I see him getting disapointed :[ we've tried may things like switching positions and things, but he seems to get it when Im on top... Im just wondering..is it my fault? Maybe Im the one making it go away or something...? HELP? :[
I've had the same problem,
I've had the same problem, but I solved it. It's cus you're starting to turn off again, and so the g-spot feeling disappears. So I just gotta make myself stay horny, like, go extremely wild or something, fantasies the thing that turns you on most, concentrate on the good feeling you get when he does this. Stay horny and the g-spot feeling won't leave!
Or, if it's not working you can ask him to push his dick/dildo more upwards, to the upper wall. That's something that will help you get orgasm from the g-spot. :)
Hope it works for you!
is it my fault?
my boyfriend and I are active, well...Im the one who keeps him active, lol. Anyways, hes been hitting my G-spot from time to time when were making love...but I never seem to really...finish. Its like...Im going, Im feeling it, hes got it, any second now...and then...its gone..and I feel so, ugh. Hes been feeling disapointed because every since he found out that he can hit my G-spot, hes been trying to hit it even harder so I get more pleasure...and when it goes away and i dont have the G-spot orgasm..I see him getting disapointed :[ we've tried may things like switching positions and things, but he seems to get it when Im on top... Im just wondering..is it my fault? Maybe Im the one making it go away or something...? HELP? :[
hmm...
i don't really think it feels good when my g spot is touched. i mean, it feels nice but not as nice as the clitorial stimulation. Lol. Maybe it's just not being touched the right way? I've had the pee feeling though.
Yes, a G-spot orgasm is
Yes, a G-spot orgasm is certainly more intense than a clitoral orgasm... and it is something I kind of figured out on my own with a dildo. Once I knew how it worked, (usually I need both g-spot and clitoral stimulation to get the BIG O) then I was on my way to some the best sex I've ever had.
I'm I hitting the spot
I've been looking for the g spot, not sure if I found it, she gets wet but after a few minutes she wants sex, should I make her wait and keep fingering her, is there a little bone that comes out around g spot?
g-spot
tease her a little more till she can't take it, but dont leave it too late and one the upper side of the inside of the vagina most of its smooth and a part is ridged and thats where it is x
I don't know if i have one?
I don't know if i have one? i tried but it just made me feel like i had to pee....
make sure you pee then
make sure you pee then before sex or whatever. but usually with an orgasm, with a not completely empty bladder, you will either pee or ejaculate. the feeling is the same either way.
this is common and next time
this is common and next time you try to find it weather on your own or while your BF/GF is fingering you pee before hands to make sure that it's the G-spot and not your bladder
i try and i rub and stuff
i try and i rub and stuff but nothing happens. what's the problem?
fem. ejac.
that's ejaculatory fluid building.
My fiance
She starts to cry during sex I think because she is so sensitive in this spot.
agreed
io agree with lad, just try talking to her, dont fele shy to ask if it hurts and tell mher to tell you when she feels uncomftable x
Are you sure you aren't just
Are you sure you aren't just hitting too deep? In some cases you may hit her cervix, which can be unpleasant for both people.
Try to go gentler is all I can say. If she's still hurting, it may be good for her to see a doctor.
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found it and tred to give wife vaginal orgasm but no luck yet. just keep on trying. saw video on efucked of G spot orgasm and it looked as if she is having a fit. want my wife to experience it too
dude
i saw that too. that was the craziest shit i have ever seen. i hella wanna do that