vaginal fingering techniques

Fingering Techniques

When performing the following, make sure that your fingers are well lubricated. There is nothing more uncomfortable (and painful) than a dry finger roughly rubbed across a woman's clitoris or pushed inside. In most cases, proper foreplay stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones will usually avoid the problem of Excessive Dryness. Nevertheless, it never hurts to keep a "tube of lube" sitting nearby. Under no circumstance should you put pressure or blame on your partner for this if it happens; work with her to get around it. It’s written all over this and every other sexual information site, but in case you have forgotten, communication is key.

Vaginal Massage

Most women masturbate by rubbing a finger or two over their clitoris, sometimes "through" the skin of their inner or outer lips, in a circular or back-and-forth motion. You can do this too, and it is most helpful to ask, or better yet, have her show you how she likes it done. Lie down side by side, and put your hand over hers while she shows you what she likes. You can also try having her hand over top of yours guiding.


Another technique which women are very receptive of is to have your partner lie on her back, spread her vaginal lips wide apart with your outer fingers, and use your middle finger to rapidly slide up and down her vagina rapidly and lightly grazing her clitoris. This motion alone will often bring a woman to orgasm. Don’t forget to use your mouth while you are fingering, keep kissing her, her neck, and all her other erogenous zones.


An excellent way to begin manual stimulation is to stick one, and later two or more, finger(s) inside her, with your palm cupped over the mons area. We're talking about that fleshy 'mound' over her pubic bone. Your finger should have freedom to move in and out freely while the palm of your hand can add pressure against her vulva and clitoris. Once you get better, you can start moving your palm to add more stimulation.

Another, more intense motion is to position your hand so that you have one or two fingers inside her with your palm facing her body. Now bend your fingers inward and move them in rapid but short movements focusing on her G-Spot. This technique can quickly bring your woman to orgasm, especially when combined with cunnilingus.

Fingering Techniques

Labial Massage

Place a well lubricated hand over her labia, fingers pointing towards her anus. Pull up toward the navel and alternate hands. Explore the inner and outer lips with your fingers. Pull gently on one lip and then the other. Rub the outer lips gently between your forefinger and thumb, then the inner lips.

A-One and A-Two and a-Three

Try inserting your first two fingers into her vagina, then arch your thumb back 'hitch-hiker' style and thrust in until your thumb rests against her clitoris. Now wriggle, twist, thrust, and vibrate your hand to drive her wild.

Close But No Cigar

If your partner has a particular spot that they like to have licked or caressed, try doing so very close to but not quite on that spot. This trick will make them take longer to reach their orgasm, but they will likely have a much stronger, more powerful orgasm when they finally do.

Push Here to Start

Gently insert one finger deeply into her vagina and, when she's ready, insert a second. Then take your thumb and place it against her anus (Don't insert it). Press against her anus while you move your fingers inside her vagina.

Tap Dancing

Place the palm of your hand on her mons (the mound where her pubic hair is), and rest your fingers lightly on her vaginal lips. Rest your thumb on her thigh. Lightly but firmly press your palm onto her mons and begin to move your hand in a tiny circular motion. Your palm should not slide too much over her skin during this process. Rather, her skin should move underneath it. Repeat this process until you have done ten circles. You then raise your fingers and lightly tap her vaginal lips about once a second until you have given her ten taps. After giving the taps, rest your hand for five to ten seconds. Then repeat the whole routine over and over.

Cervix Clock

A woman's cervix can usually be found in the upper rear part of her vagina. The cervix feels like a little dome of tissue, and may also have a small cleft in the middle, like your chin. Carefully stimulate the area surrounding the cervix. Some women may enjoy this and want you to do it more often; others won't.

From the Outside

Lay your free hand over the lower part of your partner's abdomen. Experiment by applying different kinds of pressure with the top hand while fingers from your other hand are inside her vagina.


An excellent way to learn more about pleasing your partner is to rest your fingers over hers while she is masturbating herself. Then do the reverse, with her fingers acting as guides for your own.

Off the Edge

Another form of genital massage can be done by holding a lubricated vaginal lip between your thumb and forefinger. While squeezing just a little, pull your fingers straight away from the woman's body. Your fingers will end up in the air an inch or two above her body. If she likes this, repeat it often.


Ask your partner to help you locate her ovaries. They can usually be felt in the deepest part of the vagina and to the far left or right. Some women will like you to massage this area, others will find it painful. Sensitivity will also vary with her menstrual status.

Proper Invite

Begin with a light, gentle caress that barely touches the inner thighs and pubic hair. Don't go much further until your partner's pelvis begins to arch upwards. Tease and caress until the lips of her vulva invite your fingers to come play.


After applying lubrication, it might be nice to begin with one of the large outer lips. Place the lip between your thumb and forefinger, clasping it at the base where it attaches to the main part of the woman's body. Then run your fingers (or fingertip) from the lower to upper part of the lip, as though you were tracing one side of a parenthesis. Repeat this as long as your partner's feedback is positive.

Crecent Moon

Insert your thumb in her vagina, curl your palm around onto her clitoris, and rest your fingertips on top of her pubic bone. Alternate stimulation between the internal G-Spot, the clitoris, and the external G-Spot\bladder.

Four Directions

With two fingers press firmly up/side/down/side in her vagina, eight times each side.

Gentle Touch and Tickle

Tickle the clitoris extremely lightly.

Healing Thrust

Some women might need and want good, hard, deep, vigorous thrusting penetration. Be sure to keep her relaxed - don't let her get tensed.

Pinch and Pull

Gently pinch and pull on the clitoris.

Rock Around the Clit

With your forefinger make tiny circles, stopping at every 'hour'.

Temple Gate Tease

With one finger, tickle her vaginal opening as lightly as possible.

Tour de France

Orbit your forefinger around between her inner and outer labia from perineum to above her clitoris.

Triple Digit Pet

Use your three longest fingers, with your middle finger gliding along the outside of her vaginal opening and your other two fingers running along the area where her thigh meets her labia.

Twist and Shout

Using one or more fingers, massage in and out while twisting at the wrist.

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I think exploring is so awesome mmmm , i want a girl to cum all over me mmmm

I a man to tease me for a bit

I a man to tease me for a bit kiss tickle me fondle with my hair slow crests my boobs slowly making his way down my body to my legs & spreading them apart & carefully unzipin my shorts to find I'm wearing a tight g string the placing his palm over my g string & rubing it slowly thenpulling his palm back up & sloping my shorts off down my legs then slowly moving his palm back up to my g string & sliding it under my g sting using his palm to massage the top of pussy rubing it softly then stroking my iner crotchback & forth making it tingly followed by fondering with my clit making get wet & hard when its got super wet then move 1 finger into my wet pussy hole slinding in & out for a a bit before slowly slipping in another finger moving both fingers in & out round & round fast & faster flicking them both in my hot pussy using the thumb to rub my clit after a bit moving his tongue down to take over from my thumb & licking & sucking the shit outa my clit while his finger keep pounding me hard & fast till I cum in his hott mouth!

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I was ment to say I like a

I was ment to say I like a man not I a man


When my bf fingers me it hurts.Is there something wrong with his technique or is it just me.

it hurts me sometimes as well

it hurts me sometimes as well but I normally find that it's because i'm not wet enough or that his hand is getting caught on the lips of my pussy... I suggest asking him to take it slowly and gently, to start with just tease gently just by gently rubbing the tip of his finger near your labia then slowly putting his finger in, millimetre at a time, if you can, put your hand over his and if it hurts then give his hand a gentle squeeze so he knows to pause for a couple of seconds then try moving it in a bit further..... but most impotantly you need to stay relaxed, if you tense up it is going to hut, try not to think about it and take deep breaths and just stay relaxed

hope this helps xx

fingering my girlfriend

ok so me and my girlfriend are new to foreplay my buddy said if i had questions come here so i did my girlfriend loves how deep i can finger her and get her off iam the first guy shes done foreplay with we havnt had sex yet but i was really wanting to know is it normal for a guy to get pleasure out of seeing her ready to orgasm it just weird to me but it just makes me happy to see her satisfied

absolutely love this site. it

absolutely love this site. it's given me so many tricks that really work ;-)

what my fiance'e and i do

my fiance'e loves it a lot when i finger her with my fore and middle finger, using my fore finger to rub inside her pussy walls, use my middle finger to rub her gspot, and use my tongue and thumb to play with her clit, gets her to cum very quickly

My bf loves fingering me

My bf loves fingering me during school but we have to be careful cuz I moan loud

wide one
black tie dinner

we were attending a black tie dinner, with an open bar 3 hours before.
by the time dinner arrived, she had already been teasing me for quite a while, showing me her stocking tops under her LBD, occasionally grinding her ass against my cock as we stood talking.
under the table with the tablecloth pulled across her legs, i fingerfucked her between the courses of the meal. before dessert arrived she excused herself to go to the bathroom. when she sat back down, i reached up under her dress again, but she stopped me, and put the lace thong she'd been wearing in my hand, i reached under her dress again, and played with her clit while she ate dessert.
she came multiple times sitting at the table, nobody ever noticed, she managed to keep quiet the entire time.
on the elevator back to our room, she moaned deeply as she ground her ass against my cock.
we barely made it into the room, and she was spread wide on the table, in front of the open window shades, i ate my dessert, and fucked her shaved pussy, while people passed by outside.

how do you do that with out

how do you do that with out being noticed me and my girlfriend could use those tips

My boyfriend fingered me

My boyfriend fingered me when we were in the hot tub, it felt so great when he thrusted his fingers into my vagina and was rubbing on my clit! I didn't want to get out!!

Fingering (especially

Fingering (especially combined with oral) is my favorite. What my husband and I do quite often is I lay on my back and he lays along side me and while I finger my clit he fingers my ass while kissing me and sucking on my breasts, tugging my hair sometimes and so forth. I come so hard from this, I love it. I love having my ass played with, nothing makes me orgasm as hard. I also like to have my pussy slapped a bit sometimes, that can be fun. Nothing too brutal, but a little slapping or flogging can be a great move to add to your fingering techniques. Having your clit rubbed and then slapped while it's super sensitive, then having it rubbed and teased intermittently, fun times. I do it myself sometimes while masturbating.

There's another technique of inserting your index and middle finger into the vagina in the typical "come here" position and then making quick up and down motions with a bit of force with your entire arm keeping your hand in that position, essentially 'hitting' your fingers up against her g-spot in rapid thrusts, it actually looks quite brutal, but it's not painful and can make you squirt. Just make sure your woman is horny and well lubed first. You can find vids of it online, I wish I knew what it was called, but I think it's a tantric technique.

Alright so this question is

Alright so this question is for the girls what technique do you like the best


Alright so I need help. My girlfriend never can orgasm. I finger her, we've had sex for an hour and still nothing and I know I was hitting her G spot for a good 35 min. But she just wont orgasm and I cant seem to find her clit. Ive felt everywhere in there and she just doesnt seem to have one or a very sensitive one. can you guys please help me with this and give me tips to make her cum?

Sexy kongo
common, she definitely has

common, she definitely has one. cuddle her and let her enjoy foreplay for a longer time. let her get horny slowly by herself, she'll cum, and take you to heaven.......


Look up an anatomy guide to the female's area. The clit can be hidden under the hood. It feels like a nub and when a woman's turned on, it sometimes swells. It differs among women. Orgasms are very mental with us women too. Make sure she's comfortable (I'm sure you have) and relaxed. Maybe ask her to masturbate in front of you, and if she does cum that way, let her guide your hand. Sometimes it was hard for me when I let my past boyfriends do it, so I had to get used to how they touched me, get turned on knowing they wanted me to cum, etc.

I suggest starting out slow, stimulating other areas of her body, like parts of her neck, behind her hears, her breasts, thighs, behind her knees, where ever. We have many areas and combining them can make a great experience.

Fingers and cock.

As I'm entering my wife's pussy from behind, I like to slip a few fingers in to feel myself entering her and heighten the feeling of me being inside her. I'm wondering if there's a term for this as I've been looking online to see if anybody else is up to the same tricks?


I swear, I think I finger every day. I've heard that women get hornier than men, even though men are "thought" to be horny all the time. But I've had guys get surprised when I mention that at most I can "go" up to 4 times a day on days I'm feel very needy. I guess I blame my hormones. Week after that monthly gift, my hormones drive me insane and I feel like I have to go somewhere private to take care of it every 3 hours or so. I hope I don't drive my man crazy when we're married, lol. Then again, he just loves teasing me during those times, especially if I wear a thin bra, like grab a quick pinch or sneak a rub on them with his arm around me at the cinema. Maybe I should wear skirts more often...

Monthly Gift

I am the same way, But been really bad this month. I want it constantly, I've been calling my husband home from work even after a nooner to see if he can get off work early. I seriously can't get enough.


I fingered my new gf last night. She was a virgin up to last night so it was special for me. I have trained in massage so thought as it was her birthday I would ask if she wanted a massage as part of her present. I had been told by one of her friends that she thought "C" was ready to try sex and wanted me to instigate it as she was scared. So we went out for a romantic meal and then back to my place. I said "Well I got my certificate so I am a qualified masseur now and was wondering if you wanted a massage. She has stayed over before (and was going to do that night) so she said yes. I lay her down on the bed on her front and started massaging her. After a while I tried gently touching her around her anus and her inner thighs. I had been out for some lube (and massage oil before). I thought well see how she reacts, I very gently moved my hand (with lube on) between her legs. She didn't move although I knew she wasn't asleep. I carried on until I reached her clit. Well she went wild, after a few minutes of gently rubbing it she came!!! Oh my god, that has never happened so quickly before. I asked her to turn over, she was embarassed but compiled. I asked if she wanted me to continue. Yes she said. I kissed her and then got to work downstairs. She was so wet I didn't need any more lube but used some. After giving the outer vagina a bit of attention I gently inserted (after a tiny bit of pushing) one finger and massaged her g-spot. She came almost immediately again. After that, I carried on fingering her with one finger and rubbing her clit with my thumb. She had multiple orgasms. Lets just say, she's is no longer a virgin either.

Love being fingered. My bf

Love being fingered. My bf is fantastic at it and he loves the idea of me coming and him being able to watch the changes of expression on my face when I am close to coming and then eventually come. :) Once the "awkwardness" of it was over (first time with him was quite funny really, I wasn't too sure and he didn't want to force me) it is amazing. Sounds a little strange but he sometimes doesn't want intercourse properly but is quite happy with the fingering. Never was one for "solo" performances if that makes sense, but totally love him fingering me and always come (quickly or not, depending on what I want luckily).


If I do get fingered, I'd prefer if he'd just play around with the clit. It seems painful if he sticks his fingers in really deep; it almost seems like fisting...


I love it when mmy boyfriend gives me the elbow, he shoves his elbow up my fadge and it is really pleasureable! ;)


when a guy has two fingers inside you and twists them round. its the most pleasurable thing ever. watch out though some times it pinches. but its so worth the risk xx

Aight I'm just gonna say I

Aight I'm just gonna say I love this page, gave me more moves more knowledge ;D helps in everyway even eating the pussy :) and also I love the honesty, I think its very sexy when a girl pleases herself so I respect you all :) lol,

g-g-g spot. (Unit! lol)

g-g-g spot. (Unit! lol)

what is the

what is the best/fastest/easy way to make a girl cum?


There's a lot of ways but foreplay is extremely important. Rub your hands all around her and when you're finally in the vaginal area pay a lot of attention to the clit (the small bump near the top of the vagina) because that feels reallyg good.

love it

I love fingering my wife. My wife's pussy usually stinks really bad, and I love when my finger smells like it afterward. There was one occasion when we got sexual right before I left for work...I was running late, so we didn't have time to go all the way, but she let me play with her pussy with my hand a little bit. I reached down the front of her pants and started playing around, and then left for work without washing my hand, so my finger smelled like her stinking pussy.

I often work the night shift, so I sleep during the day. Sometimes she lets me finger her after I get in bed, and I love not washing my hands when it's all over. Then, I can lay my hand on the pillow in front of my nose and take in that lovely pussy stink with every breath, until I fall asleep.

There is no smell in the world better than that of my wife's sweaty, stinking pussy.

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In case you ever read this...

your wife's pussy should not stink. If is does, she either needs to wash better, or go see a doctor. Umm, guess it's good you like it tho.

I am fucking Great at this.

I am fucking Great at this. everytime my fingers enter a girl, it ends in me fucking her. with her cumming a few times before hand.


I hate fingering myself, i cant stand the way it feels inside my vagina, and I don't really like my guy fingering me either. I'd much rather just get fucked by a nice cock. :)

my gf complains too...

she says my nails hurts her and i do cut my nails big time... will try thumb next time...

little tip forr youu

when your guy is fingering youu if youu push down (kinda as if your on the toilet) it tightens your vagina so it hightens the pleasure i do this to my boyfriend and he loves it because he can feel all the walls of my pussy it even makes him moan because im moaning so loud

pokry aka oink
wow ther are meny wayas to

wow ther are meny wayas to us ur finger it now i us can not stop think how my gf will lyk it new wayas have learn to finger ......txn for that lesn....=]

i like fingering myself...i

i like fingering myself...i touch my pussy my ass my tits my neck and my mouth.....i'll either watch myself in the mirror or have my bf watch me or watch porn...i love it so much..i get horny just thinkin about it!!!!!!!!!!!!

never done it

ok so im young &have never fingered a girl before &im nervous that ill mess up or w.e any hints or tips someone could give me for my first time?

I finger my gf ALL the

I finger my gf ALL the time!!! She can't get enuff! I also do it a lot in skool. We tried most of these techniques and my favorite wuz the close but no cigar. I wuz lickin her (DELICIOUS!) pussy 4 an hour b4 she had an orgasm and it was so crazy! Her cum was flyin everywhere, especially in my mouth. It didn't taste 2 bad either. Her favorite was tracing. She told me it felt soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo good and told me 2 keep doin it. I wuz fingerin and kissin her for the rest of the day and she ended up feelin sick cuz she had so many orgasms. But it was the first time I fingered her so it was still REALLY memeroble.

mii boyfriend

mii bf has thick fingers and when he fingers me it feel like his dick is goin deep inside me i fuckin love it ecp when he does it in class but i try not to moan cuz we get caught and i can get pretty loud lol

Issues :/

Me and my gf have got to that sexual stage now, and I've fingered her already, but I had to stop because her jeans were still on and I could hardly move my hand, is there any way I can get the jeans off without having to ask her, and make myslf look retarded? :L

HTip For Vaginal Massage

Slowly place your thumbs inside her vagina. Press downward and to the sides at the same time. As you keep pressing with your thumbs, gently massage back and forth over the lower half of her vagina. Continue this motion for several minutes.

Finish the vaginal massage. Remove your thumbs and gently place your middle finger inside her vagina with your palm facing up. Place the tip of your finger on the top of her vaginal wall just behind the pubic bone. Pull the tip of your finger toward your palm massaging the area with somewhat firm strokes.

gets me everytime

My boyfriend loves to pull up my skirt and put his hand in my panties to finger me when we are in restaurants with my family. Every time we have to sneak off to have a quick f*ck before the meal arrives but I love it. Guys, basically all you have to do is find what turns your girl on when she is by herself and recreate it for that moment. She knows what she's doing you just have to find out.

what a clever job

what about sneaking somewhere in the lobby of the hotel and have some damn inserting which wud feel more nice.

what my girlfriend really

what my girlfriend really likes is when i stick either my middle and/or pointer finger deep inside of her, and then use my thumb to rub her clit...she just went wild the first time I did it. and then sucking on her nipples while I was doing it pushed her over the edge!! try it and let me know if that worked for anybody else!

pokry aka oink
hey fool it dose work she

hey fool it dose work she when wille when i did it

my gurlfriend loves having 4

my gurlfriend loves having 4 fingers inside of her(we dont gorite into 4). she jus moans away and i gently kiss her body,neck,etc. and then i kiss her lips jus to quiet her down a bit. it jus makes me horny thinking about it.:)


umm yah im w/ this girl and i wen to her house to paint supposibly i told my mom and we started makin out then i out my hands in her pants she said no i said 10 min she said no 5 min no 2 min no then i said 2min plzz and she said ok .... i fingered her 4 a hour and she moaned like crazy !!!!