Female Ejaculation
An even greater mystery to most people than Female Orgasm is female ejaculation. Although we may have heard stories about friends who can ejaculate, or who have been with women who can ejaculate, many of us have never actually experienced it first hand. When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite sketchy.
Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.
Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G-spot Stimulation. When the G-spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene's Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.
So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene's Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.
Apart from those who love 'golden showers' (the fetish of urinating on, or being urinated on), many people do not feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner. It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.
If you have any comments about this article, or would like to share your personal experiences, please post below!
its not cuz yur a virgin...you myt be doing it wrong or not long enough. wats yur technique?
well, whats the best way to do it ? & how long should i be doing it ?
Both of us enjoy it in different ways,its make me feel like the best lover in the world and I like alot how my gf moves and shake while she is squirting, its like she really enjoy it. She say that when she is going to squirt she feel like a bomb that gonna explode.
Happily, i think i found a way to make her squirt most of the time we have sex
i can do it and i always do. it's hard for me to do it from vaginal sex though. i have a rough time orgasming from vaginal sex. advice?
me too, i've never orgasmed from vaginal sex so i guess you're not alone..
advice?
sometimes the stuff that causes stimulation isn't near your vagina, it's farther back, which means anal stimulation usually works. usually it works better if you pair vaginal intercourse with another activity that does stimulate you can cause orgasms
I've come close to that feeling when I'm masturbating, and I try to push it out, but I never seem to be able to... Any tips from girls who can squirt?
omg i really wish i knew how to squirt it seems soo fun and nice.
I'm not ready to have sex, so I simply just masturbate. I did it by filling two Deer Park bottles, one with cold water, the other with warm water. I poured the cold one "down there" and massaged, it felt SOOOOOOO good then I did the same with the warm water, I then got this feeling I had to pee, I tried to hold it to run to the bathroom before my parents saw me with my pants off, but I got this big feeling (not an orgasm) I couldn't hold it anymore it just squirted out ha, I now know I ejaculated. But I can't get myself to ejaculate OR orgasm anymore, help???????????
ok I think I may be a squirter. Bu only through clit stimuli. Bad thing is I stop myself before i cum bc it feels to good to handle. I start shaking and feel like i have to pee how can I get past this and make myself cum.
just let it go naturally, it really is too good to handle, but why do you want to deprive yourself of that pleasure? if you just relax, you can have your best orgasms
if you just let yourself go and pee it will not come out as urine, just like a guy ejaculating feels similar to peeing for the guy, a girl squirting feels similar. The body closes off the "pee valve" so its pretty much impossible to pee during an orgasm or anywheres near it
because girls have sex parts similar to guys sex parts. The clit is sort of like the female penis.
you may not ejaculate out of it, but it pretty much works the same
how do u guys feel about girls squirting?
Personally its make me feel like i accomplish my mission
makes sense, but aren't you grossed out by it?
No way, its incredible sexy. Just like guys cumming on girls, which most guys luv!, it is an incredible experience. It makes me feel like ive done my job. Most women would kill to be able to squirt. Embrace it and have fun :)
I have never experienced it myself but I would love to see a woman squirt while we are fooling around and I would do anything to get her there!
Personally i think tht not just myself but guys in general feels like thyv accomplished a great feat by seeing the woman hees "serving" explode uncontrolably
I've got to agree. I love to know that I please my girl.
i think ive almost squirted before...ive asked my boyfriend about fisting me, so he was starting to and all of a sudden i had this massive urge to pee, so i screamed for him to stop. as soon as he stopped, so did the urge to pee. any ideas folks?
that's pre-ejaculation.
try fingering yourself in the shower or tub and just let yourself 'pee', you'll squirt. doing this in the shower at first helps you figure out how much you squirt and such- it can be messy! :)
get him to try fisting you again this time just try not to tell him to stop just go with it and see where it takes you.
My boyfriend discovered I had this gift on our second date. He loves it, he strives to get me there. Yes we make a mess but it is more than worth it. At times he can get me going so much I don't know if I can stop. I'll cum so many times I can't keep count. So any women out there try to get it and guys you'll love it when you can find out how to reach it. It is possiable for every woman to get this gift just keep on pushing.
My second wife definitely ejaculated when I massaged her G-spot. I was not clear and it did not ooze. It was more like cream and it flowed out. Some times it was enough to make the bed totally wet to the point where we started placing a large beach towel under her.
It seems like there are two types of female fluids during organism(just as there are two for a man). One is a clear fluid that serves as the initial lubricant. That seems to come from the clitoris or the vaginal wall. The other can be clear or (as in with my wife) more creamy. It comes from the G-spot (the female counterpart of the male prostate).
I have ejaculated several times.The first time I ever did it was with my ex-boyfriend. He was going down on me for twenty minutes,while I watched an all girl sex scene. I was being really aroused visually and physically.After I came a few times,we got on the floor for doggystyle.As soon as he entered me deeply, I ejaculated a stream down my leg,we thought I urinated on myself. But it was clear and I came very hard. The second time i ejaculated, i was laying back on my ex'es chaise lounge.He was eating me out and he put two fingers in while he sucked my clit intensely,and all of the sudden he snatched his fingers out and put his mouth directly over my vaginal opening,sucked out my cum. i asked him what just happened and he said I squirted. I saw the spray of water on his face. So in conclusion some women can ejaculate.If you are really aroused and stimulated internally and externally at the same time it can happen. Just make sure you go to the bathroom before activity,so you can let loose,without worrying about urinating on your partner. Not cool!
first time i tried to masterbate, I did this and was so scared. i thought i was the only one. I do it every time. Guys seem to love it. Problem is that i can't do it after vaginal intercource. What sucks is thta i can't fake an orgasm. My guy will know. lol. So, how do i completely orgasm from sex?
oh geeze well.
im new and i have to say that everyone seems very non judgemental, which i love, everyone great to each other ^^ awesome.
so when i was younger i was home alone and was playing with myself and after awhile i needed to go pee but it felt different, kinda good, i kept playing with myself and it got to the point where i didnt even know it was going to come erupting out of me, i got so scared and cleaned it all up, i thought i had come since i knew nothing about it, or maybe peed but it didnt smell like pee and it was clear and looked just like water. well...i never let it happen again. NOW 4 YEARS LATER, i find this page and they describe exactly what came from me and where i was touching when it happened. so lately i've been trying it out and i have some questions.
when i feel it coming i can enjoy it as long as i want, i can hold it for as long as i please and let it go whenever, but
1) is it normal if i can do it after just a few seconds?
2) is it normal if i can do it three or four times in a row?
well it is ok on both sides. if it's only a few seconds or multi it's ok. I would not worry about it.
Acually this is possible. Your body sarts to shake a bit and it does feel like pee. It's really nerve racking but feel kinda good after words even though you'll be really tired afterwards. It's kinda thinker then pee though just a lil.
I have ejaculated for the first time the other day. I am 19 years old in a few days. Here is my story. I have been dating my boyfriend for a good while now and we are both very sexual. He is going to school 2hours away from where i'm going to school. He came over to my dorm the other night because we are planning on moving in with each other over the summer and it turned into sex. I have never been so wet in my life and never experince ejaculation or a full blown out orgams. We was laying in bed after a few rounds and i was still very wet so i started masterbating. He noticed what i was doing and said that he wanted to watch and so i let him watch. during masterbating i had cum all over my hand. I didn't stop tho and about 3 minutes later i was about to cum again so i took my fingers out of my pussy so he would be able to see and i'm not sure how it happened but i squrited. He was amazed and i was in shock because i have never been able to ejaculate before. We still can't figure out how this has happened but we are going to try over our spring break.
You are very fortunate. I know about women 45+ years old who have never even had a full orgasm. It is wonderful that you feel free enough to actually ejaculate :)
I've been married for the passed 2 years and I dont think I've experienced what your talking about. I have reached a certain point in sex that feels really good and sorta like I want to pee but I usually change position. I dont masturbate at all. Do you think I need to try it on my own. How would a female masturbate anyways use my fingers?
When you get that feeling of I've got to pee, keep going, keep doing what you were doing to give you that feeling. If you are afraid of what your hubby would say try it on your own first, you can masturbate with your fingers if you like or there are all kinds of toys on the market to help with masturbation, even using your massaging shower head can cause a nice orgasm (although it will be hard to tell if you have really let go). I (personally being a larger girl have a hard time with manual stimulation) so I use sexual aids if I feel like it. However, make sure that you do as the article says and try it somewhere you dont mind getting a bit messy as you never know how much or how often you will let go.
I've felt the feeling like I'm going to pee a lot with certain sex positions. I always stop and change positions because I was afraid I was going to pee. If I keep going will I orgasm?
HELL YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am really trying to get myself to come. I get so close but I can't seem to get myself over the edge. It's easiest to do when I'm on top of my man but still. Am I doing something wrong?!
Dont worry to much lovie im the exact same i seem to be there but cant get it.
I decided recently however (as much as i dislike masturbation) i thought if i can feel comfortable to make myself cum myself alone i should be happier with my boyfriend. Do yourself a favour when you feel like yuor about to cum Push it out.. Like pushing out pee that should work.
I just started doing this, don't know how but I loved it!! My fiance loves when I moan while I suck him off, but I feel dumb doing it. So, one day a couple weeks ago, I told him to finger me while I was doing it, so he did. I all of a sudden just stopped and he said "baby, what are you doing?!" I said, "I think I"m going to squirt." and his eyes got HUGE so he started fingering me harder and then he was rubbing my clit soooooo.....I squirted on him and he and I both looooved it! It is a tad bit tiring, but I can get right back up and keep going :]
ive been super depreessed alot recently because i cant get my gf to have an orgasm. she cant have 1 by herself either, about 7 months ago she used to masterbate alot and would allways have a orgasm, but now with me and by herself it just gets to the point where she gets reallly shaky and has to pee ALOT, like almost to the point of not being able to hold it. were both trying to get her to let it go because we both know from this site that its not peee and that she is just going to ejaculate. i kno that if she is able to let it go shell have an orgasm from it but she just cant let it go. please help, weve tried for about 2 months to get her to just let it go.
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Okay so this is really emmbarrasing but
im 16 years old and i lost my vifginity
in July...I hear everyone saying that sex is this
great thing and it feels amazing but i dont feel
that way =( like i have had orgasms before by masturbating and by my boyrfriend going down on me
but im so confused as to why sex doesnt feel good
it doesnt hurt or anything at all but it
just doesnt feel good so i dont enjoy it. he feels really good and he gets to come but i feel bad when
he asks me if it was good and i have to lie lol
i talked me my boyfriends mom about sex and she said
its cuz the guys doesnt know what they are doing..
but ive had sex with 3 guys and its the same with all
3 of them and they all have different penis sizes so.
anybody have any ideas as to why it doesnt feel good?
SexKitten,
I must say I was an older girl compared to now days of losing my virginity. I was 17 I am 33 now. My first time was aweful and I felt the same way you did. I really thought I was in love with this guy. The whole vision I had of my first time was not how it truly happened. It was on a couch missionary position and all I kept seeing was his face and him breathing on me and just thinking this is not fun for me. No kissing, cuddling or even the I love you he would always say to me. I felt like just another girl for him. When he was done it was over he stood up and pulled up his pants and was like okay another notch in my bed post sorta speak. I never wanted to have sex again. My friends kept saying he must have just been lousy. So the next time I did it with a new partner it was kind of the same thing. I seriously think its the age of the guy. They are just sexually inexperienced and do not know how to please a girl because they really are just as uncomfortable about sex as girls are. When I met the guy I was with and had children with I had the first experience with an orgasm. It was the first time with him that this happened to me. A lot of first happened. Oral sex on me and the first time I seen a pecker in the flesh. I know that sounds funny but its true. I truly lost my virginity at this time. My first time ever having sex I did not bleed but this time all sorts of things happened. I was so embarrassed. Of course he was excited. I cried like a big balling baby. He held me and said all the right things. I remember driving home that night and my pants were wet. Now this was just an orgasm. It will happen for you with the right guy. I have had orgasms by manual stimulation myself and partners also by sexual intercourse alone.
Female Ejaculation
My husband who I have been with for 10 years loves to please and reads watches whatever he can to learn new things. He was a great lover when we first started dating and has just gotten even better. I experienced ejacualtion for the first time about six months ago. Like most women I was refraining because it felt like I had to pee. The first time it was squirt and he kept telling me to keep going. I was thinking oh God he is a freak and likes golden showers. I kept pushing his fingers away from me he kept touching and then I could not stop. It was very hot extremely wet ( not thick but very watery like urine)and lots of it. I could have sworn it was pee. It happened after I ahd already had an orgasm. When your clitoris is super sensitive and you do not wnat anything to touch it. He kept touching and that is when it happened. I was so inquisistive afterwards. One because I was so convinced that I had peed on him and two because the feeling was so awesome. You know how after men ejaculate they want to roll over and go to sleep, well women can do this to. I know I was exhausted. But as soon as he left the bedroom to clean up I jumped up and smelled the sheets convinced it was pee. No smell to it at all. But just like someone poured water on the sheets. I know the artcile says some women might not be able to do this but my suggestion is let go and try, keep on going after orgasm as this is how it happens for me.
i was w/my girl friend and she and i have had ALOT of sexual experiences...but never any like this! she had been givin oral sex but was behind me and on her back(yea i kno sounds nuts but it was extremely amazing)...she turned me on my back began to finger me and was going extremly fast but sooooo deep at the same time.i could feel this feelings that seemed like i needed to pee!i told her to stop and she said "no mami u are not going to pee you're just about to cum something serious"..i was thinking, and said, "no this is different baby but what ever you say!"and then she went in hard and held it for what seemed like ETERNITY, and it all just gushed out!she looked at her hand, smelled it and said"well it isn't pee but its not cum.its very liquidy and it came out of your "pee area" not your "hole".(i was 15 and she was 16, we had no idea how to describe what just happened)her sheets were soaked, and i felt like i was floating, i curled up into a ball cuz I was kinda embrassed but she told me not to be and she would figure out what it was.I asked an older lesbian friend of mine and she laughed so hard and said"girl,its called squirting,she just hit your G-spot something serious".ever since then its like i squirt all the time!
i do not know when cum
the first time I experienced this was when my bf bent me over his bed and started fingering my ass. It felt soo good and I thought well..if he likes it then Im gonna relax and enjoy it to..I clawed the bed and moaned and groaned and I felt like i was gonna pee the bed..he didnt let up..deeper harder faster he kept fingering me.. I didnt know wether I "came" or went..when I got up...the bed was wet my leg was wet and I went home looking it up then found out I squirted..that was back in Oct of 08 I just told him tonite dec. 1st 08 what that was.. he didnt know either he just knew he totally turned me on beyond what he has ever seen me do. We are an older couple ( 41 and 55)and not quite up on all this new lingo. when I told him what he did..He beat his chest and said he's gonna do it to me again...a little secret...I cant wait til he does...smiles...
I 1st came when I was 13 me and another girl from school were xperimenting mutual masturbation my finger up her warm pussy, and she fingered my pussy in a way that made my toes curl.I swore I had 2 pee and I held it then she screamed DO IT and I let go and she lapped it up like a dog
I first discovered female ejaculation while masturbating. Like a lot of you have said, I tried to hold it back, thinking I had to pee. After one particularly good session, I couldn't hold it back, and completely freaked out thinking I had just urinated on myself, and it did smell like urine. The second time it happened I was equally upset until I realized that it didn't smell like urine anymore. So here is just a couple tricks to eliminate the "ew" factor that you may have with urine being in your ejaculate. First, just know that the amount of urine in the ejaculate actually varies from sexual experience to sexual experience, not from woman to woman. If you urinate right before your sexual experience, the come actually has very little urine in it and in fact may smell/taste more like a more liquid version of regular female lubricant. If you havn't urinated for a few hours, it's likely the come with smell a bit like urine upon closer inspection. If you actually have to urinate, or something your bf has done has made you have to pee, then the come, while still being clear, may actually seem totally like pee. It's just a matter of how much you have to urinate :) Second, please don't let anyone tell you that female ejaculation is "gross". Every person has their own neurosis in connection to the "dirty" factor of sex. Come to your own conclusions first, if you are uncomfortable after some experimentation, don't stimulate your g-spot so hard. Softer stimulation against the spot seems to keep you from ejaculating with similar pleasure while general jabbing onto it, across the board, seems to make you ejaculate with enough stimulation. Finally, don't look at porn as an example of female ejaculate! I know there are people who look to porn for answers in something they may be interested in, don't! Most of the women I know who can ejaculate actually only come in small squirts at a time, much like how a man comes. It's not usually a gushing geyser (unless your g spot has been stimulated for hours on end with no relief...and then get ready to be a little wet ;) )so don't worry about it being "too much". Please forgive the pun, but simply go with the flow. Sorry for the long post, btw, I have a lot to say on this topic ;)
you sound like a pro...
lol
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