Female Ejaculation
An even greater mystery to most people than Female Orgasm is female ejaculation. Although we may have heard stories about friends who can ejaculate, or who have been with women who can ejaculate, many of us have never actually experienced it first hand. When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite sketchy.
Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.
Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G-spot Stimulation. When the G-spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene's Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.
So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene's Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.
Apart from those who love 'golden showers' (the fetish of urinating on, or being urinated on), many people do not feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner. It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.
If you have any comments about this article, or would like to share your personal experiences, please post below!
I'm still unsure what my
I'm still unsure what my "cum" looks like. I'm a virgin and I'm seriously unsure about what it looks like or if I've ever ejaculated. I've pressed hard on my g-spot masturbating before and could feel something hit the back of my fingers, but there was also I time I felt extremely embarrassed from accidentally flashing people at school and there was a sticky, wet, goop-like substance sticking to my panties and stretching from my vagina when I went to the bathroom.
But there was a huge difference between the two times I thought I had ejaculated. One was just a little bit and white while the other was a lot and almost clear. How am I supposed to know what's what?
maybe this clears some stuff up
from my experiance lady jizz is clear (or at least looks clear) i remember reading something about the white stuff your talking about but i dont quite remember what it is.... something to do with the menstral cycle. i know this isnt much but it might help :)
Hmm it seems you know where
Hmm it seems you know where your g- spot is if you want to know what cum looks like it varies. My gf just cummed the other night and it was liquid white and clear. Hope this helped
Will she Cum?
Isnt this the same as having a woman cum? (ejaculate)?
Well anyways, i gotta learn how to make my GF do it!
our last sex session lasted a goos 2hour and i held her in Doggystyle for a good 30 mins! making sure I hit that G-Spot to get her feeling real good!
But i think she's holding it back! I see her when she gets spasm's and seems like she wants to explode!! And then she runs outta the bed away from me :(
tell her u want it..or just
tell her u want it..or just hold her until she can't take it anymore
fe ejec
The few orgasms I have, mainly because of discharge I think preoblems, I ejaculate and it it much more full filling as in sexual release compared to simply contracting. Though it tires me and leaves a pulsing on the good days I don't think I've never urinated though, but I do it quiet often ,if I get an orgasm at all, is that normal? And it only happens if I use my electric tooth brush on just the right spot on my clit.
My first time!! XD
O.O So...I totally had NO clue that we females could do this until my b/f told me about it. And I still didn't believe HIM, so I came to this site...which has taught me quite a lot in the week that I've been on here.
Just tried about an hour ago...and did it...kinda freaked out at first, but awesome. Had an orgasm a little later...but still...i'm pretty amazed...I mean...holy shit, who the hell knew?
Now I just gotta tell the boyfriend >.<
is there a cretin technique
is there a cretin technique or something, coz i really want to do it with my girlfriend but dont know how, any tips?
well, you need to know where
well, you need to know where your g/fs g-spot is first. there are tons of positions you can try that would help. they are all around this site. just go to the side bar thing and to where it says Orgasm, it'll re-direct you to another page where there is a list of ejaculation types: Female, Male, Female Orgasm etc. etc. Click the Female Ejaculation link and it should help a little.
I think this whole
I think this whole ejaculating thing applies to me, but I'm just a bit confused about it. When this happens to me loads comes out, and I mean loads - its as much as if I was urinating and if im in bed when I make myself do this then all my sheets get soaked right through absolutely EVERYWHERE! Does anyone have any advice or tips for me? Is this me ejaculating?
it might be, make sure you
it might be, make sure you use the bathroom first. when this happens again, you'll know
Push her over the top
Ok so I can get my gf so close to squirting, she swells up as expected and she feels it right there, but it just doesn't quite get there. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I could just push her over the top and get her to squirt? Thanks
actually...you might just
actually...you might just want to hold the finger there and move it ever so slightly. You also want to assure your gf that it is ok to release
the first time....
the first time i ever came... wow ... it was on valentines day me and my bf were involved in heavy foreplay and all of a sudden i felt myself shake. my boy friend pops his head up chin soaked and says " you just came in my mouth" i was like that doesnt happen its a myth....then it was wait seriously? and i started getting embarresed .... "don't worry i think its hot... i know your not faking anything"
oh my
when i come its really violent.... i start shaking... my body becomes uncontrollable.... my man has to physically restrain my whilst maintain the clitoral stimulation to make sure i come... is there anyone out there who shakes violently like theior having a fit when coming?????
sorta
i start shaking to, and collapse on top of my boyfriend... so he either moves me... or moves under me to keep it going...
Give her a powerful vaginal orgasm
Let me share with you some tips to give her a powerful vaginal orgasm
1. Give her more time to get warmed up. When a woman is not warmed up, she will not reach orgasm. It is natural for women to take a longer time to get warmed up. Therefore, you need to be patient. Engage in prolonged foreplay to turn her on before getting to intercourse.
2. Stimulate her g-spot. G-spot is very sensitive. By applying consistent pressure to the g-spot, you can make her reach orgasm very quickly. To find the g-spot, insert your index finger into her vaginal canal with your palm facing upwards. Make a "come here" motion with your finger. Try to feel a blip at the front wall of her vaginal canal, which is the g-spot.
3. Perform cunnilingus. Women can reach powerful orgasm with cunnilingus. This is because a woman's clitoris consists of more than 8,000 nerve endings, making it the most sensitive area of a human body. By using your tongue to lick her clitoris, you can give her a mind-blowing orgasm that she will never forget.
can i add a few words.
For one i agree all that you said. But i like to add a few things. Like all great sex it all starts before the act! weather its talking about it or planning it, and even the "knocking over the head and draging her to the bed(or even him) at short warning".my GF never came before. After noticing the stop before 'it happened', i convinced her in bondage(basic tie down). Ater the first time she couldn't wait for the next. The one major thing i want to say is that a womans body is like a diesel truck in winter. you have to prime what heats her up. and pump what gets her going.after the two months of 'learning' ( yes every woman is different to get going). I could say a 'pregame' word to get her knowing what was going to happen that night. I am not a big man or a attractive man. but if you love your woman and know how to please her, you will both be happy. our record now is 27 in a hour( yes squirting, from none squirt before). i would be wore out from it and could not finish(for myself), BUT had a great BJ wake-up(more times then not from a great night). Each time when the kids are not home, it becomes a enjoyiable challenge for the both of us. Fair warning....have a bed protector or lots of towels.(we fought in the beginning to see who sleeps in the wet spot.....area.lol) At the record we both slept on the foor in the living room till we had the bed steam cleaned. Also check out squirting 101 video. it will give you some insight! ENJOY
When it says its like urine,
When it says its like urine, how exactly does it mean like it? Is it smell, colour, the amount, or what?
I think I have done this maybe.. but it seems quite weird to be honest, it's like a clear liquid that literally comes gushing out, doesn't smell, almost as much as if I was taking a piss..?
you came. Congrats :)
you came. Congrats :)
That is most likely
That is most likely ejactulation
Amazing
I get so turned on by a woman who can squirt all over my cock or mouth or where ever. its like really close to one of the most amzing things on earth lol. it def dont taste like piss either. it kinda tastes nice and sweet. i like rapidly shakin the tip of my cock in n out when she squirts its all over and its like a fire hydrant for real. like my sheets on top of sheet on top of sheets get soaked along with my matress. its wild. n i think every woman can do it too. they might not be able to orgasm but i think they can all squirt if they practice well enough.
Surprise!
The first time me and my BF had sex, neither of us were virgins btw, he went down on me for awhile which was amazing and got me super wet, then we did it with my legs on his shoulders, and he totally hit my g-spot, when we were done he was like I didn't know you squirt thats hott, and I was like I didn't know either! He like's that he's one of the few guys who can get me to squirt and he eats it like its candy.
I ejaculate almost every
I ejaculate almost every time i have an orgasm ^///^
my husband finds it very hot when I cum on him during intercourse; the more aroused I am the more I "gush", although if we've done it often enough in a day it just becomes drips. It's not pee at all, I accidentally peed a tiny bit in my husband's mouth when he was licking me a few days ago, and he said it's vastly different than my orgasm juices. (he didn't like it at all, but he does like my juice xD;; )
When having oral sex with my
When having oral sex with my partner I come,, but not during sexual intercourse..!
When I do come, It is as much as if I was peeing..is this normal??
Does anyone else have this same problem?
What does it mean if you come a lot and if you come a little?
im a guy....but for the last
im a guy....but for the last question...it probably means that uve come already so it might be slightly less than maybe if u did it 30 mins before the first time....and for the first question...its kind of hard to tell because some people might just drip, some people might gush, and when ur peeing it just comes out..depending on how full ur bladder is....hope that answers ur quesions...(srry for all the dots..its a habit)
This is cool shit right here..
I've cum many times like this, i like to say: like a man, and its fucking awesome. At one point of my life I thought this was just fairy tale, till someone proved it otherwise. But yup I came !!woo-hoo for female cum.
ok, so i cum, and i know
ok, so i cum, and i know that what happens....when iam cumming feels good, but i do not actually feel when i cum, does that make sense? and does anyone else have this "issue"? also can u feel it when a guy cums inside you? without a condom of course?
Yea you can tell. Weve had a
Yea you can tell. Weve had a condom break on us, before and yea i could tell. It`s weird not bad weird good weird lol
I can tell when I'm cumming,
I can tell when I'm cumming, though sometimes just barely, and sometimes I can't even tell if I'm squirting at all
as for feeling him ejaculate...
I might be an oddball here because I've read all over that it depends on the girl but the majority of girls that /can/ feel it only feel the heat. Some girls can't feel it at all, they only feel the slight expansion of the penis and the jerking as it shoots his cum into you. However, I can feel the actual semen spurts and oh.my.gosh. it feels wonderful when my husband shoots his load inside me. I also love the feeling of having 4-6 loads of his cum inside me, i can't really describe the sensation but it's rather addicting xD