Female Ejaculation
An even greater mystery to most people than Female Orgasm is female ejaculation. Although we may have heard stories about friends who can ejaculate, or who have been with women who can ejaculate, many of us have never actually experienced it first hand. When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite sketchy.
Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.
Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G-spot Stimulation. When the G-spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene's Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.
So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene's Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.
Apart from those who love 'golden showers' (the fetish of urinating on, or being urinated on), many people do not feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner. It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.
If you have any comments about this article, or would like to share your personal experiences, please post below!
So am I ejaculating?
Ok. So. I got a new vibrator a few weeks ago and discovered that if I leave it on my clitoris for a while on a certain spot, I get a building feeling and then a need to release, sort of like I need to pee. When I first felt the sensation, I stopped - I was around my boyfriend and what if it really WAS pee? Well, today I decided to see what would happen if I continued. I felt sort of a release like pee, but not really. The liquid that came out was a tiny bit yellow and smelled urine-like, but not completely so. I am not sure what it is, especially since I heard that for this to happen, you have to have an orgasm AND/OR had stimulated the g-spot or something. I did NOT orgasm. Maybe if I kept going I would have, but I was so shocked that it happened, I am not sure what would have occurred afterward.
What is this? Has anyone else had this happen? Why did it happen?
Thanks!!
I think I used to do this
I think I used to do this before when I masturbated, but I thought it was pee. So I started to stop when i got that feeling again. Now I can't seem to do it
:(
Any tips.
I also can't really orgasm via masturbation though...I get to a point where it feels real good, but then I have to stop as I have not got the energy to carry on...I have to stop when I feel like Im about to climax.
My fwb, maneged to get me to get me to orgasm though; I think that certified that before wasn't an orgasm, was nothing in comparison. But I'm not sure, can one come without reaching orgasm then? How can I get myself to orgasm via masturbation, when I get to tired lol? =S
yes you absolutly can cum
yes you absolutly can cum without orgasm, and vice versa. i can cum but not orgasm via masterbation. so i dunno what to do either
gettin to da goal
well basicly my girlfriend and i have been toether for a year now, and we have been havin sex for quite some time. i have been trying to make her cum in every way possible i have stimulated her clitoricly, and massaged her G-spot aswell as eatting her out i know im doin it well since she moans and sticks my head down there and tells me to not stop. so the only problem is that after letz say 15-20 minutes of that a white substances comes out from her vagina and she tells me she feels like peeing or dat it tickles her so i havta stop since i she closes up on me. i have told her to relax and just to let herself go, but according to her da peeing sensation as well as da tickling sensation r too strong to e ignore, please if any1 can help me out i would be ever so thankful i just want my girl to enjoy sex as much as possible. with out havin those sensations.thank you.
Tell her not to fight the
Tell her not to fight the feeling and just let it go! I thought the same thing when it first happen to me. I felt I had urinate. But it felt so much better! Now I'm at the point where I can control it. But it takes lots of practice.
Jhon
The female ejaculation is something great, when ur having sex and feel your body totally wet, it is like you've climbed to another level as a lover.
Squirting
My girlfriend said she wants to try this. She said she squirted with an old boyfriend so she is capable. She wants me to make her squirt again.
I've read how to do it, but what if she can't?
What does that mean?
Is the sexual attraction not the same?
Is she more sexually attracted to him?
questions
Forget about comparisons, first of all. It's usually best in a relationship if old relationships don't come up at all, but if it's too late for that, just ignore it. It's ancient history. After all, you're with her now, not the other guy, right?
2nd of all, quit worrying about performance. Worrying won't help. Ask her what she would like you to do. Be romantic with her, and get her in the mood. try what she says worked before, and then experiment in new ways. Read what has worked for other women in this subject, and try them out. It'll happen, and you can go on from there.
ok so here is my
ok so here is my question....can u generally feel the sensation? because my bf says that i have, but i never feel it....also when he ejaculates inside me i cant feel that either....is that normal??? or ???
You should feel it if you
You should feel it if you get aroused during sex. If you don't feel it when he ejaculates in you, it could be one of two things.
1. you aren't feeling it and aren't in the mood.
or
2. you have enjoyed it so much that its come to the point where you've gone numb. It happens so don't feel bad if you don't feel it.
If you boyfriend knows that you are having an orgasm, just make sure he remembers what he is/was doing so he can stimulate you over and over.
Do you get aroused when you're having sex or during foreplay?
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i get more aroused during sex than foreflay....they are both good though. i know when i am having an orgasm....and he knows it too....but as far as ejaculation im not so sure.....like i said he says i do....one night it was 3 times.....and i know what im feeling when he says i have....but i dont actually feel the sensation that i think i should.....and i usually dont feel anything when he comes.....yes the wetness down there changes and shortly after he gets soft, but i cant actually feel it when he comes....but i guess when i think about it.....when i have given him a blow job, when he actually comes....there isn't as much "force" as you might think when it comes out.....i dunno....i just was wondering if i was normal... :P but then again what is normal?
I squirt, I wasnt completely
I squirt, I wasnt completely sure of it until now, eh cool I guess, w/e
how did you get yourself to
how did you get yourself to squirt?
nice
nice
idunno, im almost always
idunno, im almost always wet. im in my pre-teen years, so yeah. confusing.
a maybe helpful tip
look down a couple times while u are masturbating and check....u might be able to
im 14
what i just said didn't have
what i just said didn't have anything to do with the theme here, right? ok sorry.
i've done this a few times
i've done this a few times without even realizing what i was doing, i was just embarrassed beacuse i thought i accidently peed somehow so i rushed my guy into the shower and have been trying to prevent myself from doing it! i cant wait till next time we have sex because im just gonna let it happen because it feels so good!!
is squirt safe to drink?
with a % of urine in it is it safe to drink?
what does it taste like?
in all the movies the guy always pulls out can you leave it in(Penis)and she still squirt?
hnmm ..
i have never orgasmed from sex but i have from masturbation but i'm not sure if i have ejaculated:/
it feels like i'm going to pee so normally i stop it and use the bathroom but last time i just let it go, i dont know if i came, it smellt a tiny bit like pee? was it?
my pussy is always wet and i
my pussy is always wet and i leak...lol. but is there something wrong wit me? its not like a big puddle or anythin like piss. it just a lil
there's nothin wrong wit
there's nothin wrong wit u....us guys love that..we want u to do that....we want to lick it till there's no more left
Is it bad..?
My pussy is always wet, it's like a flood down there, what can I do to stop this? Is this a turn off to men?
Hell no
A wet pussy is never a turn off to guys, It makes us wanna lick it clean ;)
pussy
i like that. keep the cunt cleaned out. a new way of douching.
ok, I had some oral sex with
ok, I had some oral sex with my gf couple times. whenever i stimulate her clit, she about to cum half way But I cant finish her. Same problem when we have sex, did I do anything wrong? Any suggestions, pls help. She really wants me to make her cum.
cant cum. help?
i want to be able to do this so bad! my boyfriend has been fingering me and performing oral on me for the last 6 months, but he cant make me orgasm or cum. he asks if he is doing anything wrong, and i dont know what to tell him cuz he is the first guy that ive been this serious with. but he cant find my g-spot and i dont know how to show him. plus when i do it to myself i can only make myself cum a little bit. nothing powerful like i heard it can be. can anyone help us? like give me tips for him when he is fingering me. i dont know. i just dont know what to do anymore. if you have any answers, private message me please. thanks :)
its possible
girls do ejaculate. I do, but I can only make myself do it. being a teenager, sex is pushed into the tiniest time frames between parents and siblings being home, so there's never time to work up to it. I think every girl can do it, you just have to get it worked up to it.
:)
Girls do cum! not all girls, but a various amount do. I'm 15, been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and he can always make me squirt - whilst fingering me AND during sex.
Just remember that NOT ALL GIRLS CUM!
ok
ok so your the only teenager i know that wants to have sex now.actually wait teenagers go up to like 17 so how old are you cus im 13?