Female Ejaculation
There is only one mystery greater then that of the female orgasm, it is female ejaculation. We've all heard stories about friends who have been with women who can ejaculate, but how many of us have actually experienced it first hand? When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite gray.
Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea, and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.
Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories here on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G spot stimulation (please read G spot section for more information). When the G spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene's Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.
So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene's Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.
Apart from people who love golden showers, how many people do you know who feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner? It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.
Good luck - and please be sure to write in and share your experiences of this wonderful type of orgasm with others...
wow yeah i thought it was
wow yeah i thought it was pee too!!
when it happens to me, usually its not much but sometimes its A LOT...HOW DO I STOP? can i stop without holding it in?
A question
Is female ejaculation tiring like male ejaculation?
Problem
Anytime that I get really close, instead of liquid coming out, its like a puff of air. This has happened more than once, so I don't know what's going on.
Has anyone had this happened to them, or am I the freak of the sex world? :(
no nothing's wrong with you
no nothing's wrong with you its usually just air escaping ur vagina! sometimes during sex air can get trapped up there and wen u orgasm it can usually slip out, soundin like a fart (also knwn as a vart)! so no! not wierd just one helluva orgasm!
Squirter
It's great that this is becoming less of a myth and that people think it's less weird now. I love doing this with my fiance, he thinks it's awesome. Advice for people trying, but not getting there...
Pee before you have sex. That way you know THAT feeling is in fact you getting close to squirting.
Try on your own first (learning to let go is easier if you aren't worried about him).
PS. It doesn't just come from gspot stimulation, my fiance never hits my gspot, but focuses on my clit. Always gets me there.
i can't do it!
I often time feel like it's coming on and I try to let it go, but I never can. My boyfriend and I have been trying to get me there a lot, but it just won't work. I need some advice on how to get there easily and how to just let it go!!!
:) hooray.. i've always been
:)
hooray.. i've always been afraid of letting myself go, cause i didn't want to pee on him!
haha
ok, im not a freak :)
thankyou
HAHA
A ITS ALL GOOD HERE
question
how does the clit help with FE?
iv had sex and then used my fingers on the g-spot
or just fingers on there own but im interested as to how the clit helps things along?
the first time.....
the first time i had one of these i didn't even realize. My hubby and I were having sex and he nut and when he pulled out, i was wet all over!!! We were so surprised. And I had another one about 20 minutes later. aww man, that was the best!
Female Ejaculation
Female Ejaculation does happen just with the g spot. I ejaculated by my self with a powered toothbrush and it was not inside!!!
Powered Toothbrush
I know this is gonna sound really strange, but...
My girlfriend was reading this comment about you and female ejeculation and the powered toothbrush.
She's a bit nosey by the way...
She wants to know do you mean an electric toothbrush?
Anyway, good luck with it all!!!
um yeah its the urethra
Trust me, its the urethra or it wouldn't feel like the urgent need to pee. First time this happened to me was actually from doggy. I had no clue and held it in. My current bf tends to get me there with a hand/oral combo, usually G + clit.
same
This is how I first discovered it too, I had to make my then bf do it again to make me believe it had happened. From what I have heard it occurs after a long period of stimulation. I've never managed to get it to happen again, but it was definatley an interesting experience.
It happened my first time...
It was quite awhile back in grade school but the shock and awe of it lingers...I was losing my virginity when all off a sundden im drenched! I was stunned! I thought this chick had just pissed all over me! Later while I was telling my buddies of the incindent one of them said "Oh yeah we forgot to warn you...she's a squirter"... whata re friends for?
invest in bedwetting covers for your bed!
I experienced female ejaculation on my own and was initially embarrassed to admit it to my (then new) boyfriend. He brought it up one day after he noticed a little squirt as he was fingering me. I told him I was holding back because I wasn't sure what he would think. He was happy to be with a woman who could do this, and after that, I just let it go. It's truly amazing! We used to soak through towels, but I finally invested in a couple of bedwetting coverlets. They really help keep the bed dry. No more sleeping on wet spots!
I am so relieved to read
I am so relieved to read this. I discovered it while alone and gettin myself off. after being married for years i finally told my hubby about it. he said to next time let go and enjoy it. i did, now its like a challenge for him. he works his ass off till i get there. your totally right about when you think your done keep going, you'll get there.
It's so comforting to read
It's so comforting to read all these posts! i feel like much less of a freak for sqirting. Everyone girlfriend I've asked about have never experienced it and just kinda looked at me in disbelief. And it's nice to get more information than "it's a myth".
It DOES come out of the urethra
Just had to say, YES it DOES come out of the urethra. Read any of the current studies....that is exactly how it comes out....the liquid doesn't come from the bladder, just uses the same tube. I also know from experience (videos are a fun way to capture it happening). I am a gusher....almost every time we have sex I can gush. I used to only gush from being fingered, but with my BF can get me to gush easily having vaginal intercourse...and I have to say....it intensifies my orgasms.
Anyway, I just had to comment on one of the posts when he/she disclaimed where it actually came from. I find the article quite accurate.
It's Not from the urethra. It's from inside the vagina.
Your article is inaccurate and obviously not written by someone who has experienced this. The excess fluid comes from deep inside the vagina..not from the urethra where women urinate from. If you read the replies above, they also verify that it's from deep inside the vagina.
Definitely real!
I had been with my boyfriend for 4 years, having sex reguarly, before I actually had a female ejaculation. I knew what it was but truly didn't think it was real. Now almost everytime it happens I have mutliple orgasms and the sheets get soaking wet....It's actually pretty amazing. It completely surprises me that there are people who doubt this is real! Believe me....It's real!
My girl does
I can get my girl to spray just about every time i finger her, my best technique is her lying on her back and two fingers in a kind of "hook" position just up and down quite roughly on the roof of her vagina
WOW...pretty exhilirating
This happened to me for the first time when my husband and I were having sex on his pool table. He was behind me and just kept going. It was so cool. WHen we got up, there was this huge wet spot. Funny part of this is, we ended up selling the pool table to my former boss who was a real b---h! She never knew! LOL! It's an occasional happening. First, u must be turned on and feeling uninhibited. Second, just keep going (even if it feels like ur done).YOU'RE NOT! It works best from behind. ANd u can have it happen with him inside of u. I squirt so much that my husband says it looks like a design on the bed. He says i make farm animals!
i've always wondered about female ejaculation, AKA "squirting"
i've had that feeling before - thinking it was urine - but after reading this article now i know its not. next time i get the feeling, i'll let it go & see what happens :-D
Oh! It's definitely real.
It happens.
The first time it happened to me I was being fingered, and like most, I thought maybe I had to go to the bathroom. I told my bf at the time - he knew more about what I was feeling than I did, and said "let it out."
The bed was completely soaked. So much came out so fast, and so hard, some made a ricochet off my boyfriend and made it all the way up to my face. We laughed, and thought it was really awesome.
It doesn't happen all the time, and it mostly happens with fingering rather than intercourse. Not every guy can get it to happen, but they're all extremely willing to try. :)
Ive heard it and seen it
Ive heard it and seen it. But when my girl did it the first time. WOW. Down the length of my kingsize bed and soaked, i meen soaked. we laughed like crazy. kinda in shock. now its a goal. quite often reached mainly through hand work. i'm completley shocked how much can be expelled. 1 night it happened 3 times. absolutley crazy. Very draining in energy for the women.
Female Ejaculation
Thank you for finally mentioning how draining it is for women! Ever since we discovered I could squirt, my man makes it a game to see how many time he can make me do it in a night and after some sessions I feel like the walking dead...2 times and I wanna tap out. He's awesome but daayyyyuummmm, give a girl a break!
happens almost every time
The first guy that I ever had sex with had a huge penis and I also liked it hard, but we had just started having sex and were experimenting. I had just figured out that I liked it rough, so when it happened the first time, I thought that he had gone too hard and something bad had happened. He was like "did you pee?" I of course said no and was really confused. So he did some research and we found out what it was. after that it happened all of the time. His bed would be soaked after we did it. We are broken up, so now every time that I sleep with a guy, I make sure to warn them before hand so that they don't freak out and think I peed, because that's embarrassing.
wetspots
Never experienced this until I met the Chad, now I crave the experience of letting go!
Omg lol.i had sex for da
Omg lol.
i had sex for the first time with my bf yesterday and i felt that, and i also thought it was urine. maybe next time i'll let go lol :P