Woman's Erogenous Zones

Her Erogenous Zones

The female body is covered in hot spots nearly from head to toe... Although every woman likes a different combination to varying degrees, here is a list of the most common favorite hot spots!

Her Neck

Her neck must be one of the hottest spots on the female body. We at sexinfo101.com have never found a method more effective than hot passionate kisses on the neck to turn a good night kiss into an invitation for brunch. There are several things to keep in mind here … but most importantly, control yourself! Hickies may have been the big thing when you were younger, but most women hate them, especially when they have to wear turtlenecks for a week! If you must suck for blood, keep the hickies to places that are usually covered by clothes.

Try to have a moist mouth, but don't slobber! Cover different areas of her neck with tender kisses, using the areas under/behind the ears for extra stimulation. Light nibbling and tugging usually work really well also. Start out soft and gentle as she gets into it, slowly go harder and wilder to light that fire of passion within her.

Her Ears

Bundles of nerve endings are in and around the ears, making them ultra-sensitive to your touch. Use the pads of your index finger and thumb to massage the outer ears with slow, firm movements. Gently squeeze the earlobes. Explore the area behind the ear with your lips and tongue, and then exhale deeply but gently while you keep nibbling. Don't be shy about making noise while you're lingering there, the sound of your breath and moans is a huge turn-on for most women. Make sure to remember there is a fine line between sensual ear play and “wet willies”. Very few women enjoy having someone's tongue jammed down their ears!

Her Lips

The number one mistake guys (especially married or in long term relationships) make during sex? Not enough kissing. Women love to kiss, and many of them complain that guys just don't spend enough time on it. But don't just kiss more, also do it better. Try varying the intensity (kiss her softly, then more passionately, then slow it down again). When you're done with her lips, move on to her cheeks, eyelids, forehead, nose, neck, or earlobes (stressing neck and ears). Don’t get dull doing the same thing over and over; make sure to mix up your style. If you generally move your hands all over her body when you kiss (which, by the way, is really good), try kissing her for several minutes without letting your hands roam (focus all you passion on the kiss), and let her indicate when she's ready to move on.

Her Scalp

You've noticed that a lot of women play with their hair? It's not just a nervous habit; they do it because it feels good. Chances are she's wishing you would play with it, too. The scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation, and since she's probably not expecting you to lavish any attention on it, surprise her. Having her hair brushed can be a very sensual experience. Or run your fingers through it as you're kissing her, or, simply caress her scalp gently with your hand. Get some bonus points for washing or blow-drying, just leave the actual styling to her - you'll never get that thing with her bangs to work out right. On the other hand, some women have phobias when it comes to having their head touched; start out slow so your partner has a chance to stop you if she is one of those.

Her Breasts

Breasts are familiar territory for most men and they're fun, so it's unlikely you'll shortchange them. The mistake you're more likely to make is giving them too much (or too vigorous) attention before she's ready. Over-stimulating the breast can be numbing or painful for women during some parts of their menstrual cycle. Try taking the less-is-more approach. Touch her breast softly, then lift your hand away for a moment, and then continue. That allows her to have the important moment of anticipation. Stick to indirect stimulation of the nipples until they become aroused (hard) and don't just focus on the bull’s-eye; same concept as before - anticipation.

The entire breast is rich in nerve endings and all breasts have the same number of nerve endings. Thus, the woman with smaller breasts may experience increased sensations per touch. This results from a condensed amount of nerve endings. All breasts respond with time; lovers, go slow, take your time and slowly fondle the breast. Areas that are especially sensitive to touch include the nipple and the areola (the pinkish area that directly surrounds the nipple).

One of the most sensitive spots, which is often ignored, is the underside of her breast. When kissing and touching her breasts, try starting around the outside and moving inward with slow circles. She may push your mouth or hand directly to her nipples, but don't let her do it, just continue moving slowly towards her nipple. Take your time; she is not going anywhere, so tease her. This whole process should take at least a few minutes. Next, wet the tip of your finger and lightly touch and roll her nipple around. Then, very lightly, using your fingertips, squeeze the nipple between them and when they are nice and hard, bring your mouth in. Note: some women enjoy nibbling and rougher play, while others are really sensitive and prefer light soft touching. Find out her preferences by asking or watching her reactions.

Her Clitoris / G-spot

The clitoris is located at the top juncture of her inner vaginal lips, a small knob of pink flesh. Women like different amounts of direct stimulation on their clitoris. Some women will adore it if you suck hard on their exposed clitoris, others would shriek in pain. You may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the goal is still the same, but you'll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as through her labia. Often, what is unacceptably rough at first may be fine after she's very excited (i.e., very wet). The fact is, most women need a good bit of arousal before having their clitoris targeted, but once they have reached that point, that's where many women want you to devote your attention - often all the way to orgasm. Refer to the female diagram if you are unsure of where the clitoris is located.

Another area for sexual massage is the magical G-spot, located roughly 1.5" inside her vagina on the upper wall. The most ultimate orgasms come from a woman having her G Spot stimulated. This area inside the vagina typically has a different texture; ridged (not as smooth) as the rest of her vagina, and when aroused it feels spongy. Check it out!

Her Perineum

The perineum is the area between the vagina and the anus, it is very sensitive for a lot of women and it often goes unexplored. It's made from tissue similar to the vaginal lips so there are a lot of nerve endings there. It also has an element of intimacy that might turn her on. Some girls are scared of or disgusted by anal play and/or fingering, so if this is the case, ease her mind by reassuring her that you are not going to do anything she is against. It's not a part of the body that's normally exposed, so she will feel like she's giving you special privileges, which can be exciting. This area is like any other area you first encounter that is sensitive, stick to a light touch at first and hold off until she's been aroused for some time. For a smoother experience, try using a little lubricant.

Her Buttocks

Ready to get to the bottom of things? A lot of women like their buttocks attended to, and with more vigor than you might think. You can use pressure on a butt that you wouldn't use on a breast. It's not sensitive the way a nipple or a clitoris is so you can knead them and squeeze them. Many women are self conscious about their behinds, so spending time here will show her that you like it, and hopefully allow her to be more comfortable with herself and you.

The Small Of Her Back

Don't make the mistake of making her breasts the only stop on your way to the main event. That's what she's expecting. Surprise her by asking her to lie on her stomach and sensually massage her lower back. Besides being rich in nerve endings, the small of the back has pressure points where stress can accumulate. A massage there might not turn her on in the same way that sucking on her nipple or rubbing her clitoris will, but it'll feel good and help release stress. What's more, it could even help with arousal, by increasing blood flow and engorgement in the pelvic area.

Start by applying steady but moderate pressure with your fingertips and if she likes it, work up to a deeper massage. It never hurts to throw in a few kisses there as well. One technique we have learned usually works well with a massage is; while you are massaging her, take a minute or so to kiss her neck, then run your tongue very softly down her spine. After this you can continue with the massage or "go for lunch!"

Her Fingers and Toes

A little creativity can go a long way when sex is involved. Here's a tip: Try sucking on her fingers or toes during foreplay or intercourse. (Granted, unless you're a contortionist, the toe thing may be a bit rough during intercourse, but you can usually find her fingers.) They're a lot more sensitive than you might think and for whatever reason, a relatively large area in the brain receives sensation for them. Lightly kissing or passionately sucking them, especially combined with the sensations you're causing in her genitals, can be incredibly erotic.

Her Other Soft Spots

Here is where you can be really creative. Try tenderly kissing or caressing the backs of her knees, the insides of her arms, her inner thighs, or her palms. Women love to have these areas gently stroked, kissed, licked, or blown upon (be gentle on these areas, they are made of very soft tissue). Gentle stimulation is usually more arousing than pressure that's hard or rough. Catching her off guard can be half the fun. A lot of people don't realize that having a tongue going up their inner arm is going to be erotic. Again, we must stress that skin is the largest organ; there is lots to explore, so get at it!

My wrist area

I agree with most of this (except the toes, I wouldnt really enjoy that I dont think haha) but for me Im really ticklish and hardly anyone can find the spot on my neck (besides the back of my neck) that will please me without making me shrink away laughing lol
But my wrist and area on the underneath of my arm between it and the underside of my elbow are rly sensitive in the good way and set of pleasure in me when its kissed, licked, sucked on or bitten playfully its good to read that other women feel the same according to this article haha


Just discovered this site. It's a just wisdom everywhere. Though I don't agree on everything, there's LOTS to be learned.

I might add some erogenous zones:

- Wrists
- Ankles
- Clavicle

Those seem to really turn women on by stroking them VERY softly. Because the skin is pretty much on the bone, it's very sensual. Just try it on your own body. Feels really good.


the neck kissing is a complete turn on for my wife, if you haven't tried gently kissing your partners neck and nibbling on it i highly suggest you give it a shot.

G spot

I take a lot of clitoral stimulation... and i havent even been able to find my own G spot to try getting off on that. any tips?

You may have to up the anty.

You may have to up the anty. At oen point after using my own hands etc for exploration.. I got the courge to buy a dildo and a vibrator.
I explored with those as to what I would like. most of all something with a logn handle and that was bendable.. I am a tall persona nd nnot felxible.
At one point I was able to use it for my own anal exploration..adn that was a complete surprise. Also i treated myself the way I wanted my partner.. but now I have one. to treat me. Clean the instrument... use a condom on it for anal exploration...and most of all.. take time...
Have bath and be gentle. one of my favourite thigns was to sit in the tub with the water from the spout pouring over my clit and deep inyo my vagine.. I love the full but gentle pressure.. that was a good tingler for me. Adn I liekd to feel my muscles contracting. I still like to do it.. for the feling.. to nurture myself. It part of my own forepaly.
If I know myself.. I cna tell my partner what I need.
Also I did buy a vibrator wit several speeds. That way I could explore what works. And the pressure... soft med. hard...
When I had perfected pleasure for myself... I knew it was time to find the rel thing..and I set out...I found a gentle man who is a good communicator.. it is so important to be able to communicate.
It's a first for both of us and that makes the fooling around fun and most of all TRUSTING !! I trust him to explore casue he stops when I say it hurts or when I want more.. ditto for him..and that makes everything more enjoyable and our lvoe for each other grow deeper.

is pulling (really hard) on nipples safe

my BF pulls and bites my nipples really hard - is that safe?

hair pulling.....

soooo the only thing i missed on this article was hair pulling! like how can u miss that massage brushing and playing with hair is great but sumtimes when u already know that rough sex is on the way give the hair a gentle pull if she likes it try a lil harder pull..... i know that drives me crazy.....

I totally agree with that. I

I totally agree with that. I wish my man would pull my hair during rough sex. I think it's hot and it turns me on. He just don't want to hurt me.

The neck

Me i Love to Bite My GF's Neck It's Like our drug the more we do it the more we want each other it tells her that i want it rough it tells her to dig your nails in to me, but when i gentle And Passionately Kiss Her neck i want to make love and not just to Fuck for the fun of it. but to show that i can be gentle

My clitoris isn't very

My clitoris isn't very sensitive either and I think it might have something to do with that I started masturbating when I was like six hard with stuffed animals and through blue jeans when I got older. Could I have damaged myself?

get it checked by a physician

get it checked by a physician. dont guess anything.
clit is very sensitive, it has sensitive pleasure points. it could get damaged if you are rough on it for a long period

No I did the same thing. I

No I did the same thing. I think it may be just because your so used to the way you do it to yourself that it just doesn't respond anymore if that makes sense. I uped to a vibrator to be able to do that again. But I would think you would be fine if someone else stimulates it. Hope that was somewhat helpful.


ok so ive been trying masturbating for a bit now and i dont seem to b very stimulated easily; like my boobs don't seem very... sensitive. nither does anywhere else. is this bad? could something be wrong???

i've heard that the genital

i've heard that the genital areas have very sensitive pleasure points which may get damaged by abrasion or rough play. get it checked. need to be gentle with those areas.

playing with a partner

playinv with yourself and having someone else stimulate your zones are two different experiences. when you touch yourself you may not feel too much pleasure, but i assure you, itll be much more stimulating when some1 else does it to you. it's like how you can't tickle yourself in the sides or armpit but someone else can if they do it to you. hope this helps :p


ok whenever me and my fb have sex, he plays with my nipples. they never get hard though, so after awhile he just gives up on them. is something wrong with me or should i try something to sensitize them more. if so, what???


ok i'm like SUPER SENSITIVE around my clit. i can't handle direct contact. any ideas what i can do to maybe not be as sensitive? also i totally love even tho i don't get very often when he bites and nips at my nipples :D :D

my gf goes crazy when i kiss

my gf goes crazy when i kiss her neck. Make sure if u suck on her neck do it lightly so not to leave any hickeys. But just kisses to the neck will get boring. She also enjoys running your tongue on it too. Kind of like you are eating her out but on her neck.

Try biting

If she likes kissing and licking you should try gentle biting. I love it myself. My husband and I bite each other all the time and we never get hickeys from it.

It tickles bad if I'm not turned on but when we're making out it really turns me on, and he likes it when I do it to him as well.

So true

Oh mai gosh this whole article is so true! I go crazy when my BF kisses my neck or sucks on my fingers. Another place not really mentioned is the belly. When my BF kisses or licks my stomach I get so ancy.

And guys, pay attention to the kissing and back massage part. Nothing kills a woman's erotic high than very little kissing and no back rubbing, it doesnt even have to be a massage. Try rubbing her sides or her back while you make-out. 10 bucks says she'll go bat-shit crazy for it =]

kissing her neck

my girlfriend loves being kissed on the neck. a few passionate kisses just where her pulse is makes her go insane, I can feel her heart race under my lips.

Well Lizz

I happen to like rough. the rougher and more dominant the partner the better. i am also very sensitive and love hard because it gives me more pleasure.

i totally agree

i totally agree



i wouldnt say im a freak in

i wouldnt say im a freak in bed or anything but i love it when he bites my neck like he is attacking me

definitly agree

I LOVEE when my boyfriend is an animal in bed! He always bites and plays rough but knows where to be soft and less rough. I LOVVEEE biting!!!

my BF is scared to try

my BF is scared to try biting my neck cause he thinks i wont like it (as if) any way i can convince him to go for it?


Bite him first, that's how I got my fiance to start. Now he tends to bite me everywhere :s and I'll tell you right now, getting your inner thigh bitten is mind blowing. Especially when you're caught off guard

I'm with ya there...I find

I'm with ya there...I find it more of a turn on when my neck is being bitten versus kissed


my partner is a hard one to work out she gets all giggley whenever i touch her nipples or her clitoris and then squirms me away from those areas. any suggestions on how to stop this problem or work around it?

Re: help

Here are two things I would recommend, one is for if you want to just talk to her about it, the other is if you want to go for the "physical discussion."

Tip 1: Ask her about it. If she laughs or wiggles away, ask her why she doesn't want you to touch her, or if she wants you to try something else (with her clit or breasts). It could be it tickles, she feels embarrassed for some reason, ashamed, or she very, very maybe (subconsciously) wants you to establish dominance and try to control her from wiggling or giggling.

Tip 2: Try helping her relax, first, by a soothing massage or a good cuddle with gentle caresses.
When you start to move towards her nipples or clit, start slowly caressing towards them from far away and kiss her while doing so, gradually making your kisses with her more intense and longer. That way, by the time your touches reach her nipples or clit, (hopefuly) she'll be so enamored with arousal and deeply into the kisses and your touch, she won't laugh or wiggle away.
It may help if you're kind of partially on top of her, too, as a side note.


its possibly the dominance but ask her. I always do it in bed where he tries to do something but i stop him. of course i love it but its nice when he pins me down or forces it sometimes. Makes me feel like hes dominant in bed and leads to interesting other things. ;)

the neck!

Above the waist, there is nothing in this world that drives me crazy like a guy kissing my neck, my ex used to work wonders with his tongue, he'd trail it up over my ears and down round my nexk, planting soft kisses and brushing it with his stubbly chin. Now that got me wet! :]


I love getting my clit rubbed and licked. My boyfriend and i get in the Acrobat position and he rubs my clit, fingers me and gives me an orgasm every time! you should try it, its great and it gets me reallly wett! :)


my girl and i haven't done anything yet, but one of the things that gets her horny is when i softly run my fingertips over her stomach. but it has to be very very gentle so gentle to the point that i can feel the tiny tiny hairs on her stomach with my fingertips

That works for me too, you

That works for me too, you really found a hot spot! Try lightly kissing and blowing gently with tiny little tongue flicks, your girl may like that.

Really a Gud Info

I'm a begineer and learning how to make my GF Satisfy with more new things..

my g/f loves nothing more

my g/f loves nothing more than for me to suck her nipples. she gets very horny when i suck them very hard. she also love when i run my hands all over her body softly. she has very soft skin so i love doing this to her. all women are different and you cant just go by what the article says. these are just the most common places listed

my girlfriend loves her feet

my girlfriend loves her feet to b played with and them massaged and also her toes sucked on lol and im starting to like it more and more each day i do that to her and sumthing for the all guys to try out there is a footjob it takes awhile but it is alot of funn and thats sumthing u need if ur getting tired of the same old stuff everytime you two have sex... just ask her one day and see if she'll do it

right touch

my boyfriend almost brought me to climax just by playing with my nipples, which was both a blessing and a curse considering it wasn't a good time to be doing it.
and i love it when he runs his fingers across the small of my back, its so sensitive and it just turns me on.


that neck thing is true.... my fiance blows raspberries on my neck sometimes and i just adore it so much.

I have used some of these

I have used some of these things on my gf and they woek!!! the thing is that their is so much info that i sometimes forget to do things.....oh well this has really good info

i love my girlfriend she

i love my girlfriend she hads one of those spots all over her body anywhere i kiss lick or touch has her whole body quiverin lol

my girl

my girl has so many good sensitive arousal spots, i can turn her on by sucking on her fingers/toes, lightly touching/sucking on her nipples, kissing her lips, neck, thighs, inner arms etc.
just about everything mentioned in this article works on her.
but none of it lasts very long because as soon as i start doing anything she wants me inside of her..


a note about the bottom:
i'm quite ticklish, and he likes to grab, squeeze, and tickle my butt so that i squirm and laugh in his arms. usually, i let him tickle and kiss me as much as he wants, since i like it too and it gets us both aroused.


i loves tickling my lover hehe shes squirms and squeaks its so cute hehe :) tickling is definitely something that can be fun :o tho i think i might touch her butt to much when we play around but its so perfect anyway for me to tell if i touch it to much?

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Clit stimulators!

One way I have found a way to get my man to pleasure my hot spots before he let's go is for him to take me from behind and not put his penis in me but to rub it in between where the tip of his penis is rubbing the tip of clit and when i'm close i get him to stick it in for a fantastic orgasm. Also with this you can reach underneath and help him along with you so you can cum together!

Naked Boy
you have achieved

you have achieved simultaneous orgasm?

Simultaneous orgasm is

Simultaneous orgasm is pretty hard to do. I've had 7 partners total, and only two of those I really got a chance to get to know really well in bed. Those two are the only ones I've been able to reach climax at the same time, and even then it has only been once with each. The second one I'm currently with, and I anticipate more of them. It takes some patience, some synchronizing, and an acute sense of timing... And they truly are amazing experiences.

Really? It took a few times

Really? It took a few times for me to have an orgasm (first time)but after that we always finish together. We both just get so into it and tease each other enough that our breaking point is the same. It's great.