Positions for Both to Orgasm

Q. I am having problems reaching an orgasm with my boyfriend. The only time I can reach one is when I am on top, but I hate that position. He likes doggy style but I hate that position too. I like missionary, but he hates it. What can we do that we both will like, so that one of us doesn’t end up disappointed in the end?

A. A fun way to find sexual positions that will gratify both of you is to peruse SexInfo101’s Sex Position Guide. You mentioned a few groupings of positions that you didn’t like - well there are plenty of other categories to try out, such as Butterfly, Face to Face and Exotic. However, it’d still be valuable to check out the classes that you and your sexual partner don’t see eye to eye on. There are many variations (with plenty of new ones still to be added) that could still satisfy both of your needs.

Do you and your partner have any physical barriers that affect your comfort in certain sexual positions? For example, do you hate woman on top because it makes you too tired, or because his penis penetrates you too deeply? Whatever the reason, if it’s the only way you can come, try positional aids to make it less of a strain, and give positions a new angle by using supports like counters, stools or ledges … and incorporate Sex Toys like vibrators or dildos to help you reach climax.