Hand-job (Penis Massage)
Penis massage, often referred to as hand jobs, can be a great way to pleasure your male partner, or even bring him all the way to orgasm. They can be used by themselves, or while performing fellatio on your partner.
If you REALLY want to thrill him (and he is open to it), you can mix it up with some Anal Fingering and Prostate Gland Stimulation!
Below is a listing of hand job techniques, mostly gathered from alt.sex.faq. Although not necessary, it is better to perform these using a lubricant.
Pressure
With one hand, pull the shaft's skin toward the base and wrap the fingers of this hand around the base to act as a cock ring. Using the other hand, rhythmically pick various points along the shaft of the penis and squeeze opposite sides of the penile shaft at these points, releasing pressure either immediately or after only a brief period of time.
Fire
Rub the penis between both palms, as if rubbing two sticks together to create fire. Be sure to use plenty of oil.
Glans Head Massage
Hold the penis in one hand with the head sticking up. Using the well-oiled palm of your other hand, slowly and sensitively massage the glans head. Reverse directions every once in a while.
Healing Stroke
With the penis resting on the man's stomach, take one hand and cup the testicles. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other hand up and down the underside of the penis.
Twist and Shout
Pull the skin of the penis toward the base with one hand. With the other hand, corkscrew the penis. This can be done with the thumb and first finger or with your entire grip.
Anvil Stroke
Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top, all the way to the bottom. When you hit the bottom, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat.
Bookends
Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push hard against his penis. Then lift your hands up and down.
Doorknob
Turn the head of his penis like you're trying to open an oily doorknob. Now try turning the other way. Repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by using the other hand to stretch the skin of the penis toward the base.
Double Whammy
Bring your well lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some penises are so big they require both hands; if your partner's doesn't, then use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his testicles, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft then move them together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Pretend you're holding a baseball bat and are about to score a grand slam. You can also vary the directions of your hands: one up, one down at the same time.
Milking
Start with one hand lightly grasping the bottom of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the bottom all the way to the top. When you hit the top, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the bottom of the penis and repeat.
Perpetual Penetration
Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom, letting his penis "penetrate" into your fist on each stroke. Before the head of his penis pops out of your hand, bring the other hand up for the next penetration. This way it seems to him like he is penetrating deeper and deeper into an infinite vagina. Make sure you keep the penetration continuous.
Ring
Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger and pump up and down with it. When you get to the top close the ring. Then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom.
Shaft
Stroke only his shaft, ignoring his glans head. You will notice his glans head swelling and turning red. When it's bright red, use Doorknob, Glans Head Massage, or Perpetual Penetration.
Shuttle Penis
Take the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding onto the loose skin of the shaft. Do this stroke for a while to allow tension to build.
Spot Pinch
Lightly and slowly run a finger up the underside of his penis. Ask him to tell you where the most sensitive spot is. Pinch, squeeze, nibble and tease that spot.



























tips
id like to give my bf a handjob, but dont exactly know how...im a virgin, and want some advice from guys! how do you masturbate? and how should i do it for my guy ? im 14 btw
get some water based lubes
get some water based lubes and put some on his penis then just rube up and down slowly then start to increase the speed a bit.
here u go
well go steal or buy some KY jelly or any brand of lube and put some on your hand or on his dick and just nice and lightly stroke up and down and then ask him if its good or just tell him to tell u wat to do.... btw im a guy and just turned 17 its my bday
Hmmmm.
I just usually settle for giving my man a BJ. I mean, come on! 1 it's less messier and 2 idk . . .
But yeah, *Remembers the first time she gave a BJ.* I swear I was never more sick in my life!!
But yeah, I'm 15 and give BJ's to my 17 year old BF, got a probablem???
Hey! I also have a question, if anyone can answere it for me.
Um, ok, I noticed that whilst I am giving a hand job/ blow job to my BF, there is like this clear fluid that leaks from the tip. Is that normal??
ya it's normal it's his
ya it's normal it's his pre-cum just means he's injoting it :)
Pre-cum
It's normal it's like hiz cock is getting ready to cum LOL .so ur gay rite
hand job
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im gonna hang out with my bf
im gonna hang out with my bf tomorrow, and i want to give him a hand job, but we are not gonna be in a place where we can really do it (like bed), and i dont want him to cum, cause we will be in public (sorta), so can i do it without making him cum?
that can be fun but only for
that can be fun but only for a lil while. honestly to jerk off a guy an not finish is borderline torture, unless the guy is into that. However if it were me, if a girl gave me a handjob an didnt make me cum...id be pretty dissapointed. Just think of it in the reverse, how would you like it if he fingered you an then all of a sudden just stopped without lettin you cum.
Rly? O.o
Does that apply to all guys? O.o Cuz I'm always forced to do this to my bf wether it be stroking him or sucking him off, we never have the time or privacy to finish and I feel rly rly bad about it. But he says he really ejoys me pleasuring him anyway and that it doesn't bother or hurt him if he's too close to cumming and can't. Is it possible for that to be true?
boob sex
my boyfriendd says it feels really good when i lay on my back and he puts his penis between my breasts while i squeez them together and he humps. he loved it.
Titfuck
Did you like it? Would you let him do it again? Have him push all the way up till his penis tip touches you lips for more erotic fun, then watch as he shots all over your face.
Degrading much?
How degrading. Do you want a woman squirting all over your face? I doubt it. Porn gives men a twisted view of sex. All those little moans and "mmmmm"s those women make are all for the men.
Look up advice for women on pleasuring their men and you'll almost always find the phrase "even if you hate every moment, moan and act like you enjoy it, he likes that." I certainly don't want my boyfriend cumming all over my face like I'm some sort of object or pornstar.
Have a little consideration for your lady. Cumming on her face IS degrading. If she HONESTLY enjoys it (not just says she does in fear of losing you, and I guarantee that's the truth behind a lot of women saying they "enjoy" it) then good for you. If she doesn't want it then remember that porn isn't real life and no one deserves to be degraded like that just because a lot of men have superiority complexes.
She's your lover, not your property.
So good
The Perpetual Penetration mixed with the shaft what gets me to cum
i nver gave a guy a hand job
i nver gave a guy a hand job to me i didnt know what to do when we started to touch each others private parts. so to me i didnt have a clue what to pleased him but i think. when i gave him a hand job i looked at him he looked like he like it
huh...what happened?
huh...what happened?
wow
um i heard pizza works too but ive never tried it. when i was twelve though i ust to stick my d**k into conditionar bottles that realy felt good but now im 7 1/2 in long and 15 so i cant do that nelonger lol
masturbation
Im 15 and began masturbation in 7th grade haha i also like jacking off with my pillow
thus the cum
i would like to ask if the cum of guys are dirty? or it is safe to swallow? im scared when my husband want me to swallow till he couldnt see on my mouth... i was very hesitant.
Swallow
It is OK and healthy, my wife has been swallowing mine for 28 years and she is just fine, I love it that she swallows, I always kiss her after oral to show my love
safe
oh i would definitely consider it safe, i'm pretty healthy...if our vaginas can swallow it, im sure our stomachs wont be too harmed
I'm also known as the
I'm also known as the "Cleaning Lady". :P After wiping away everything off his penis, I give him a blowjob. He loves it when I give him a blowjob right after he has cummed. I don't think his cum tastes that good, (he smokes a lot) so I prefer to clean it away first. But I love to please him and know that he loves what I do.
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and also im afraid about what to do if he like cums everywherer
If he cums everywhere, then
If he cums everywhere, then just enjoy it. Isn't the reason you are going to give him a handjob is to make him cum? When he does cum, then watch and enjoy and see how it squirts out. If he does shoots all over, then just put your hand over it and let it cum in you hand. This will make clean-up easy. Just grab a towel or tissue and wipe it off. Don't worry about how to do this. I'm sure you just handling his penis will be a nice thing for him and you will learn quick. Don't be afraid to use some force either, a firm hand can feel real nice once you are getting serious with trying to get him to cum.
first
So basicallyi feel awful because every time my boyfriend fingers me i never return the favor of atleast giving him a handjob. i always think about doing it but i feel like it would be awkward and i feel like i would mess up. Idk what to do cause he is going to get bored without me doing anything back. and we both eventually want to have sex but we gotta get the rest of the steps down first but im too nervous. HElp
you've got nothing to worry
you've got nothing to worry about, just do what you feel and he will like it, were just happy to have girls giving us handjobs :D
Amazing
My hubby loved when I used some of the ideas on here. Will use always. Great way to fore play with him
eewww!! So many fucked up
eewww!! So many fucked up comments on this page!! ick.
circumcised penises
my boyfriend is circumcised and i thought i should give some pointers for girls whose boyfriends are circumcised. so...here it is.
OK before him i had no idea about circumcised dicks. But i learned alot.
With these guys there is less skin protecting the penis, so they will need a little more lube than other guys to fully enjoy it!
Plus, even when they're soft there is no skin covering the head. the head inevitably gets a little desensitized that way, so circumcised guys are not as sensitive on the glands head. Which means you can go a little firmer, firm enough until you get a good response from him.
Another tip: you know where the penis is connected to the body? all around the base? pay attention to that area with your free hand often. That's why they like to give it to you good and hard! = it's that ring around the base. He explodes!
raw meat
Why the fuck would you use raw meat. One that's a disease waitin to happen
Two that's a waste of food and
Three wat would u do wit it when u done