Fellatio II - Advanced
Take a few minutes to read Fellatio Basics and then come back here to fine-tune your approach. Ok ... so now that you have gathered a good understanding of the basics, here are some more advanced lessons that are sure to knock his socks off!
Lesson 1
Place your guy flat on his back on your bed, in a well-lit room. Take his penis in your hand and LOOK at it. You will notice a point of juncture where the two ends of this irregular circle come together. If your partner is not circumcised, this will also be the point where the foreskin is attached. This tiny area is likely the most sensitive spot on his entire body.
Spend time caressing the head and those areas immediately surrounding it. Beneath the head of the penis (glans) is the shaft of the penis. Apparently, according to people who study this type of thing, the shaft does not have many nerve endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high degree of stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue to the exclusion of the glans head itself. You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by paying the right kind of attention to the testicles.
So LOOK at your partner's penis. Study it. Learn its areas of special sensitivity completely and be ready to apply your knowledge to his body with your tongue and with your lips when you bend your loving head over his cock.
Lesson 2
The most important thing to do at the beginning of going down on a man is to learn to gauge his reactions to stimulus. Once this is done, you will be able to finish him on demand, thereby keeping the favor from becoming a chore.
While his erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his testicles in one hand and gently, using only your tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the entire underside of his erect organ. As you explore along the underbelly you will learn those areas that give him the greatest pleasure when your tongue is touching them.
For most men the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring of the head and the foreskin are attached; or were attached prior to his circumcision. Position yourself so that your tongue is in direct contact with the “split” in the glans head, and simply stimulate that area with any variety of motions; circular, back and forth, side to side.
Lesson 3
Place the head of his penis inside your mouth, but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your tongue, begin a circle motion around his head with the tip of your tongue. The head of his penis will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion.
The technique is a great transition move between techniques; just make sure to experiment with the whole spectrum of pleasurable pressure, as this is incredibly stimulating just about any way it is performed. You can also incorporate spinning your head in a back and forth motion to add a little extra sprinkle of love.
Lesson 4
Now let’s discuss a technique that is probably the most common in the world; stroking the penis orally. Take his erection in your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue lovingly over the head until your lips close around the shaft, going as far down as you feel comfortable.
Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive to most stimulation, so the majority of the pleasure is coming from the head of his penis coming into contact with your tongue, roof of the mouth, and or the throat. Since keeping it in contact with something at all times can be difficult, a short and gentle stroking motion can provide a significant impact.
Lesson 5
Wouldn’t it be great if there was a little gauge somewhere that can give you some feedback on how you are doing? Good thing it is exists!
When a man is in a relaxed state, his scrotum and testicles hang freely. As the state of arousal increases, the scrotum will tighten, pulling the testicles closer and closer towards his body. This is a natural process geared at preparing the contents of the testicles for mobilization.
Even better news… his state of arousal, represented in part by his scrotum, can be directly affected by manually and orally stimulating his scrotum. Although you definitely do not want to play rough with his testicles, it can be a welcome change of pace if your neck or arms are getting tired.
Lesson 6
An oral ejaculation is not always a welcome event, especially when it’s not being expected. Although it’s not recommended to cut off the flow entirely, the flow can be reduced by applying pressure to his urethra, found along the entire base of his shaft.
Lesson 7
One of the first problems encountered when learning to perform fellatio was a gag reflex, especially when dealing with men who seem to always want to force their penis as far as they can get it in. (Especially at the moment when they cum!)
According to the statistics, the awkwardness of this situation is confirmed by considering that the average length of your oral cavity is three to three and a half inches while the average penis, in North America, is approximately five and a half inches.
As difficult as it may sound, many have overcome the gag reflex and can take most if not all of their partner into the land of deep-throating. Getting over this hump simply takes practice, ideally on an object that isn’t attached to something that has the tendency to push deeper when you want to abort...
If your partner doesn’t fall victim to the urge to palm your head like a basketball, live training can work... but if all else fails, a popsicle can be a good starter. Just remember to give yourself time to overcome the reflex, rushing this skill will only lead to uncomfortable situations.
In Closing
If you follow these instructions we imagine that you will have the guy in your life eating out of the palm of your hand, or at least eating out of something...
Be safe, and equally important, ENJOY, because that is the most important part.
Try some - or why not all - of the above techniques and neither of you will regret it. Techniques like this are sure to help him achieve an amazing Orgasm!
love it
i love to give head , since in my enviornment it is considered a sclak thing to do , but i love it , i ry to take him fully , inever gag , n he cums almost everytime , but he get kinda rough when he want to cum , n usually when i finish, he just pounces on me n have some wild sex
how to deep throat
okay girls ill break it down for ya.
of youre intrested in learning to deep throat a good way to start learning is like this..
lay flat on your back on a bed that comes about waist level with your guy (wholl be standing) and hang your head slightly over the edge, this should give your throat a straight 180 degree angle with his penis. Now put your hands on his pelvis like you were going to push him away, this will give you control of how far he can enter keeping it comfortable for you. What youll do is each time you suck in go a bit deeper and get used to that and keep advancing as you feel comfortable.
what about me?
i'm afraid to ask my girlfriend to deep throat my cock because mainly i'm "a bit" above average. i'm 15 and i have 8 inch c*ck. what does anyone think will happen if she tries to deep throat it????
deepthroating
hey im about 6-6.5" i know every girl is different, but how would most girls be able to handle it if they were to try and deepthroat me. ive heard uve got to "train" thier gag reflex, and i really dont kno much more than that
deep throating
make sure that they are relaxed and comfortable. Don't put any pressure on her or force her to go futher than they want to or can. Im sure if she threw up on you, you wouldnt find it attractive anymore, so don't push too hard. Also, be patiant with her and let her know she is doing a good job. some girls will already be able to do it no problem but for those who have trouble, just be patiant and make sure they practice lots
another thing you can try...
i have always heard of the ice thing, but one thing i found out is that ice melts so fast, and its too big to fit in your mouth, one thing you can try is frozen grapes, the juice in them stays frozen longer than ice, and when it busts, it tastes good too.. just try it.. my boyfriend loves it..
suggestions
my bf has an above average penis, and i want to get rid of my gag reflexes..and to perfect my head giving skills.
he said im a natural. and im good at it..i want to be great.
i dont know how..now and then i can deep throat. but other times i gag. im not sure what im doing wrong.
is it just practice i need?
haha. but i love to give head. its one of my favorites. although it kils my neck. i love to suck. :)
one way or another. i want to figure out whats the secret to not gagging. >.<
one technique that can feel
one technique that can feel really good is for the giver to LIGHTLY bite (just enough so the teeth are touching the penis) and then pull scrape the teeth along the shaft towards the head, but if you try this and your partner doesn't like it, don't do it
Suggestion...
To be honest, it would be a better idea to make sure he KNOWS you're going to use your teeth before you do it. If the only way you can do this is to take it out of your mouth and say "do you want me to use my teeth a little?", then do that.
I've had it happen to me before and it is not a welcome surprise.
my man
if you wanna get really rough bite it real hard
thats how my man likes it
Yikes! No biting! Are you
Yikes! No biting! Are you really sure he likes that?? If I even feel my gf's teeth I cringe..
NO TEETH LADIES!
Deep throating...
ok, so i'm not great at deep throating, i have a really sensitive gag reflex - which has improved over time, but still...my boyfriend is one of those guys that the article mentions that trys to shove his dick further down my throat than i can take it - any suggestions on how i can sort of hint that i dont want him to do this? i get really awkward actually talking about stuff like this haha.
oh and a note to Lizz:
damn, you spend waaayyy too much time on this site!!
the smell...
hubby and i kinda have a tendency to gag when we smell his jizz. i mean... i figure i can get used to it... but the problem is, he HATES the smell of his own cum. and if he cums in my mouth, he has to force himself to kiss me within a few minutes afterwards. it really puts a damper on the whole experience... so we've learned to stop right before he cums... but we're running out of arousing new places for him to drop the stuff. i'd honestly rather swallow to save mess... any suggestions?? how would it feel if i sucked on candy or had gum in my mouth while i'm going at it??
Smelly semen
A guy's diet can greatly affect the taste & smell of the semen. Meats, for instance, make it ungodly and horrible. Fruits & candy, however, can actually improve it to the point that the smell is innoffensive and the taste is actually quite nice.
Smell?
I didn't realize semen had a strong smell... maybe I've never sniffed my own :S
I would recommend that you get some flavored lubricant... the stuff can usually smell pretty strong, so even just using 5 or 6 drops would probably mask the odor, as well as the taste.
Using a candy would probably hurt him (candy tends to get sharp edges when it melts), and using gum would feel weird... you may also get the impulse to chew when you taste it, which would end badly.
i have heard that mints in
i have heard that mints in your mouth while eating a chick out can give her a tingling feeling i don't know if this works for the male but its worth a try
easy relaxation technique
i discovered this with my boyfriend a while back.
a little bit of alcohol, or other relaxant, can do wonders for deepthroating. he's huge. about 7 and a half inches like and about 5 around so it's pretty difficult for five-foot-two me to get much down. after a few drinks though, it's easy as pie.
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deep throating---
My man is the best and loves when I go down on him---and I of course love it too!
However, his new thing is to push down on my head to increase his depth into my mouth. OMG! I love it but haven't quite mastered the breathing technique along with the fully erect, wide as ever cock down my throat!! My gag reflex is on full alert!
If there is anyone out there that can possibly give me some tips as how I can please my man (and myself in the process) and not choke in the act---I would greatly appreciate it!!
deep thoating tip
the best advice is that practise makes perfect!! it took me awhile to calm down my natural gagging reflex, but i found the best thing is to make sure that you are relaxed and not thinking about gagging or worrying if you will gag or not. i also found that practising with something else (although this may sound weird) but like sticking a banana down your throat and holding it there helps you to practise containing your gag reflexes. HOPE THIS HELPS =]
Tongue Bead
As I have a tongue bead permanently pierced onto my tongue, all of the guys I indulge in oral sex seem to enjoy the extra sensation produced. The only thing I found which draws some unusual attention is that most people know that I am a lover of having a penis in my mouth, but some can be crude and label me a c**k s**ker of really speaking does'nt offend me. After all everybody have their own preferences in their sexual encounters.
I love sucking my hubby's
I love sucking my hubby's c**k and he has a lot of cum and I swallow!! he loves it, it turns him on..
ewww
im glad it turns him on thats just wonderful.
i dont like hearing about married people doing this stuff it makes me picture my parents which creeps me out.
old people dont do that
Oral Sex
As I regularly indulge in this practice (most of the time I am the giver), the circumstances surrounding the act may not always be suitable. I have described how to go about "quickies" which suits me fine as those whom I blow regularly ejaculate "cleanly" into my mouth and down my throat. The point I am trying to make is that at times I've had partners who has more than thicker semen with unusual amount of ejects, that a normal mouth size like mine cannot accomodate. I still haven't found a solution and sometimes at the wrong time a facial is imminent. Without wanting to disappoint my partner, I just let go but a word of advise to those who indulge or are forced to take it on the face. Don't ever let semen be shot in your open eyes as somewhere along the line, semen seem to burn the eyes and blind you up temporarily. The burning sensation is so intense that i'd rather analyze that if an excess amount of semen is going to be released I would rather close my eyes tightly and once the job is done ask my guy to wipe me off.
Lizz
How can I not have a gag
How can I not have a gag reflex !?
try
try practicing with poop. it really works! i do it all the time.. sometimes using my dads lubs! trust me it makes it alot easier when you do the weiner
Fellatio
I tried a different trick and maybe some other woman may want to experimemt. When performing fellatio first make sure that the person getting it (male) wants to be totally sucked off. If this is ok than this is what makes it a great experience for him. Positioning yourself between his legs take only the head of the penis into your mouth and grip tightly with your lips. Thereafter use your free hands to play with, believe it or not, his nipple tips. By tickling the nipples, a lot of sensation is passed down onto the tip of the c**k and within a few minutes an eruption takes place. Because the tip of his penis is gripped tightly, the semen ejaculated is more thick and of a better quality so the woman can really have a great mouthful and at the same time the male partner is totally drained of C*m juices.
Lizz
Shut up
We know already taht you like sucking dick but do you have to repeat it so many god damn times and talk about it so.....could you just give us a warning!! like....STOP HERE IF YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT HOW TO MAKE A CUM PIE.
can you send me recipe of
can you send me recipe of CUM PIE.
pie
mm thats my favorite.
the recipes on my site
WORK
I HAVE TRIED ALL THESE TRICKS ON MY COLLEGUE AT WORK AND ITS GREAT-ANJALI