His Erogenous Zones
His Ears
Bundles of nerve endings are in and around the ears, making them ultra sensitive to your touch. Use the pads of your index finger and thumb to massage the outer ears with slow, firm movements. Gently squeeze the earlobes. Explore the area behind the ear with your lips and tongue, and then blow lightly. Don't be shy about making noise while you're lingering there -- the sound of your breath and moans is a huge turn-on for most men.
His Lips
It is very unlikely that a man will not enjoy kissing his partner. The more you kiss the better. Lips are sensitive and for men it is easy to get him aroused just from kissing. Kissing lets him know that there is (probably) more "good stuff" ahead and that starts his mind fantasizing.
His Neck
The neck is always a great place to turn on your partner. There are several things to keep in mind here, most importantly controlling yourself. Hickies may have been the big thing when you were younger, but most men hate them, especially when they have to wear turtlenecks for a week! (If you must suck for blood, keep the hickies to places that are usually covered by clothes). Try to have a moist mouth, but don't slobber! Cover different areas of his neck with tender kisses, using the areas under/behind the ears for extra stimulation. Light nibbling and tugging usually work really well also. Start out soft and gentle; as he gets into it, slowly go harder and wilder to release his beast within.
His Scalp
The scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation, and since he's probably not expecting you to give any attention to it, surprise him. Many men like to have a gentle head massage or scratching, so if you have nails, gently run your hands through his hair in circular motions while lightly scratching his scalp.
His Chest
To many men, the chest is one of their favorite body parts. To appreciate it is to appreciate the man. Massage it and occasionally whisper how much you love how hard it is (especially if your man works out). Nipples are highly sensitive and should be sucked and nibbled on. Just remember to start out a little slower and work up to harder techniques. Watch for discomfort, some partners have a lower pain threshold then others, so again, communicate.
His Inner Thighs
Inner thighs are always a great place to turn your partner on, as they don’t get touched much during every day life. Whether it is touching, kissing, licking, or nibbling, virtually everything you do around this area will feel good.
His Glans Head
This is the pinnacle of stimulation for a man. The glans head is the purplish, mushroom shaped mass at the top of a man's penis. This is the most sensitive part of his body and concentrating on it is the easiest way to get him off. Men with foreskin have a more sensitive glans head and sometimes need to be handled more gently.
His Perineum
The perineum is the area between the scrotum and the anus. There are a lot of nerve endings there and it is quite responsive to gentle fondling. For a smoother experience, try using a little artificial lubricant or massage oil. You may want to try vigorously massaging the perineum just prior to orgasm; this gives many men a rush of pleasure.
His Anus
The Anus has a large number of nerve endings surrounding it and it is very sensitive. The proper stimulation of this area can heighten a man's pleasure.
His Scrotum
The scrotum is the sack that holds the testicles. This is a very sensitive and very fragile part of a man's body. Applying too much pressure to the testicles will cause immense amounts of pain. This does not mean to stay away from them; it just means to be very gentle. To really get your man going, fondle his testicles gently in one hand. Even more erotic and far more appreciated is to lightly suck or lick the scrotum (try getting one or both testicles in your mouth and humming).
i've done just about everything to me boyfriend and im glad he enjoys it and repays me!!
My boyfriend said that his nipples are ticklish...
Which kind of disappointed me because I have a thing for biting nipples haha.
Lame :/
talk about all guys being different...my bf is very ticklish on his neck so i can't take advantage of that erogenous zone which stinks cause it's def one of mine!
My boyfriend says he really hates his nipples being touched, so I've never had the chance to touch or lick them which I'd like to do... however everytime my hand goes anywhere near them, he jerks away, which also limits how much of his chest I'm allowed to touch..
My ex was the same way but I'm sure eventually you can ease your way into it...my ex started out with no one, not even his previous girlfriends seeing him with his shirt off...when we took showers together he would keep his shirt on but eventually he got comfertable with me and started to let me touch his chest...that's as far as I got though
I second that notion... I was nervous about that too. Unless he's unusually huge... you should be able to take his length if you open your mouth wide enough... ; ) Just make sure to take breaks.... Gag reflexes are NOT FUN...
hi
my boyfriend doesn't like the feel or smell of any lotion. i really like giving him handjobs, but this makes it a bit more difficult, with no lubrications...any tips at all??
KY jelly or some type of presonal lubrication. It has no smell and doesnt taste too bad.
i have never used lubrication on any boyfriend and never had any complaints...if nething it makes them have a more intense orgasm...if you want to give a handjob without lube try doing it in the bath or sucking his dick first then using ur hand afterwards it still works!
my boyfriend fingers me, then has me use my own fluids as lube nd we both think tht is hot. try tht.
Hey, I am a guy, and I am the same way. I hate the feeling of lotion, it smells nice, but the feeling is a major turn off for me. I actually find that spit is the best lubricant. It starts out warm, and heat on almost any part of the male body is a turn-on, especially on the high-nerved areas such as the penis, anus, and nipples. It's also free!
Unfortunately I have the same problem too. My boyfriend hates lotions except for he will use lubricants if I apply it and he doesn't have to touch it with his hands. My suggestion is using your mouth, lube it up with saliva. You can also take a shower or a bath together and use soap, best thing is liquid soap.
Hope this helps
be careful not to keep your jaw open tooo long, take small breaks, learn from my mistake, I ended up in the ER, lol. They had to move my jaw back into place.
My hubby's most Erogenous zones believe it or not is his nipples. I had a chat to him about this and he says that the moment I touch or lick especially the right side an instant erection develops to his c**k. What makes it more facinating is that when I fondle both, it seems to him as if his b**ls is about to bust from swelling. Whats also particularly enjoyable to him is a gentle suck on the nipples.
He may be experiencing what I normally experience when my nipples get sucked and thats the sensation that vibrates on my clit. He also prefers a variance and that seem to work wonders, so much so that before we even do anything loads of sperm are all over my body. This happens when I normally squeeze his shaft to release pre-cum. I then massage the pre-cum onto his tits. The rest is history . LOL :) all men are not the same. :)
Lizz
Hi
If a man has foreskin... how do I can handle it if I want to do what you say?
I thoroughly enjoy taking the twins in my mouth and massaging them with my tongue. He enjoys it each time I play with them.
Hi, I'm virgin and I'm expecting my first big night soon... I'm kind of nervous about pleasing a man, so... how soon do you take the "twins" in your mouth and how long is enough???
Thanks!
First of all, RELAX!! Odds are he's just as nervous as you are, and it's hard to enjoy yourself when you're stressing out about your performance. A good rule of thumb though, it's better to work up slower than faster. When you start heading that direction, start with your hands to get a good feel for what he likes (how much pressure, and stuff like that). Then slowly start with the mouth. I usually work my way down from the penis with licks and kisses. If your guy is rather inexperienced too, I'd stick with just the tongue and lips until you know whether or not he can take it. Some guys (particularly younger ones) are VERY sensitive there and it might prove to be to much (which if it's your first time, you do NOT want him going early since you'll need more time to get ready than he will). If he seems to be handling pretty well without getting to close to...well, going, then you can try putting him in your mouth. Just start with one side, but BE GENTLE. They don't take the pressure that the penis can. You really don't need to leave them in for long, just a quick massage and then back to a few licks. If you really want to rock is world, give him a little lick right behind/below the twins. There's a smooth patch of skin there - called the perineum - and it's super sensitive. All in all, go with your gut and do what feels right. If you find you're really in doubt, you can always ask him what he likes, or what feels good. Most guys will be more than happy to enlighten you. Just remember to have fun, and good luck!
Okay, So My guy loves blowjobs,
but we use a condom all the time,
I don't like suckng on plasic,
thats just not "hot" for me;
And if I suck on him before the condom goes on wont it make the condom be able to slip off easier ?
What should I do in this situation ?
Thanks.
The condom should stay on fine after giving him a blowjob but if you are concerned about it simply wipe him off before the condom goes on. If you're not using 'large' condoms when you don't need them you'll be more than fine.
How do you not hurt him with your teeth?
lol. hey. i hav braces and im really scared that i'll hurt him with them if i give him a blow job. can somebody help?
If you're worried about hurting him, explain this to him, and sit down with him and see if you can work out an alternative, or on the other hand you could just tell him you've been thinking about how to do it without causing him any pain for a while, and implement your tongue and lip elastic, just try to keep your teeth out of the way for now, then when you get used to it or if he doesn't feel any pain from it, slowly incorporate your teeth, to a gentle extent, I've never had braces, but one of my best mates did, and that's exactly how she described it to me, hope this helps. =)
Try just sliding your lips up and down, applying pressure with just your lips. It may work. I have the same problem. Opening wide usually helps, but the lips thing usually work. Also you could just try running your lips over his head. He may like that. I have a mouth full of teeth and although I've been told I have a beautiful smile. Teeth don't go too well with oral sex, they just get in the way!!! :)
have to disagree with you there...i know for a fact that my boyfriend loves it when i use my teeth in fact he said that its a much more intense orgasm when i do use my teeth, you just have to be careful
Very carefully! Just make sure to keep your mouth open enough.
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