His Erogenous Zones

His Ears

Bundles of nerve endings are in and around the ears, making them ultra sensitive to your touch. Use the pads of your index finger and thumb to massage the outer ears with slow, firm movements. Gently squeeze the earlobes. Explore the area behind the ear with your lips and tongue, and then blow lightly. Don't be shy about making noise while you're lingering there -- the sound of your breath and moans is a huge turn-on for most men.

His Lips

It is very unlikely that a man will not enjoy kissing his partner. The more you kiss the better. Lips are sensitive and for men it is easy to get him aroused just from kissing. Kissing lets him know that there is (probably) more "good stuff" ahead and that starts his mind fantasizing.

His Neck

The neck is always a great place to turn on your partner. There are several things to keep in mind here, most importantly controlling yourself. Hickies may have been the big thing when you were younger, but most men hate them, especially when they have to wear turtlenecks for a week! (If you must suck for blood, keep the hickies to places that are usually covered by clothes). Try to have a moist mouth, but don't slobber! Cover different areas of his neck with tender kisses, using the areas under/behind the ears for extra stimulation. Light nibbling and tugging usually work really well also. Start out soft and gentle; as he gets into it, slowly go harder and wilder to release his beast within.

His Scalp

The scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation, and since he's probably not expecting you to give any attention to it, surprise him. Many men like to have a gentle head massage or scratching, so if you have nails, gently run your hands through his hair in circular motions while lightly scratching his scalp.

His Chest

To many men, the chest is one of their favorite body parts. To appreciate it is to appreciate the man. Massage it and occasionally whisper how much you love how hard it is (especially if your man works out). Nipples are highly sensitive and should be sucked and nibbled on. Just remember to start out a little slower and work up to harder techniques. Watch for discomfort, some partners have a lower pain threshold then others, so again, communicate.

His Inner Thighs

Inner thighs are always a great place to turn your partner on, as they don’t get touched much during every day life. Whether it is touching, kissing, licking, or nibbling, virtually everything you do around this area will feel good.

His Glans Head

This is the pinnacle of stimulation for a man. The glans head is the purplish, mushroom shaped mass at the top of a man's penis. This is the most sensitive part of his body and concentrating on it is the easiest way to get him off. Men with foreskin have a more sensitive glans head and sometimes need to be handled more gently.

His Perineum

The perineum is the area between the scrotum and the anus. There are a lot of nerve endings there and it is quite responsive to gentle fondling. For a smoother experience, try using a little artificial lubricant or massage oil. You may want to try vigorously massaging the perineum just prior to orgasm; this gives many men a rush of pleasure.

His Anus

The Anus has a large number of nerve endings surrounding it and it is very sensitive. The proper stimulation of this area can heighten a man's pleasure.

His Scrotum

The scrotum is the sack that holds the testicles. This is a very sensitive and very fragile part of a man's body. Applying too much pressure to the testicles will cause immense amounts of pain. This does not mean to stay away from them; it just means to be very gentle. To really get your man going, fondle his testicles gently in one hand. Even more erotic and far more appreciated is to lightly suck or lick the scrotum (try getting one or both testicles in your mouth and humming).

I feel like I'm not

I feel like I'm not stimulating my bf enough. So this is really good info! I'm 21 but I still feel like I don't know enough to get him ... roaring with sexual pleasure. I can't wait to try touching these areas.

when i go down on my bf, i

when i go down on my bf, i put his tip in my mouth every 8 strokes, it drives him nuts and makes him moan so loud. i try to stimulate the other areas in between, still pretty new to it, so im not all that coordinated yet. lol

there any good tips out there that i could use?


The Plumber gives you better access to those areas! and i found that light touches in between the balls and the anus, the head, with your tongue and finger tips work the best in that area. as for the inner thighs alot more rough touches are more arousing =]

First boyfriend

I just started going out (four months) with my first boyfriend. When we kiss it seems like he knows exactly what to do, going up and down my back and on my sides. I think I've mastered kissing but my hands always stay in the same place--firmly around his neck--while his wander a bit. Should I start moving my hands around?

I think...

He would greatly appreciate your hands doing a bit of wandering around. If you feel nervous about exploring his body whilst kissing, why don't you just tickle around his neck and ears?
Start off making small movements if you're unsure, but eventually explore further, move down to his shoulders, his chest and so on :)

just wondering.....

soooo with my ex one day we were getting into things and i used to suck a lil on his bottom lip well that day we were a lil off and i accidentally started sucking on his tongue.... he LOVED it! of course that lead to my jaw being sore... after that he would like go completely insane if i sucked on his tongue... like that was a cue that sumthing else was gna get sucked on.... soooo would other guys like that? just wondering

It might

It might surprise another guy at first but they'll probably like it.

i agree with the chest thing

i agree with the chest thing completely. and if she gets to kissing or licking my abs its a done deal. i'm fully turned on. lol

just saying

My bf really likes it when I suck on his nipples. I some time lick first then suck it and that turns him on so much his d**k stands up really straight. he always lift his shirt up..

No orgasm.

Hey, me and my boyfriend haven't had sex yet. Just into foreplay at the moment. We've done everything except sex and one thing i noticed was that he never cums. It didn't bother me at first but i started getting really self concious, like i wasn't good enough. I asked him about it and he said that he doesn't know how to cum. That he's never came whilst awake. Is this normal?

Mr. Xar
no orgasm

I don't know if its normal but I can say that this is what I was like as a teenager aswell. Even to this day it takes up to 5hrs or more of arousal before I can finnaly cum. Still can't find a lady up to the task so I have only ever cum like 3 times in my life and I'm 24 years old. It got to the point where there is no reason to mastubate because by the time I get close to cumming my arm is so freaking tired I can barley move it. So no he is not the only one with this "problem".

I've always been more into

I've always been more into foreplay than actual sex but the thing that turns me on the most is teasing a guy and making him climax... I've been with a couple of guys who have said that it takes them hours to cum but after I've teased them for a few minutes they're quivering and begging and a few seconds after that they cum and its amazing for me and them... I've never teased a guy that hasn't cum within minutes x


Wow, you said you last 5hrs and theres not any lady that you have found that is up to the task? my friends and I would love that! we love long sex, or pleasing our partner(and being pleased) for a long time, 5hrs would be heaven for us lol, I hope you can find someone soon who can either please you faster or just fine in that amount of time & get you to cum!

My bf likes for me to moan

My bf likes for me to moan and breath right in his ear but he doesn't want me on his neck much, I think its cause I gave him hickeys so much because he always does that to me but he doesn't want me mouth anywhere around his nipples. I don't know why if its such a turn on spot

my gf kisses and licks my

my gf kisses and licks my earlobes and breaths in my ear. This turns me on soo much. But what gets me turned on even more is when she bites and pulls on it with her teeth. To some people pain isnt a turn on. But we go crazy over it.

i have never had sex outside

i have never had sex outside i have had sex everywhere else in my house like on the stairs in the bed on the floor etc but i wud love to have sex on the beach for the first time how wud i go about doing dat? for example would at nite be better for my first time please help!!!

beach sex=ouch!

I heard beach sex is mostly a mistake for most couples because sand is NOT a good lube at all. If you can manage to leave the sand on the ground and not in your crotch then I think it's worth it because sex on the beach sounds....well sexy. xD

me and my gf had sex outside

me and my gf had sex outside one time. We wound up with bug bites in places we didnt want them. But it was fun and worth it. The breeze makes it awesome as well. I would like to try sex on the beach as well. Best time to do it would be really late at night. Like around 12 or 1.

gave my ex bf head in a

gave my ex bf head in a public place before. most guys dont give a shit about where u are cuz he'll take it anywhere. just start making out and carressing him and then grab his crotch and carress it a little bit. start unbuckling his pants and see where it goes from there good luck ;)


Do guys like to have their nipples scratched lightly and have long fingernails go over their chests gently? I'm concidering trying this with my bf

Depends on the guy. I like

Depends on the guy. I like it having my gf run her fingers over my chest, but ask your man next time you see him

All true...

This whole article is true. I don't think many girls realize how true that part about the chest is. Other than the most obvious form of stimulation, I love it when my girlfriend plays with and sucks my chest and nipples. When she gives my a hand job or blow job and I'm about to orgasm, she pinches my nipples between her fingers and it makes the orgasm even more incredible.

She will also rub her nipples against mine. When she plays with my nipples, she usually gets oral so, if you're a girl who likes oral, try playing with his nipples.

Girls, don't ignore this part of his body.

I always play with a guys

I always play with a guys nipples, it's my favourite bit because I can rub up against his d**k which pleasures us both and then I can lick and suck his nipples whilst being able to watch the pleasure on his face... such a turn on for me x

Thank you

thanks for suggestion I will try it for sure :D

last wedensday

last wednesday me and my boyfriend tried to have sex but he couldn't keep it up.. im not virgin nd he's only had sex one time before.. im into blowjobs but not handjobs i want to know how to help get him hard... and last night i had a dream that me and boyfriend were having sex i had my eyes closed and we were making out but when i opened my eyes he turned into a local boy i have a crush on.. does this mean i'm confused about my relationship can any one give me advice

You could try a flavored

You could try a flavored lubricant...some will get warm when you blow on them or try giving a blow job with a mint in your mouth...the menthal will give him a tingly sensation
and dreams are mostly symbolic...for example the person in you dream may be representing someone else in your life but on the same note sometimes the person being represented is the person you're seeing in your dream...it's up to you to analyze it....personally I wouldn't worry about it too much

My boyfriend wants me to

My boyfriend wants me to stimulate his nipples, but I'm afraid to, cause I think it's a little wierd, and I think that he might not find it as pleasureable as he thinks it's gonna be. What should I do?

Male nipples

I don't really understand why it would be weird. You just lick and suck on them. Most guys love it and so what if he doesn't? Try just lightly flicking them with the tip of your tongue. Don't be afraid, it can't hurt anything and if he likes it...well, you want to do things to make him feel good - don't you??

Nipples HUh?

Well on a weird night my ex gf came across my nipples on her way up my body and decided to lick them and what not. To my surprise after a moment of getting over the awkwardness, it felt good. You should try, be open minded. Remember, what goes on between you and your partner should stay between you both so i see no reason why not to try it.

What's the harm in trying?

If it doesn't work out, then at least you guys will know! My tip is: just give it a go! If it works, that has to be the easiest way to turn a guy on, you'd be really lucky.


My bf really likes blow jobs but lately he has been telling me to go down as far as I can and bite.I tried nibbling but he tells me to bite harder what should I do?

Just do it! Start biting

Just do it! Start biting lightly and move slower so he can tell when it's to much. Tell him to tap your shoulder to head if you start biting to hard. A signal like that can ease communication without interrupting things to much.

do it

It sounds like he wants you too. Just do it.

To bite or not to bite?

Well first, does the idea of biting him make you uncomfortable? not necessarily that you're afraid to hurt him but, you know, are you into that kinda thing? or could it be that the idea is a bit taboo?

I think it's great that your bf actually let you in on his fantasy, it means the communication is there on his part! of course, don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable-but let him know how you feel.


I tried this for the first time with my partner. since i wanna stay a virgin til im married he seemed to like the idea that i give him a handjob. i could never get him to "get off" before. i have tried several times. but after reading this, i tried it. and guess what? SUCCESS! Each time i fondled that spot he would tell me what ever i was doing was great and that he didnt want me to stop. i highly recommend this one.

my boyfriend will NOT let my

my boyfriend will NOT let my try the prostate/anus thing on him. he wont even have it up for discussion. he just says "no, thats disgusting, its out of the question." which sucks, because i really want to try to make orgasm-ing better for him.

Don' knowfosho
Miss out

Just tell him he is really missing out and you might try leaving some of these pages open so he can read about it I was sketch till I went and read some on it hope this helps

Well, you can always make a

Well, you can always make a point that it is highly recommended by doctors that men are penetrated this way, his "no" is probably what most men see it as (a act just for gay men) it's important for men to have this because it's like women checking their breasts for cancer, and is always best performed by a partner who is capable of doing it better, and I've been told it's very pleasurable. By partner has just grasped the idea of it, because he used to be exactly the same, and now, he wants it more than a blow job.

Dont push him if he's not

Dont push him if he's not upfor it but you can always do a little bit of massaging of the area between his testicles and anus while handling his testies

hey. i hav braces and im

hey. i hav braces and im really scared i'll hurt him with them if i give him a blow job which he is dying 4! can somebody help?

Braces shouldn't be an

Braces shouldn't be an issue, because the best blow job is one without teeth involved! =)

hey i've got braces too and

hey i've got braces too and they don't get in the way just take your time and take it slow and make every move, gesture you make count trust me you wont hurt him if your carefull


My gf has braces and it hurts a little, but the pleasure is worth it. Try to cover the braces and your teeth with your lips if you can (I've never had braces so idk if you can...) But, even if you can't, he will love it anyways. Understand that the braces are not the problem really.... It's more the teeth. Just understand that and do what you can but trust me, unless you are crazily rough, he will be fine :)

My bloke seems shy to trying

My bloke seems shy to trying anything with his body, but with mine his comforted by..

he wants to try anal with me but i want to try and pleasure his body how can i swade him to do both ?

i went through the same situation

my bf was the same exact way, he didnt want me to do anything with his body and he also wanted to try anal. he said that it was more important for him to pleasure me, and he just wanted me to sit back and enjoy.

i dont know exactly what to tell you, but i will tell you what i told my bf: i said that it was just as important for me to please him, and it would mean the world to me if he let me do it for him. it took him a while to agree, because he was afraid that i would be grosses out i think. which is ridiculous because i love doing it. and now he knows that. so just make sure you make it clear on how important it is, and how much it would mean to you, and how much you would really enjoy doing it to him. and as for the anal, it may hurt at first, but once you get going it feels so good.

i hope this helps. :)

give it time

yeah, I know what you guys are talking about, I was the same with my bf. What worked well for me was lying in bed kissing and letting my hands wander. for me, I was looking to stimulate his anus because I had heard that it can make guys feel really good. but of course most guys freak out when anything like that gets mentioned because they think it's gay. still, I eased my man into it and now that sort of play is part of our sex life. so I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you go really slowly, you can often get a result! :)


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the perineum

I have tried numerous times to find the perineum on my man, but to no avail. Are some men just not sensitive in that area?

it's the flat surface of

it's the flat surface of skin between the balls and anus, it is a sensitive spot and differs male to male, apply light pressure and vary it, look for a reaction, use three fingers and go in a circular motion, this is great for them when receiving a blow job, of you reaching under during doggy style =)


its between his butthole and balls. How about ask him what feels good in that area? Im sure he can tell you better then anyone here.