>Hello, Im a 24 year old female and cant achieve an orgasm

try not using the vibrator so much. i also recommend getting a b/f and have him do "stuff" with u

All ladies are different, and what works for one may not work for the next person.

Achieving orgasm is a combination of mental / physical / emotional characteristics. I am not a woman but a female friend told me that for her, achieving orgasm is like driving around in the countryside looking for your friend's house ... eventually you'll find it but you may not be sure how you got there.

Basically ... get comfortable, fantasize, experiment. You'll find your groove.

the more aroused/turned on you are the quicker/more achievable an orgasm is for anyone.

try explore places you have never explored... focus mainly on the g-spot with a combination of both fingering and rubbing... this could help.

> the more aroused/turned on you are the quicker/more achievable an orgasm is for anyone.

I agree with this.

> focus mainly on the g-spot with a combination of both fingering and rubbing... this could help.

I disagree with this.

In order for a person to make the transition from being preorgasmic to an orgasmic being, it is necessary to establish the millions of connections between all the sensitive nerve endings and the pleasure center in the brain. This is done by practicing and learning how to masturbate. Most girls/women do not involve the vagina when masturbating, at least until fingers, dildos, and vibrators can be inserted, and then it is not a regular thing to do.

> try explore places you have never explored.

Yes. Learn to turn yourself on by caressing your body and learning what works and where and then incorporate these caresses in a process to increase your level of arousal. Finger the labia and surrounding area as well as the clitoris will be where you will concentrate your attention once you have achieved a fairly high state of arousal. Learning how to touch your clitoris and the labia in order to build your arousal and level of sexual tension is what is required. Involving the G-spot is something for much later on.

If you do want to involve your vagina, concentrate on the abundance of nerve endings surrounding the entrance and just inside.

Once you climax and learn what it takes, you can begin to repeat the process and as you do you will quickly establish a routine of motions, rhythms, and pressures that you will rely upon. Once you can have orgasms repeatedly and consistently, then you can show a lover how by taking his hand and guiding his movements several times until he learns to mimic your technique.