Masturbate Together!
Masturbation does not have to just be a solo sexual activity, it can also be a means of sharing pleasure with your partner. Many people enjoy watching their partner masturbate, and gain pleasure in return from performing this activity for their partner. It can be a thrilling way to start the night, or something you can both do while pleasuring each other
Masturbation also allows partners with different sex drives to feel satisfied within the relationship. You or your partner can masturbate separately, or with each other, to relieve sexual tension and attain sexual fulfillment when the other is unable/unwilling to engage in intercourse or sexual play.
Another benefit of masturbating together is showing your partner what you like. Most people who masturbate don't have trouble getting themselves to climax, and it never hurts for a sexual partner to see some other techniques for pleasuring the other.
Unfortunately, many individuals have trouble masturbating in front of their partner. They believe Masturbation is a solo or secretive act, which they feel embarrassed to share with others. You should never pressure someone to perform something they do not want to do. If you would like to have your partner masturbate for you, bring up the subject, but do not press it if they would prefer not to.
One way you can aid your partner is to actively satisfy yourself and not always expect them to satisfy your sexual needs.
I don't know
I'm not a prude obviously but Idk about masturbating
infront of my gal. It doesn't feel right to do that infront of her.
An Absolute THRILL
My partner & I thrive on mutual masturbation. We love lying next to each other, both of us masturbating ourselves, as well as lying or sitting next to each other, both of us stroking & playing with each other. We LOVE watching each other, and my girlfriend especially loves seeing me come, either on myself or on her. I know it's said that most men are very visual when it comes to sex, and my girlfriend is the only woman I have ever been with who truly enjoys seeing/watching me masturbate, as she gets highly aroused by it. By watching each other, we have learned ways to touch each other to maximize pleasure. It is one of the most erotic things that we share with one another.
Problems Of Masturbation
Men who over-masturbate often have problems . Further, obsessive masturbation may be offensive to your sexual partner and as it may be seen as a substitute for seeming unsatisfactory intercourse. Frequent sexual activity masturbation or intercourse and also creates a surplus of sex hormones and neurotransmitters in the brain. With an excess of these chemicals, you may feel fatigued, and some men report weaker erections over the long term.
Would you like some Quaker
Would you like some masturbation-inhibiting Kellog's Corn Flakes with that or would you prefer to cite a reliable scientific source?
its hot
At first my girlfriend thought i was weird for even bringing this up, but after the first few times she learned alot about what i liked and i learn just as much, its the hottest thing ever and leads to intense sex, atleast for me try it
:)
This is actually a really fun thing to do, you'll both get turned on & it will most likely lead to sex. So try it :).
I have to do it alone
I dont think i CAN masturbate infront of my guy!!! He has no problem doing it infront of me but i just cant, its weird for me. Even if hes in the bathroom and i try it never works the same as when im alone. I have tried once with him beside me kissing me but it still didnt feel the same, i couldnt get myself wet like i can alone.
Masturbate Together
Remember that when you masturbate solo it is best to indulge in erotic fantasies that can be anything you like. Fantasies that are taboo or forbidden, anything... So when you masturbate with a partner it is a brilliant way to get into another persons mind. And do you know that's where sex can be at its best! Mechanics: you wank while giving a commentary on your fantasy to your partner, or, your partner makes up one of your fantasies and talks you through your wank. Or, your partner wanks and you or your partner relates your or their fantasy. There are lots of combinations that add to the variety and interest of your love making.
Finally, as you are getting or receiving fantasies while wanking or being wanked, the orgasm coincides with what really turns your partner on. All much more satisfying.
Regards the Cat...
This works great for when
This works great for when you are a soldier and you are deployed away from your wife. Even though we are using webcams, we both get what we want. And don't be afraid to turn on the video camera so that she can watch over and over again!!!