Male Masturbation Guide
It is a well-known fact that men enjoy masturbation and virtually all men do it with some regularity. There is no maximum or minimum frequency at which you should masturbate. Masturbation is both physically and mentally rewarding and fulfilling. There are no negative side effects, especially the often-joked about 'making you go blind' or 'growing of palm-hair'!
There are many different ways to reach a quality orgasm through masturbation and there is no 'right' way. Try different sensations and see how you like them. Some people enjoy the feel of a full grip, some enjoy using both hands, while others only like to use their thumb and a couple of fingers. Regardless of your preference, lubricants and sex toys like Vibrators & specific Sex Toys for Men (such as the well-known 'Fleshlight') are just a few things to experiment with to find out what you like best.
For the truly athletic amongst us, consider the possibilities of Autofellatio ... the art of orally servicing oneself!
In regards to circumcised versus uncircumcised ... the covered (protected) head of the uncircumcised penis is likely to be generally more sensitive to stimulation. However, both types of penis are capable of receiving great pleasure 'in the right hands'!
Basic Stroke
Place one or both hands around your erect penis and stroke up and down along the shaft. If you require, use some water-based lubricant to increase pleasure. Some men enjoy encircling the head of the penis with each stroke.
Slapping and Beating
This technique involves a steady slapping of the penis back and forth between two hands, against the stomach, or against some other object.
Sources of Stimulation
When using one hand to masturbate, or with a partner, there is the opportunity to receive other forms of sexual stimulation at the same time. Many men find it pleasurable to fondle their scrotum, gently rub the perineum (area between scrotum and anus), and have their nipples rubbed.
The anus is a very sensitive location and many men enjoy practicing Anal Masturbation. Applying pressure to the anal opening, or gently inserting an object inside, can be quite arousing. Many Anal Dildos, better known as butt plugs, are designed to target the Prostate Gland, which is another source of great pleasure that can only be reached through the rectum.
A variety of vibrators provide penile or anal stimulation. Vibrating bullets, vibrating sleeves, or spot vibrators can all provide intense stimulation to your Erogenous Zones.
Penis pumps have long been popular with men as masturbation devices. A generic penis pump consists of a long cylinder that fits over the penis and is attached via a tube to a pump. The pump creates a vacuum around the penis; in doing so it pulls blood into the area and temporarily enlarges the penis, a feeling many men find pleasurable. You should be sure to follow the recommendations for proper use and avoid using it at high pressure for longer than fifteen minutes. Be sure to use ample amounts of water-based lubricant inside the cylinder, as well as around the base of the penis. By doing so you will ensure a tight seal and thus better suction. Attachments for the nipples are available with some pumps.
For more masturbation ideas to round out your repertoire, please refer to our guide on Hand-job Techniques.
The pain is what we call "Blueballs"
its when you get horny and can't reach orgasm =D
you almost stole my name dude.....
I'm 13 and mastirbate twice a day it is so fuckin hot
Ok, this is my 3rd post on this thread, lol. Ok, so when i cum while masturbating, it just kinda drips out instead of shooting. is this normal?
totaly dude. it shoots for some people and drips for some people. but a good way to TRY to shoot is taking a bit longer to orgasm. if you do it fast it will kinda drip, if you take your time you might get it to shoot. good luck :)
does anyone have any fun new ways to masterbate besides the ones on there
I like to lube myself with some styling gel (the kind without alcohol) after I get hard. Then I put a plastic bag over it and stick myself between the cushions of the couch. Just start grinding in and out while keeping the plastic bag in place.
You can also get on your knees and stick it under the cushion or under the mattress on your bed. It really gets me off!
Well im 13 and when i masterbate i do for about 10 mins and i get nothing. is this normal or have i got a problemo?
well i don't think you have a "problemo", i think your just not doing it long enough. try goin untill it feels like you have to urinate and keep going. good luck
Good good xD
it takes a while your first time
it takes a while your first time
put on some porn and just wank away, it should come eventually.
you see my joke there.
im not sure, but i wouldnt tell him, or ask him, but its ur choice
No it should shoot all over the place
ok, so do u have any tips?
I didn't really know where to post this.Earlier today I helped my bf masturbate by telling him how I wanted him and he got off on it,but afterwards he mentioned a fantasy that he has had for a long time. Something about power tools and women in sexy clothing.He wants me to that for him but I am terrified of loud noises...What do I do?Help!
Rofl. That's just like the song Satisfaction by Benny Benassi -- women in sexy clothing and working with power tools.
If it isn't big, loud or fast men don't want anything to do with it. You should go down to Home Depot, buy some power tools and get the sexy clothing on before your man leaves you.
A rough guess would say ur bf is Aussie or american, they like power tools for some reason. My best tip would be to try to get him to fantasive about u in particular, and try to get his mind off power tools and something that u r interested in. And this advice may not b best due to the fact it iscoming from a bored 14 yo but if he is fantasising about powertools more then he is of u, get a new bf that actually thinks about u :)
He's American...and I am 16 so your advice isn't that far off perspective he thinks of me in his fantasies but his interests are polar opposite to mine but I will try thanks
i don't want to make it seem like im an expert or anything but shouldn't you be with someone who has the same interests?
if his are complete opposite to yours then there is a problem.
if i was you i'd get someone with same interests.
but that might just be me.
everytime i use soaps or shampoos , my thing turns red and hurt for a few next day. So i suggest using ur own slaver ...or just normal water is ok . i feel extremely great and shake ...when i use my slaver
what is slaver?
what are some good household lubes that i can use to jerkoff with
Baby oil makes a good lube
um vegtibal oil works, some hair soaps work to but i'd stay away from body wash cause it stings when i try it.... good luck man
hmm maybe the kind of body wash thatyou use doesnt work but it worked for my boyfriend he may have lathered it tho idk I just know he used it
Old Spice body wash works according to my bf Lol also waterbased lotion
Hi,I'm 17 nd lately I find myself getting hard very often nd at the worst moments...it's that normal?.....or am I just a horrny person....my girl gives it to me when ever I want nd all...I jerkoff often too... I just don't want to look at any girl nd get rock hard...it's starting to bring me problems with my girl...everytime it gets worst <(-_-)>
I often get an erection in some of the most akward situations. I hate wearing joggin panys sometime because of the erections. One thing that helps (that I've been doing before watching Superbad) Is tucking my penis in the waistline of my pants so that the head is facing up and the erections disappears after a while.
perfactly normal man, aspecaly at your age. theres not much you can do about it except wait it out
how do you know what age he is? 0.o
im 19 and i am in college and a virgin and like to jack off and stuff never done a thing with a girl can you give me tips to where to do things with a girl and shit
well im 14 and i cnt cumm,...whenever i masturbate i do it with my skin(penis skin) on.is that why i cnt cumm?
i had been masturbating for over 2 years before i came, and it's not great or anything either. don't worry about it
I agree with Ka, voice of experience talking here (though I'm uncircumsised, but that's besides the point)
i'm 18 dude, and i'm circumsized. so idk. but when i was 14 i wasn't cumming. i would give it some time. enjoy it while you can. cumming is a mess.
I made my bf stop masturbating because it made me feel like I wasnt enough for him is that bad?
its not bad for a guy to masturbate even if he has a gf..especially if he is young..you guys should try masturbating together...maybe he just likes to please himself because he knows exactly how he likes it...ive done mutual masturbation before with my gf and its amazing...sometimes its better than sex!
Although I understand why you would want him to stop I dont think that you should. Sexuality is an amazing thing but you cannot limit another person's need to explore themeself. I understand you may think he is doing it because you dont satisfy him, but im sure it is really quite the opposite. Many men masturbate daily (sometimes more), even if they have girlfriends. I know I do; she knows about it and she is okay with it. Sometimes we even have "sex" on our webcams seeing as how we live a considerable distance from each other.
No you shouldnt feel bad, but most guys do masterbate even if their girlfriend is good...my gf is amazing but i still do it, its not because your not good enough but sometimes guys either want it more or they just feel like it...its not because of you.
I guess the feelings I have about him masturbating has something to do with the reason why he started.His ex paid absolutley no attention or affection to him but I do...and thats why I had issue with feeling inadequate...cuz he started cuz of lack...I guess thats why it really bothers me.
I know some people masturbate in the shower and some in bed. If you do it in bed, where you cumming? Cause i'm sure in your pants isn't a good place. and getting up for a toilet isn't exactly fun.
I personally like masterbating in the shower. It's warmm and private and u don't need to clean up. But whatever you like
Try using a clean sock to masterbate in bed. i usually turn it inside out so the soft part of the sock touches your penis. blow a load in that and throw in the washer the next day. Hope this helps =)
I'm a uni student living away from home n when I jack of in bed I am usually starkers (naked). and that gives me 2 choices.
1. if am planning to wash my sheets that day I shoot my load straight on to them, then make sure that I do wash them.
2. if I ante planning to wash my sheets I role on to my side and shoot my load on to a dirty pair of boxers, which will end up in the wash within a day or two.
hope this helps.
ok so im a 16 year old girl, and im very shy at first when the subject of handjobs/blowjobs cum into conversation....but once it starts i really reaalty enjoy giving head and handjobs. is that ok for a girl to enjoy that sort of thing plus hearing and seeing guys jack off it gets me so hot. Well anyways can some of you guys give me tips on how to better my bj's an handjobs?
tickle the underside of the head with the tip of ur tounge or ur thumbs!...it feels amazing!...also try to alternate between playing with his penis and balls...this can help make him last longer to cum and thus will make his orgasm more intense!!...good luck!..and its great to hear girls like to give handjobs!!...lol
Use your tongue when you give him head and he'll LOVE it. Also, guys love it when you can involve humor in handjobs. making him laugh and jacking him off are a potent combo. (BTW...you posted on my birthday)
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