Are you saying that your boyfriend is wearing a condom while you stimulate him orally? If so, why? One of the reasons for oral stimulation is to dramatically intensify the feelings he receives and by having a barrier in the way is a major impediment.
If so, latex does have a unique taste. If the condom is a lubricated type, then you are tasting that, just the same as if it was a flavored type.
well it is only oral sex. if you are 100% sure that nevither of you have anything you shouldnt (stds etc) then you may aswell not use a condom. as long as none of his spem goes near for vagina then there is nothing to worry about. BUT, if you do have sex make sure you DO use a condom, and wait till you are older.
[quote=tommy_tucker;191957]well it is only oral sex. if you are 100% sure that nevither of you have anything you shouldnt (stds etc) then you may aswell not use a condom. as long as none of his spem goes near for vagina then there is nothing to worry about. BUT, if you do have sex make sure you DO use a condom, and wait till you are older.[/quote]
I think she needs to stick with condom use...they are beyond "just oral"...try adding a spermicide foam.
When first time i gave oral sex to my bf, i didn't really want it, I did it just because of him and it wasn't pleasant taste for me. But then i enjoyed to see him how he enjoyes it and i started to like it and no bad taste "for me".
I usually gave an oral sex before he uses condom, but ones i did it after he used it was unpleasant taste first. good luck
A blowjob with a condom is a common practice among those who do not know one another that well. Get dry (unlubricated) polyurethan condoms. Latex tastes as bad as semen and the lubricant is not good tasting - usually spermicidal. The dry condoms are good for oral and then add a tube of spermicidal jelly to vagina before vaginal sex.
i hate giving blowjobs whilst using a condom, i find the taste terrible. but i guess i am lucky caues my bf and i have only been with each other so i know i cant catch anything
[QUOTE=goodinbed;191956]We Always Where Condoms Since Were Only 14 Are Parents Would Kill Us If They Found Out We Were Having Sex.[/QUOTE]
Are you limiting your activities to hand jobs and oral {foreplay) or are you having intercourse? The reason I'm asking for clarification is because the word "sex" means different activities to different people.
I agree with Sera, if the latter, then a condom is an absolute must, along with spermicide or some other form of BC for you.
If you are limiting your activities to oral, then I still agree that you should use a condom given you lack of knowledge and likelihood of inadvertent carelessness.
Try Astroglide lubricant on the condoms; it has kind of a fruity flavor to it and you might like the taste better. It comes in a little clear bottle with a purple cap.
I say kudos to the two of you for being smart enough to protect yourselves and use condoms at this stage of your relationship. :) If you're absolutely certain, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you are the only partner he has ever had, and he is certain of that about you, and you're both STD-free, then you could forego the condom for oral; but there's never anything wrong with choosing to have safer sex and I'm glad you're both being proactive about your health.
[quote=dancingdoc2;192001]Are you limiting your activities to hand jobs and oral {foreplay) or are you having intercourse? The reason I'm asking for clarification is because the word "sex" means different activities to different people.
I agree with Sera, if the latter, then a condom is an absolute must, along with spermicide or some other form of BC for you.
If you are limiting your activities to oral, then I still agree that you should use a condom given you lack of knowledge and likelihood of inadvertent carelessness.[/quote]
this should please him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
when your on top turn around and crawl torwards his dick(My BF Told Me He Loves Watching My A** And Loves Watching His Penis Go Into My Vagina). Keep Crawling Till Your Past His Dick. Then Turn Around And Give Him A Blowjob. Then A Little Dick Massage. Then Tell Him To Roll Over And Lick His A**. My Man Loves That.
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[QUOTE=sera300;192012]this should please him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
when your on top turn around and crawl torwards his dick(My BF Told Me He Loves Watching My A** And Loves Watching His Penis Go Into My Vagina). Keep Crawling Till Your Past His Dick. Then Turn Around And Give Him A Blowjob. Then A Little Dick Massage. Then Tell Him To Roll Over And Lick His A**. My Man Loves That.
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This is the reason for the statement about requiring certain birth control & not skipping it. Picked up in another post...[/QUOTE]
Wow sera, never knew you were that type of girl :D ;) :p.
Anyways, if its JUST oral, don't bother with a condom since I highly doubt at 14 either of you have an STI. If you still want to use one, get flavoured thats what they're for. Durex makes a variety flavoured one, I love the strawberry and kiwi!
[quote=curious_woman;192017]Wow sera, never knew you were that type of girl :D ;) :p.
Anyways, if its JUST oral, don't bother with a condom since I highly doubt at 14 either of you have an STI. If you still want to use one, get flavoured thats what they're for. Durex makes a variety flavoured one, I love the strawberry and kiwi![/quote]
The top part was the a "cut and paste" from the OP on another thread! What feel below the starred line was my comment! LOL! Told you I am no computer wizard!
OK, then you do everything you can to protect #1--Y O U!
Ideally you should be on the pill and if you cannot go to your doctor, then check out Planned Parenthood, your school nurse, or a free clinic.
At the very least use a spermicide.
As for him: A condom. He also must look out for #1--him.
People in your age range are the most likely to become pregnant for a variety of reasons, so you cannot rely on just one form of BC method.
Consider that you are playing a dangerous game of Russian Roulette, only instead of a bullet in the cylinder of a six-shooter, you have a fully loaded cannon at hand. Do not let it point at your vulva or vagina in particular without it being sheathed. Do not let any precum or semen touch your vulva or mix with vaginal mucus--never...ever.
If the two of you want to participate in adult activities, then you absolutely positively must act responsibly. You cannot afford to be reckless, careless, or cavalier in your behavior.
[QUOTE=sera300;192032]The top part was the a "cut and paste" from the OP on another thread! What feel below the starred line was my comment! LOL! Told you I am no computer wizard![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Brandye;191993]A blowjob with a condom is a common practice among those who do not know one another that well . . .[/QUOTE]
Hmmmm.
Common advice, yes. Good advice, yes. Common practice? Not in the U.S.
It's actually pretty rare for straight or gay men in this country to wear a condom for oral sex only, unless he is with a very hot sex partner or a sex worker who demands it.
Hello, and welcome to the SI101 Board and Forums.
Are you saying that your boyfriend is wearing a condom while you stimulate him orally? If so, why? One of the reasons for oral stimulation is to dramatically intensify the feelings he receives and by having a barrier in the way is a major impediment.
If so, latex does have a unique taste. If the condom is a lubricated type, then you are tasting that, just the same as if it was a flavored type.
We Always Where Condoms Since Were Only 14 Are Parents Would Kill Us If They Found Out We Were Having Sex.
well it is only oral sex. if you are 100% sure that nevither of you have anything you shouldnt (stds etc) then you may aswell not use a condom. as long as none of his spem goes near for vagina then there is nothing to worry about. BUT, if you do have sex make sure you DO use a condom, and wait till you are older.
ok thanks for the advice
[quote=tommy_tucker;191957]well it is only oral sex. if you are 100% sure that nevither of you have anything you shouldnt (stds etc) then you may aswell not use a condom. as long as none of his spem goes near for vagina then there is nothing to worry about. BUT, if you do have sex make sure you DO use a condom, and wait till you are older.[/quote]
I think she needs to stick with condom use...they are beyond "just oral"...try adding a spermicide foam.
When first time i gave oral sex to my bf, i didn't really want it, I did it just because of him and it wasn't pleasant taste for me. But then i enjoyed to see him how he enjoyes it and i started to like it and no bad taste "for me".
I usually gave an oral sex before he uses condom, but ones i did it after he used it was unpleasant taste first. good luck
A blowjob with a condom is a common practice among those who do not know one another that well. Get dry (unlubricated) polyurethan condoms. Latex tastes as bad as semen and the lubricant is not good tasting - usually spermicidal. The dry condoms are good for oral and then add a tube of spermicidal jelly to vagina before vaginal sex.
i hate giving blowjobs whilst using a condom, i find the taste terrible. but i guess i am lucky caues my bf and i have only been with each other so i know i cant catch anything
[QUOTE=goodinbed;191956]We Always Where Condoms Since Were Only 14 Are Parents Would Kill Us If They Found Out We Were Having Sex.[/QUOTE]
Are you limiting your activities to hand jobs and oral {foreplay) or are you having intercourse? The reason I'm asking for clarification is because the word "sex" means different activities to different people.
I agree with Sera, if the latter, then a condom is an absolute must, along with spermicide or some other form of BC for you.
If you are limiting your activities to oral, then I still agree that you should use a condom given you lack of knowledge and likelihood of inadvertent carelessness.
Try Astroglide lubricant on the condoms; it has kind of a fruity flavor to it and you might like the taste better. It comes in a little clear bottle with a purple cap.
I say kudos to the two of you for being smart enough to protect yourselves and use condoms at this stage of your relationship. :) If you're absolutely certain, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you are the only partner he has ever had, and he is certain of that about you, and you're both STD-free, then you could forego the condom for oral; but there's never anything wrong with choosing to have safer sex and I'm glad you're both being proactive about your health.
[quote=dancingdoc2;192001]Are you limiting your activities to hand jobs and oral {foreplay) or are you having intercourse? The reason I'm asking for clarification is because the word "sex" means different activities to different people.
I agree with Sera, if the latter, then a condom is an absolute must, along with spermicide or some other form of BC for you.
If you are limiting your activities to oral, then I still agree that you should use a condom given you lack of knowledge and likelihood of inadvertent carelessness.[/quote]
this should please him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
when your on top turn around and crawl torwards his dick(My BF Told Me He Loves Watching My A** And Loves Watching His Penis Go Into My Vagina). Keep Crawling Till Your Past His Dick. Then Turn Around And Give Him A Blowjob. Then A Little Dick Massage. Then Tell Him To Roll Over And Lick His A**. My Man Loves That.
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This is the reason for the statement about requiring certain birth control & not skipping it. Picked up in another post...
Yeah she's hardcore!!!
Not just regular sex but all porn star sex w/ a$$ licking and all! lol :)
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;192013]Yeah she's hardcore!!!
Not just regular sex but all porn star sex w/ a$$ licking and all! lol :)[/QUOTE]
Ass licking is porn star sex? ;)
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[QUOTE=sera300;192012]this should please him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
when your on top turn around and crawl torwards his dick(My BF Told Me He Loves Watching My A** And Loves Watching His Penis Go Into My Vagina). Keep Crawling Till Your Past His Dick. Then Turn Around And Give Him A Blowjob. Then A Little Dick Massage. Then Tell Him To Roll Over And Lick His A**. My Man Loves That.
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This is the reason for the statement about requiring certain birth control & not skipping it. Picked up in another post...[/QUOTE]
:eek: :eek: WOW naughty girl onboard!!:o
Wow sera, never knew you were that type of girl :D ;) :p.
Anyways, if its JUST oral, don't bother with a condom since I highly doubt at 14 either of you have an STI. If you still want to use one, get flavoured thats what they're for. Durex makes a variety flavoured one, I love the strawberry and kiwi!
[quote=curious_woman;192017]Wow sera, never knew you were that type of girl :D ;) :p.
Anyways, if its JUST oral, don't bother with a condom since I highly doubt at 14 either of you have an STI. If you still want to use one, get flavoured thats what they're for. Durex makes a variety flavoured one, I love the strawberry and kiwi![/quote]
The top part was the a "cut and paste" from the OP on another thread! What feel below the starred line was my comment! LOL! Told you I am no computer wizard!
[QUOTE=Drew747;192014]Ass licking is porn star sex? ;)[/QUOTE]
Well it's definetly not vanilla sex!
:eek:
Yuck on that!
yes were having full intercourse, and I know he doesn't have anything, I just don't want to get pregnent.
OK, then you do everything you can to protect #1--Y O U!
Ideally you should be on the pill and if you cannot go to your doctor, then check out Planned Parenthood, your school nurse, or a free clinic.
At the very least use a spermicide.
As for him: A condom. He also must look out for #1--him.
People in your age range are the most likely to become pregnant for a variety of reasons, so you cannot rely on just one form of BC method.
Consider that you are playing a dangerous game of Russian Roulette, only instead of a bullet in the cylinder of a six-shooter, you have a fully loaded cannon at hand. Do not let it point at your vulva or vagina in particular without it being sheathed. Do not let any precum or semen touch your vulva or mix with vaginal mucus--never...ever.
If the two of you want to participate in adult activities, then you absolutely positively must act responsibly. You cannot afford to be reckless, careless, or cavalier in your behavior.
[QUOTE=sera300;192032]The top part was the a "cut and paste" from the OP on another thread! What feel below the starred line was my comment! LOL! Told you I am no computer wizard![/QUOTE]
I know ;) was just being a smart ass :D.
[QUOTE=Brandye;191993]A blowjob with a condom is a common practice among those who do not know one another that well . . .[/QUOTE]
Hmmmm.
Common advice, yes. Good advice, yes. Common practice? Not in the U.S.
It's actually pretty rare for straight or gay men in this country to wear a condom for oral sex only, unless he is with a very hot sex partner or a sex worker who demands it.