So during intercourse, I feel so limmitted to what strokes I can do as a Man. Ive done short fast, short slow, long deep, slow deep, ect... ive down circular motion, and kinda what I like to describe as the see-saw (kinda like cutting a loaf of bread on vertical angle). Id like to hear what kind of strokes you all use and prefer. Thanks!!! :)
ps. simply in and out doesnt seem to cut it for my girl!
I've found that a 'grinding' move works wonders. What you do is sort of curl inwards, starting from your lower abdominal region, through your hips, and finally with your penis, and sort of slide/grind your body up against hers as you do it. This last part is especially good because you can rub your lower abdominal/pubic region against her clitoris as you thrust (works great in the missionary position). It's not easy to do this really fast but it works wonders for those achingly slow grinding moves. Mmmm... :)
After re-reading that i'm not sure if I gave a good enough description. Far easier to act it out lol. Think of it as a less exaggerated version of doing 'the worm' (that thing that breakdancers do across the floor)
Oh and another good one - it's sort of a variation on the 'straight in and out' but works much better. move in and out on an angle - i.e. you're literally penetrating semi-sideways into her vagina. It heightens the stimulation around the opening on my g/f because i'm brushing against more nerve endings.
More on that (but I think you already mentioned this): playing around with just that first inch or two of penetration also works wonders, because the majority of a woman's nerve endings are around the first inch or two of the vaginal passage (ladies correct me if i'm wrong here!). I especially love doing that as a 'warm up'... i'll hold the base of my penis and just slide the first inch or so in and out, nice and slow, just as a tease :)
[COLOR="RoyalBlue">OK, guys I don't know about all females but what I do know I will share. I like variation. One stroke for too long can get old. I love the grinding motion mention above. I love it especially when I'm on top where I can control it and also grind the penis but my clit on his pubic bone. Hmm My ex used to grind in the doggie style position. He would place his hands on my tail bone area push down slightly and grind his hips slowly in and up in a fluid motion. Be careful though to hard or deep it can be painful. Just Ask to see how she "takes" it. LOL pun is intended rub the clit to her enjoyment during stoking in and out. some women like it more than other, just communicate with her to see what she enjoys. I always let men know if they figure something out. If you have further questions for me message me. But I'm no expert by any means. Also a rule that's always true is the more she enjoys sex the more you will too. [/COLOR]
Any tips for doggy?
[QUOTE=blue1980rose][COLOR="RoyalBlue">Hmm My ex used to grind in the doggie style position. He would place his hands on my tail bone area push down slightly and grind his hips slowly in and up in a fluid motion. Be careful though to hard or deep it can be painful. Just Ask to see how she "takes" it LOL pun is intended .[/COLOR][/QUOTE]
This is about the doggie style position