I have no idea when my first orgasm was. I know I've been masturbating since I was a little kid, though I didn't know thats what I was doing really until I was in my pre-teen years. I do remember that I would achieve orgasm by crossing my legs, like the way you do when you are a little kid and need to pee really bad, and just kind of squeezing them together while rocking my hips back and forth. The orgasms weren't particularly strong though. When I realized completely that what I was doing was a form of masturbation and I was experiencing little mini orgasms, I started using my hand for the first time and was able to start producing more powerful and longer lasting orgasms. That was in my early teens. From there I just explored and tried to find out what else felt good.

The best thing you can do is just start touching yourself, and like you said, don't try rushing yourself into an orgasm. Putting too much pressure on yourself will do you no good. Just enjoy trying different things until you figure out what feels the best, and when you do, just keep on doing it! :D

I am not a female so I don't know everything exactly but I have given my fiancee orgasms many times and naturally you know we talked about doing things after we did them...what it was like and all that. She was 18 when she had her first orgasm, which btw I was from me. I was just giving sexual message. we had been doing things for a while and I want to say it was around the 10th time that she had her first. I wasn't trying to make her orgasm but she ended up doing that anyways. She said its a mixture of feelings. The room felt very hot to her and colors just mashed together and everything was blury. from what she told me it was a very hot fuzzy feeling. She knew it was coming about 30 seconds before. She said out loud she was going to cum. And afterwords she told me to stop because masturbation was starting to hurt but according to her it still felt good after I completely removed my hands. Hope this helps out and I know you wanted girls to answer this but I figured you wouldn't mind if I did.

its amazing how many females do not know if they have orgasm or not, i have shown a few how to orgasm and what to do.
i had one female who had never had a guy who found her clit so easily without looking, thats why i have the name. hehe lol

Yes, clvr, I am sure. You and half the other men who think they are god's gift to women.

Like Naked boy who "gives" women orgasms.

Are men not wonderful at this thing called sex?

I didn't realize it took "clever hands" to find a woman's clitoris without looking... jeez, I must be just SOO luckily to have been with so many men with such skill. You'd think the swollen fleshy bump would be a dead give away...but apparently it is hard to find..imagine that.

Or you are completely full of yourself. It really should only be difficult to find if A) you have no friggin idea what a clit is or where it is located..or B) you can't manage to turn a woman on to save your life..but even that would be a lame excuse.

Get over yourself.

I gave my ex her first orgasms. Some men ARE god's gift to women. And some women are god's gift to men :P

My first orgasm came as a surprise to me. I was 25 (26 now), and had been half-heartedly masturbating on and off for a couple of years, without really getting anywhere. I didn't even find my clit until I was 23 - quite a late starter! I'd never really been that interested in sex or being turned on when I was a teenager and just hadn't explored myself that much.

Then in my early twenties I started to read up a bit about how to masturbate and enjoying it, and decided that I would crack this. I bought myself a small vibrator, and started following all the advice, trying to put all the pieces together. I realised that I had been sort of masturbating in my head for a long time - fantasising I suppose - and so I tried to transfer that to my body. I didn't even really know how to tell if I was turned on at first, but I got there.

It was kind of a slow process though, and eventually I got frustrated. I wasn't too bothered about reaching orgasm, just wanted to be sure about being turned on and feeling good.

Then one day I had sort of given up, and was just holding the vibrator against my clit on a low buzz without really thinking about it, when I felt this really weird feeling in my clit and my hips, and my throat sort of jumped. I was quite surprised and a little shaken by it, so I stopped straightaway, but I realised afterwards that that had probably been the beginning of an orgasm. I'd never felt anything remotely like it before. So a few days later I tried again and made an effort to relax through it, and lo and behold: an orgasm.

Now I can orgasm through masturbating (though it takes an effort). I think my orgasms are quite small, so I'm working on it, and I'm also working on not relying on my vibrator too much. The best way I can describe it is if you watch a percolator with coffee brewing in it, all is quiet and then suddenly there's that moment when the water boils and the coffee bubbles up and flows out of the top - that's what my orgasm feels like.

So for any other "older" non-orgasmic women: don't give up! I never really thought it would happen, but I got there.