hi, i have a problem with not being able to last long enough to get my girlfriend off when having sex. someone suggested to me that i get viagra? and that i would be able to last for a long time. i am only 20 years old, and have no problem getting up but i just cum too fast, and my girlfriend is starting to get very mad with me. so does anyone know if there are any major side effects with viagra? is it safe for a 20 year old to use it? and will it help my problem you think? any advice or information would be greatly appreciated. thanks
Sat, 04/02/2005 - 04:47
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younger people using viagra?
You should ask my son about taking viagra at a young age. He took it during a slumber party at his friends place one night and this is how it went. First he was hard and I mean hard as a rock, 3 orgasms in a row then the fun wore off. 2 hours later he was still hard as a rock and his foreskin was completly raw to the point of bleeding, still hard and charged up at this point. I took him to the E-R despite his protests and they gave him an injection of pain killer and kept him overnight, he was still hard 6 hours later. About this time the Dr in charge suggested draining his penis of blood because he was running the risk of gangrene. I won't describe the pain my son had to go through at this point but it wasn't pretty. At 13 he wasn't that big but the amount of blood that was drained was suprising to see and after it was all over with he was put on a medication to keep his drive down for a week.
He didnt have any permanant damage but if he wouldn't have called me in the middle of the night things would have been much worse, the least would have been a circumcision because his foreskin was so raw and abraded it would have become infected and I later learned he could have lost his penis or parts due to gangrene infections. He got the viagra from his friends dads medicine cabinet without thinking about not taking other peoples drugs. Now at your age of 20 things might be a bit different however Im not sure it would be a good idea to experiment in this department, instead I would look for other alternatives to enhance your sexual relationship that don't include drugs. Viagra is alright for a 50 year old guy whos equipment needs a jump start but at 20 at least for me I was charged up 24/7 and still am at 35 years.
JR
hey our relationship has no problems except for this. I have talked to her about this, and she told me i was selfish for cumming before she got off, and that i always want sex too much. she told me that she is always tired from work and school and that why should she have sex with me if its going to be quick or whatever she said. basically she's saying what do i get out of it. you know what i think i do have to think about why im with her. the thing is i don't work because i have some money saved up, and just go to school. So basically since i don't have to work i do stuff to make things easier on her. i drop her off at school, pick her up, take her to work, pick her up from work, make sure she gets lunch or dinner, clean up after her, and do whatever she needs. after that we'll be in bed and i ask for sex or something but she usually just says no and gets mad cause she claims i ask for sex or oral too much. Am i wrong?
Aww demon is right... she doesnt sound very interested in your pleasure and doesnt care how you feel if she is behaving that way.
You can alwyas try to talk to her about it.. maybe that would help, but basically some folks are just sexually incompatible. I can also imagine with her attitude you all have other problem areas in your relationship. If it were me in your relationship Id reevaluate my reasons for being with this person. I mean she talks of marriage but she isnt pleased with you sexually and refuses to meet you half way?? I see red flags and warning lights...
[QUOTE=Quote (lakers fan @ April 04 2005,17:57)]I don't know i feel so much pressure now when we do it, maybe its all mental. I suggested her the other day that maybe she could get me off before we have sex, and she responded with a big NO like answer.[/QUOTE]
I think this is your main problem.
Maybe if she was more compassionate and understanding things would work out better.
hey thanks alot everyone for your responses. this is my first with a girl so yes i am a little inexperienced, but the thing is we have been having sex for like 6 months. The sex was great at the beginning and she seemed to like it alot, i think she used to put up with me and go again after a few minutes, but now she just gets pissed at me. Were pretty serious and she talks about marriage all the time, but then if i cum too quickly, it's like jeez you suck, why the hell can't you last longer! I don't know i feel so much pressure now when we do it, maybe its all mental. I suggested her the other day that maybe she could get me off before we have sex, and she responded with a big NO like answer.
I am 100% SURE that you do not need viagra, and I'm just as positive that no physician would ever prescribe it to you (and we all know that getting it any other way would be unsafe... YES?). Viagra is prescribed to OLDER men who have become impotent with age and you have already expressed that this is not your problem. Many, many young men have problems such as yours, especially if they are relatively inexperienced, as I suspect you might be (if not, my bad, just a feeling I got). This is quite evident in the MANY postings about the subject on the board. I suggest you look around for some of these because I'm fairly sure that there are methods used by men of all ages to last longer.
Well.. she shouldnt be getting REALLY mad at you #1
You surely do NOT need viagra.. Shy and Minx are right...practice and patience. Viagra is a potentially dangerous drug.. by RX or not and no physician in his right mind would prescribe it to you
Just hang in there and believ e me.. it WILL get better.
If she is that bent out of shape.. get her off first and then have sex.
You dont need viagra- the more practise u get the longer u can last