ok.
so, due to people not generally liking what i stated earlier...
this is for people who can't seem to find the right thread for their particular problem.
anything else, too.
as you can see, there are plenty of people willing to help, including me.
(im still sorry about what i posted earlier...:()
but yeah.
anything. anything at all.
(better?):rolleyes:
yep. 18.
but i've seen a lot.
i know i've still got a lot of years left under my tires,
but still.
can't hurt to try, right? :rolleyes:
What was that all about?
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;229444]What was that all about?[/QUOTE]
:D nothing like "blowing ones own trumpet":p;):D lol
Should our status as a collective of long standing mentors be threatened? It sounds to me like he has stepped in so to speak and is taking over single handed. If true, I wonder if this should be considered a "hostile take over" or if he really desires to be a friendly addition to our community of advisers.
> i am a real person, not some nut-job professional guy.
So, as a professional, I am a nut-job? You do not even know me and yet you judge me out of hand. How conceited.
> I'm here to help with anything. anything at all. like... if you wanna move your relationship further with someone, without actually engaging in intercourse, or basic tips on how to get someone 'in the mood', or even if you you're inadequate ('cause trust me, size is most certainly NOT everything), even basic dating tips! i'm here to help.
I believe you should take your own advice: "i would suggest checking around this site for anything else you may have overlooked" these and other concerns have been asked and answered many times by knowledgeable caring experienced people who have been assisting others for years. Standing help is available for the most common problems and concerns with articles that can be found at the top of most Forums.
> and don't worry. i've seen it all before. from my friends, and even members of my own family!
My goodness, you've lived quite a life.
> if you're having any problems at all, you can talk about it here.
This does bare repeating.
> one thing, though.
i WILL NOT tolerate abuse.
no sarcy comments, no smart-arsing, no discrimination (on ANY level,
whether it's sexual preferences, or gender, etc), nothing.
-please. do be polite to one-another.
This has been covered in the Posting Guidelines and the Site's rules and procedures and as such supersede yours. I believe this is the first time a public notice of this type has been made on this site prior to a community member hanging out a "shingle". Everybody else has gladly and enthusiastically joined whatever discussions interest them, no strings attached. While some of us do become a bit testy at times, this venue is mostly self-policing.
To the o/p, you are welcome to join our community of members and provide beneficial content for those people you believe can benefit from your knowledge or experience just like the rest of us. One never knows just what comment or way of stating something will make a difference to the poster.
sorry..... im just new to this.
i only wanted to help people =(
and the 'nut-job professional' thing,
please dont take offence to that.
that was just my way of saying
that sometimes asking a professional can be a bit... difficult.
and that talking to normal people might be easier.
i suppose i was blowing my own trumpet, i guess.
but people have asked me for help before,
and i've helped them out. with good feedback.
sorry if i offended/irritated anyone, if you want me to, ill remove this thread.
This venue would not be the fantastic source for personal and relationship advice if it was not for the community of participants who log on each day from around the world and help "Pay it forward". We want to help those coming along behind the more experienced to have it easier.
You are welcome to contribute. All we ask is that your remarks be on point and relevant. Stupid quips, silly remarks, and, worthless replies are unacceptable. If you are uncertain what or how to state something, wait until others have commented and then frame your remarks accordingly.
> im just new to this.
i only wanted to help people =(
and the 'nut-job professional' thing,
please dont take offence to that.
that was just my way of saying
that sometimes asking a professional can be a bit... difficult.
and that talking to normal people might be easier.
I understood, yet stating your thought like you did the second time would have been much better. Think about this when forming your replies in the future.
Welcome.
mraveragehornyguy .......You are 18??????
lol
Actually, yes it can hurt to try.
You spend time and energy ineffectively and thus waste it instead of properly focusing your efforts where they will do you the most good. Although the years before you seem endless now, they aren't. So best learn now - life is too short.
Pick and choose, pick and choose.