OK I'm way too old to be a virgin, so last night I was like ok, this is it. Being completely naive I thought if I laid back my very exspeirence boyfriend would be able to penetrate me pretty easy. I am so friggin wrong it is not even funny. He asked me to guild him because he's missing me and then I can't get my legs to relax so I'm unintentionally forcing him out. How does anyone get raped? I want to conquer this affliction. I want to get ****ed. So, folks how the hell do I do this, because apparently I suck.:mad:
Mon, 06/25/2007 - 22:40
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Wtf?
Well one thing is if you can't relax then it'll continue to be hard. Being nervous and such can cause all your muscles to tense up.
It's nothing that you or him did.... it's just sometimes people have to "attempt" it a few times.
And just b/c he's been w/ another girl... doesn't mean that he knows everything.
All women/men respond and like different things... so each time you are w/ a new person.. it's like learning all over again.
There are tons of stickies in the New to Sex forum
Start Here
You'll see it's not uncommon.