i was just wondering, if men r the same as us women!?
do they like sex to be rough and ready or soft and sensual, or does it depend on the time they have sex?
my boyfriend is a great lover, although it always seems to be the same, i wud like it to be fast and furious somtimes, and then soft and gentle other times!? should i just ask him for how i want it!?
OF COURSE WE LIKE VARIETY! The key to a good sex life is to tell you lover - usually NOT during sex - what you like and how u like it!
Also, if YOU initiate sex, you can also set the tone! So, don't just sit back and wait - step up and start things for yoruself!
Trust me...guys WELCOME their lover's initiative when it comes to sex!
There no way to give a definitive answer on this because all men are different. Your best bet is to ask the guy you're with what he likes.
my man is always different and I love it. he knows my buttons very well.. one time he'll gently kiss me, the next time he'll nibble/bite me. I love it. The key to variety, which is basically the theme of this message board, is to communicate
A man wants a woman who is a perfect 10, 24 hours a day. So the secret is to look good 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 12 months a year.
I also like a wide variety of things in sex. I can't imagine always doing the same thing! I love for my wife to tell me what she's wanting, and don't mind whether she does so well in advance of time together or in the heat of the moment.
^^^^ all true. personally I like to mix it up a lot. differing speed and hardness from position to position.
I think the best thing you can do in your situation, is if you want it hard and fast pick up the pace, drop him little clues, some "pillow talk" tell him "c'mon,yeah harder" and the like to relay how you want it.