okay so my bf and i were having sex and we were trying different positions, we went in three until we were comfortable.
after he ejaculated we like rest, him still bieng insdie of me.
after he pulled out he realized the condom had broken! i FREAKED!
i cried i washed myself, i cried again. he held me.
then i pulled myself together, now it was the christmas break and the clinic was closed. so we walked over to the nearest shoppers drugmart and goit the morning after pill. my bf came with me and stayed with me the entire time.
i successfully took it and im on bc. im positive im okay and im not preganant but i just wanted to make sure i did everything possible right?
my bf is throwing out the whole pack of condoms aswell and reassured me for the whole day, and even came over and layed with me, because i wasnt feeling good at all.
was this good or not? i know it was irresponsible but i think our actions proved our maturity and i was just wondeing if this happened to anyone else? and if we took all the possible actions you could take when facing soemthing like this?
if you've done "any" reading thru these pages...and specifically the advice from Brandye...responsible sex takes TWO parties to undertake the responsibility of protection...pill/condom....condom/foam...etc...especially if you are not in a financial position to bring up a child...no sense saying anything to infuriate the situation...Good Luck...
Maybe it was a good "wake-up call" for future reference...you said you are now on BCP, and he is using condoms. You did make certain you were not preg. prior to starting the BCP, right? And you took Plan B? Are you questioning why you do not feel well?
Or is she saying she was on BC when she had sex? x
Okay...I was a bit confused, I thought I was misreading, here b/c I found it hard to imagine being on BCP and taking plan "B"/"morning after pill". I would ask one of the doctors here Emily, that is some serious hormone doses you have taken...If you have taken the BCP and not missed a dose, if the condom broke, why would you try plan "B"?
Right, If you are on the BC pill, its made so that you can be protected w/out wearing a condom. If you are wanting to be extra safe from pregnancy and STDs, then pill/condom makes you very protected.
If you had been taking your pill correctly everyday, around the same time, then there could have been a little concern, but not really.
Now, since you took a MAP, your body has way too many hormones in it. You could even be more suseptible to pregnancy now until you get your body back on track.
Hopefully Brandye will chime in, but I would say be very very careful. Your period will probably be irregular for a cycle or 2 until you get your body regulated.
If you had been on the pill and added Plan B, then you have your hormones messed up a bit. For the short term, use condoms with vaginal spermicide and no hormones until your next period. Then start all over again with added protection for your first cycle.
The good news is that if you had been on the pill, you were quite safe.
If you're on bc pills then the only real worry you had was STDs and the Plan B pill does nothing for that.
I say again:
bc pills for not getting pregnant
condoms for not passing STDs
I advocate using both so each partner bears their share of the 'protection' burden.
okay, yes i am on b.c.p and i took the m.a.p, just to be extra safe,
iknow bc prevents pregnancy but i was only a week and a hald into my first pack, and the pharmasist at the counter told me (and i even double checked) that it was okay to have the pill. now it says i will get my period in a week, im guessing its going to be irregular now, so do i move onto my placebos or not take any bc until my period?
im sorry, i know someone on the pill should know this by now but my friends have told me so many different things that i am confused myself (my friends being on bc aswell)
Brandye's the doctor here but I'd say just take them as if nothing had ever happened.
okay, thats what i thought.
thank you eekitten :)
You're welcome.
ya i got my period 3 days late, :)
thank god i was going crazy, lol
thats short, but when your waiting on something.. takes forever!
yay!
I would check w/ your DR or nurse, but after your period, and you start a new pack... I would definitely use a back up method that WHOLE pack and maybe even some of the other pack, depending on if your period comes when its supposed to in the cycle of pills... You have dosed your body w/ A LOT of hormones, it'll take it awhile to get back in shape.
Settle down to taking your pills as per instructions and him always using condoms - get him into good habits and it is fair to share the burdens. You taking care of birth control and him taking care of preventing any transmission of STDs.