I really enjoy going down on my guy, i know alot of women dont, but i dont mind it, he really seems to enjoy it and i like the feeling of knowing i'm pleasuring him.
But the thing is, as well as giving him head, i like to lick and suck around the scrotum area, my last boyfriend used to really get off because of it and i loved knowing that.
But since being with my most recent boyfriend, he has pretty much 'banned' me from that area. He complains that they're too sensative to be touched, which i understand, i know from reading around some of these threads that it feels like a dull, annoying ache. But i thought when aroused, it feels good?
Obviously if he doesnt like it, then i wont pester him to do it, but i dont want to be... missing out on something.
So, i guess my question is, are there any other guys here who dont like their partners touching their balls? Or am i just heavy handed :eek:
i've never felt anyones balls before but i imagine that different people handle (no pun intended) things differently. even though us dudes can be pretty predictable doesn't mean that we all react to things the same. think you should leave his balls alone stick to the......stick
Personally I am not a fan of having my balls touched, but I know a guy who loves it. So I guess it is different for every guy, but your boy friend is not the only one that does not like it.
[quote=Mr. Saint;226623]Personally I am not a fan of having my balls touched, but I know a guy who loves it. So I guess it is different for every guy, but your boy friend is not the only one that does not like it.[/quote] From experience; some love it and others cannot stand the feeling--AT ALL.
Unless you absolutely must - don't.
I go along with the thoughts Mr. Saint and Sera300 have put forth. It is all up to the individual. Here is what I have had to say on the matter:
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.
There are two other parts to this article: Prostate massage and "playing ball".
I can understand a guy being squeamish especially having been socked in the balls one or more times; however, as I have explained to people reading the article, testicles can be fondled and gently massaged without fear of pain or discomfort. These two orbs are much more sensitive to impact than pressure.
The scrotum is very responsive to being scratched and kneaded, why else would we do it (sometimes in public view)? As for the squeezing, please refer to the article.
If a guy does not like to be handled, that's OK. I'm only suggesting that you practice what is outlined. The nerves in the testicles just like the nerve endings in the anus and the Prostate turn on and become very reactive once a person has become very turned on. What we perceive as an annoying ache when not aroused can actually become pleasant and help intensify an orgasm or one that is difficult to trigger.
EEK, your thought is OK, too, I just believe each guy or couple should understand how things typically work and then explore before dismissing this important part of a man out of hand.
it depends, sometimes it feels good, sometimes i really could care less and sometimes it's unpleasant, but if he doesn't want you too then don't and here is the best thing you can do is talk to him
I like being touched around the area, but I don't like direct pressure on the testicles, because that hurts. I do like being touched around the scrotal area and perineum, though.
My bf seems to like for me to stroke his scrotum, but mostly all I do is brush it gently with the tips of my fingers. My mouth doesn't do much for him there, so it stays where it is most pleasurable for him. He likes me to stroke the area around too, but no perineum. It just all comes down to what he likes you do to, so long as you like to do those things. If you really want to get to the bottom of it, talk to him about it. Is it a pressure thing, a tickle thing, a pain thing? I've heard it said that after he comes it can be good to keep gently stroking him for a little bit to continue some good sensations. I can't do that to him though, he says the head is so sensitive to the touch it almost hurts. So what I do is to stroke just the shaft for a few strokes and then go back up and include the head a little bit-gives nim some time to desensitize a tad so that instead of almost pain it feels good. Talk to him-things can be figured out.
Thanks for the replies everyone. It just confused me cause my last guy LOVED it and stupidly i assumed that all guys do -rolls eyes- But I talked to him about it and it turns out it's more of a psychological thing than anything else. He gets nervous when i go near his thighs and his scrotum area cause he's had some problems down there and it's left him feeling awkward about those bits. Which i guess i can understand.
He told me "If you really like to do it though, i can try..."
but if it holds so much discomfort to him, then i'll stay away!
I have always enjoyed the stimulation of the scrotum area, be it with the hands or mouth of my lovely lady.
Depending on the mood and the way in which we are engaging, I have also of late started to get really turned on by direct and VERY firm contact, squeezing and pulling of the scrotum. It is as if the pain has brought a hightened sense of pleasure to the sexual act....this and biting of my nipples during intercourse........I must however be highly aroused for this as if my wife engages in these acts prematurely, it results in pure pain and the loss of any sexual inclination......quite a quandry for her to establish my level of arousal!