Yes fleshlight not flashlight google it for more details if you don't know what it is. It supposed to be a super realistic vagina/butt/mouth with different textures for men. I got one for my boyfriend when we were in college. I noticed that a lot of people especially women don't find sex toys for men as acceptable. The only reasons I hear them justifying that is "that's disgusting he should get a gf" or "Men don't have issues having orgasms like some women"
Men need sexual relief if they don't have someone available to do it for them and I'm sure using their hand all the time can get boring plus using a strong grip can desensitize. So I really don't see why people find it unacceptable for men with these poor reasons.
If its all fine and dandy for us girls to have a toy box I don't see why men can't have a toy or 2.
It is a cultural thing. A man unable to get a girlfriend/lover/wife is "less than a man" in most people's eyes. Hasn't grown up yet. Has something wrong with him. He's homosexual. A man who uses toys is creepy.
Any number of excuses and none of them are valid.
As for me, what he does on his own time is his business.
I agree with you, Dirac; boys should be able to have toys! Nothing weird or wrong about it!
I actually know people who wouldn't think it's all nice and dandy for girls to have toys either for the same stupid argument: that you should get yourself a real man. Or that it's no longer appropriate to own toys when you are in a relationship, cause "you've got yourself a (wo)man". Even that it's weird for couples to use additions to sex, like lubes. Reasoning when you use lube; you're old, you only do obligated marital sex, you've got an infection to hide, you're gay. Talking about dumb prejudice!:(
Personally, I own toys, half of which my bf bought for me as gifts. And when I first heard about the fleshlight, I pointed his attention to it. Just like we point out books, mobile phones, camera's, T-shirts, etc, to eachother when we think the other may or might be interested, especially when on discount-sale :) He wasn't interested in fleshlights btw.
In the moment it seems nice to buy one, but once a guy cums the desire is gone. To me the toys worth while are very expensive. The one I'm talking about is an automated stroker. I will never know if it is worth the money since they frown on one taking a test drive with them:D stroking myself with rubber or whatever it's made out of seems silly. If in the moment I can't have a girl please me then my lotioned hand will do. At least it is skin to skin. I also mentioned before that a back massager I have works excellent for the penis head, just a vibrator to a clitoris.
Women certainly have better options for toys. One of them can stimulate the clit, have moving beads, a rotating head (something I have yet to accomplish:)) and finally have a mp3 player for desired music or recordings of her man.
I have one toy for men and one small item for me. Tis enough.
HI,
voluptuous woman with DD breasts.. I often think about rubbing and grinding on another buxom woman.. I REALLY wonder what that would feel like. IN fact I would love to have two women grind on me until I cum everywhere I would like toalso use a strap on one while the other one is licking and sucking on my clit..
If you have done this I want to hear all about it.. also are there any toys out there that can be used to simulate the tribbing feeling?