Wait what? You mean that she wants to have sex as much as possible and then gets pissed off over the fact that you guys might have sex everyday?

If thats the problem then I would say you have one controlled woman on your hand...

Younger women are still learning how to relate to men. If she is in her teens, probably just hormonal cycles. If she is in her thirties, she is a manipulative bitch.

I go through on and off periods too. It can be due to work stress, tiredness, my period, preoccupation with problems or just having too much fun with other things.

Sex happens when it happens, I don't think there is a set quota for how often or not you should be doing it.

That said, if she is taking all she can get and then complaining about not getting it when she has tailed off sounds like she is rather controlling over the situation. She doesn't dictate when it is time to have sex, it should be a mutual understanding :)

Okay, are you missing some cues here? When one partner says "suddenly" that is usually the first problem - they missed a cue or "missed a memo". This might be the problem here - she's throwing out signals and you're not catching them. So the issue might be COMMUNICATION.

Often women who aren't feeling "secure within their relaitonship" will deliberately throw out obscure signals to see if you're paying attention and then use your not catching those signals against you. Sound familar?

What do? Stop playing the game. TALK TO HER. Ask her if she's feeling secure in your relationship. Go ahead. Give it to her straight in a "problem seeking a solution" manner. Then without telling her, begin to look for those signals and make notes. Why? Because then you'll recognise them when she uses them on another problem or when another lady uses them on you later.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;205257]Okay, are you missing some cues here? When one partner says "suddenly" that is usually the first problem - they missed a cue or "missed a memo". This might be the problem here - she's throwing out signals and you're not catching them. So the issue might be COMMUNICATION.

Often women who aren't feeling "secure within their relaitonship" will deliberately throw out obscure signals to see if you're paying attention and then use your not catching those signals against you. Sound familar?

What do? Stop playing the game. TALK TO HER. Ask her if she's feeling secure in your relationship. Go ahead. Give it to her straight in a "problem seeking a solution" manner. Then without telling her, begin to look for those signals and make notes. Why? Because then you'll recognise them when she uses them on another problem or when another lady uses them on you later.[/QUOTE]

Amen, sistah!!!

Thank you. Not all women are as straight-forward as I am. If I want his attention and I am not getting it, I'll just ask for it outright.

EEK...................PriceLess!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And you are very Funny as well.

[QUOTE=Melecoton;205103]Yes, I know, I am just full of questions today... Lol

My girlfriend frequently goes through off and on cycles where she is game for as much sex as I can dish, and then all of a sudden she starts counting the days since the last time we've made love and using it against me. Is this typical of women? It does not seem to correlate with anything else, i.e, her period or increase in physical activity.

Sincerely,

A thoroughly confused man.
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And you're confused because....?...? Dude, she's a WOMAN!!! :D

Seriously though, women go through moods and emotions more times then I change my underwear in a week. You just gotta ride along with it and go with the flow!

I haven't been married too long, but I've been with my wife for 8 years, and let me tell you, I know EXACTLY what you're talking about and the best solution is - let her decide when and where and how sex takes place!

My wife goes through cycles as well. Some months, she is WAAAY more horny then I am, which is totally weird, but I dig it and it gets my sex drive going. Other months, she'll maybe only want to have sex a few times and I'll be so horny the CAT gets scared and hides!!!! (I'm just kidding.....seriously. :D)

Thats just how the human body and mind works. Horomones can be influenced by weather, stress, money, alcohol, hell it can just be the season! Last month both of us were struggling to find a new job and paying the bills was TOUGH! Neither one of us wanted sex, but we still cuddled and kissed and stayed close (thats the key). Once I landed a new job, holy hell was I horny as ever and she was for bit too!

The key is to work together and take care of each other. My wife knows when I'm really horny, because I may drop a hint, but if she's not in the mood thats o.k. too. When she's horny, of course she gets wild and it doesn't take me long to reach her level as well. You just have to respect each other and respect her up and down cycles. It works for my wife and I!! :cool:

CL, you must have me confused with some other EvilEvilKitten because I have no sense of humor. Uh-hh, no way, not this Kitten!

Go going, Aviator - keep it up!

Must have been another Kitten all together...........Funny is FUN at times.
Oh well........