(im 16 and never had sex before)

a lot of times i hear about womens' cumming (releasing fluid)..
can anyone tell me if a women actually cum like us (guys) ???!!
and when do they cum?only when they have an orgasm??

also: after having an orgasm i get really tired and cant make it "stand up" 4 a while (i think that happens 2 the all of us..) but what about women?? do they get tired..?? can they get turned on just after having an orgasm??

:confused:

thanks :)

also any more info would be appreciated..! :p