Why do you think there is a reason for when women stand behind you trying to show you something on the computer or on the TV or while you're reading or doing work or whatever, and when she bends over behind your back, she presses her breasts behind your shoulders?
It happens to me a lot when women stand behind me, they lean over my shoulder that their breasts are pressing pretty hard against my shoulders that I could feel them. It happens to me a lot at work lately. I'm not bashing the women that do this or anything, I'm just trying to figure it out. And I know women are doing it on purpose when they do this. I think it's their way of flirting, their way of flirting using body language. It's their way of showing that they find you attractive.
Not only single women do this, the married women do it too. I just find it weird when women do stuff like this, LOL. Using body language of flirting.
Brushing breasts against your shoulders. Women walking by you everytime they see you and they touch your arm with their hand. They smile at you a lot everytime they see you. If you're walking in the hallywa, you see this same woman whose been doing this to you, she bumps into you (again doing it on purpose, when she tried to make it look like an accident) just so she can talk to you. Etc., you know the thing.
Please discuss your views and opinions on this. Thanks.
I know they don't flirt with body laguage because of sex, I'm not thinking that, I think it's their way that they find you very attractive. That's what I'm saying.
I agree that it may just be harmless flirting.
Although you must understand that flirting does not mean we want to have sex. We just really enjoy having a cute guy smile at us, or check us out a bit when we walk by. Not leering, of course, but an appreciative glance sure does give you an energy boost, doesn't it?
We, as women, can get by with a lot more flirting than guys can. And yeah, big boobs get in the way.
I had a boss at an old job of mine who ALWAYS practically laid her boobs on my shoulder when she was showing me something on the computer. She was about 60 years old and I would cringe everytime she cam to show me something. lol. But she had those big ol bullet boobs and I think she didn't even realize where they were. ugh.. lol
[QUOTE=Quote ]It's just strange how women use the power of body language as a way of flirting....[/QUOTE]
Why is it strange? I am compelled to point out that men flirt with body language too, and can be just as over the top about it!
A funny thing happened at work the other day. The other day I went in the copy machine room to make copies of papers on the copier and while I was waiting for the copies to finish, a woman came up behind me, a very attractive woman in her mid 30's. She wore a white blouse, a short black skirt and had black pantyhose, very sexy, hhhhmmmm....she started talking to me about music. Asking what my favorite bands are. As I talked to her about music, she was bending over to a cabinet since the cabinet was on the floor, she opened the cabinet door, putting book binders back in.
But as she was talking to me, while she was talking, she was still bending over with her ass pointing toward my direction, as she was talking bending over, she was looking behind her staring at me as she talked with a smile on her face.
Well, I looked at the wall so she wouldn't feel offended that her ass would be in front of my face if she was talking to me as if she was bending over. But as she talked, I couldn't quite hear what she was saying, so I had to look at her so she can understand me more, she was still bending over and looking at me as she talked.
Again, I think she was doing it on purpose so I can get a good look at her ass and legs. And I did. She knew I was trying to check her out because she had a smile on her face and flirting with me a little bit as if she didn't care.
It's just strange how women use the power of body language as a way of flirting....
I'm sure there are some women who intentionally do this just to see the guy's reaction. We used to be friends with a couple, and a lot of times the woman would stand so close to me when we were talking that her breasts would press against my chest. I felt simultaneously awkward and aroused every time it happened. But as awkward as I felt, I certainly never complained... or took a step backwards.
We all flirt with body language but what you describe is, perhaps, a bit beyond. If I ever set my breasts on your shoulders, you can be certain I have more in mind!
Might your imagination be a little ......
[QUOTE=Quote (TexasGuy @ May 12 2004,12:44)]I'm sure there are some women who intentionally do this just to see the guy's reaction. We used to be friends with a couple, and a lot of times the woman would stand so close to me when we were talking that her breasts would press against my chest. I felt simultaneously awkward and aroused every time it happened. But as awkward as I felt, I certainly never complained... or took a step backwards.[/QUOTE]
I see that I'm not alone on this.
I was at work today, sitting in the break room eating lunch. As I was sitting at the table eating my lunch and reading the newspaper, some girl around her 20's wearing a t-shirt and a short skirt walked by me as she walked toward the microwave to cook her lunch.
She had a tattoo in the back of her shoulder which grabbed my attention (I love women with tattoos), as she walked toward the microwave, I couldn't help but stare at her legs, god, she had some amazing legs.
As she was standing next to the microwave waiting for her lunch to get done cooking, she just turned around and looked at me and smiled. She had a beautiful smile that I was blown away, so I gave a smile back. *whoops* Guess, she caught me checking her legs out, LOL.
Then after she got done cooking her lunch, she walked back to her own table, and she walked by me again just so she could get me to check her out some more.
Yes, I agree with the poster above, that women do this just to get a reaction to the guys, it's their way of teasing the guys because the women love the attention they get.
[QUOTE=Quote (LadyOfLucidDepths @ May 09 2004,23:27)]lol sometimes your tits just get in the way.. simple as that.
jamie[/QUOTE]
LOL Jamie, I was thinking the same thing. As a woman with a big chest they often have gotten in the way.
Although I don't normally go around pressing them on guys. LOL
Greendale maybe you are just so sexy that the women can't control themselves around you.
Damn. Major disappointment.
lol sometimes your tits just get in the way.. simple as that.
jamie
Um, I do stuff like that sometimes and I'm not flirting. It's just something I do. lol.
Sometimes when I'm passing my guy in the doorway or whatever, I'll put my hands around his waist so I can squeeze by. I'm sure some probably view that as flirting because I'm so to speak "touching" him, but it's just something I do. I do that to a lot of guys. Do I do it to girls? Not as often as guys, but that still doesn't mean I'm flirting with them. I'll brush up against guys. I'll poke them, tickle them, grab their shoulders as I'm walking by and talk to them, but I'm definately not flirting with them. It's just how I act around all my guy friends. It's just something I do and have always done. I'm just a bit of a touchy feely person I guess.
I'm sure some take it as flirting but whatever. I know I'm not. lol.
My point: Not EVERYONE is flirting all the time.
This is probably one of those situations where a guy and girls communication wears thin. You think one thing when over half the time we're doing something else. lol.