Hey, I feel really stupid asking this, cuz I feel like it should come naturally... but I need help! I've been sexually active for about 3 years, but I've never really liked or been good at being on top (i'm a girl!). What am I doing wrong? What Should I be doing to make it great for me and my partner??? Please, please, please help!
Wed, 09/01/2004 - 02:50
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Women On Top
[QUOTE=Quote (LadiesIsPimps2 @ Aug. 31 2004,19:50)]What am I doing wrong? What Should I be doing to make it great for me and my partner??? .................................You know you can ride him while facing him or facing away. I enjoy the variety but prefer facing & seeing her reaction. That way you can let him play with your breasts or clit or you can give him a free show by playing with yourself. You can ride him higher so that your clit gets more stimulation.[/QUOTE]
Practice makes perfect.
Mention to your partner that you would like to be on top and
ride him. Some guys don't care for this but most do.
I, as a guy, like it best when she is on her knees upright riding me grinding herself into me. If she places her hands to either side of my neck so she can move back and forth to take me in and out of herself that is quite enjoyable too. (practice your PC exercises so you can grip him as you move in this way and he will enjoy your moves even more)
I had one girl who wanted to get on top and lay on me and kiss. I was always wanting her to do the stuff I just talked about...but she only wanted horizontal hugging. :sigh:
Mix it up some and don't be afraid to ask him what he likes best and if he wants to try something different.
My G/F has a plug in the wall vibe(a massager like you would buy at a WalMart..it has many types of heads which slip on the vibrating post but she just uses the round one that looks like the end of a twirlers baton..using low speed) that we use when she is on top. It simply rocks her world.
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