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women cuming

when they cum, its not like a guys rite?

No, don't expect to see any ejaculation. Although I guess a small percentage of women do ejaculate when they come. Keep in mind that many women will "get wet" as they become aroused sexually. This is the body's natural way of lubricating. Always have some artificical lube available incase she's not producing enough for intercourse to be comfortable for her.

Even without an ejaculation, it's more than likely that you'll recognize the fact that she has "come". Most women will not be able to stay still during sexual climax. Arching of the back is one tell tale sign that the woman is recieving pleasure that will lead to an orgasm, but remember all women are a little different.

I agree with the information in your first paragraph and partially disagree with the information in your second.

All too often guys are unable to discern when their lover is or has just climaxed. All too often guys want to know "did you cum?"

The female orgasm is internalized and not as outwardly expressive as the male's, therefore, it is a great thing when a woman will let her man know her "status" in this regard. She can do so verbally or non-verbally. The former can be an expression like "whew", "wow", "ummmm", or whatever she wants that doesn't distract from her moment of bliss. The latter can be a squeeze of the hand or some other form of body english that the couple work out to mean specific things.

and they got wet when you do all that kissing stuff all over them?

Alex, dancingdoc is right, many women can and do have orgasms (or come) without much outward expression. I guess I'm one of the lucky ones as my wife tends to give plenty of signs that she's satisfied. So, as doc suggests, just ask her to try and let you know what the status is with her during sex.

The wetness is associated with sexual arousal. You could kiss and rub all night, but if she's not feeling sexually aroused she won't get wet. On the other hand, she could be very sexually aroused, but not wet (my wife never gets wet, even when very aroused). That is why you need to have lube available. If the two of you attempt to have intercourse without the wetness or the lube, it will most likely be uncomfortable (especially for her) and it will not be a pleasant experience.

Best bet is to always have condoms and a condom compatible lubricant available if you are planning on attempting to have sex.

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