Well the way I see it, no matter if you are on top, or if he is, both of you should be doing something besides laying back and taking it. While she is on bottom she moves her hips back and forth, when she is on top she does the same while I move up and down.

[QUOTE=theo_rocks;193540]Me and my bf have been having sex for a while and its great but he likes it when im on top but im dumb and dont know what to do when im on top.plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:( :confused: :([/QUOTE]

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theo didnt you just post a message like this a lil while ago?

I too like it when my girlfriend is on top of me when we are making love. She is very slim and has nice sized boobs that I like to see, makes me real horny. What I do is push my hips up off the bed pushing my penis deeper into her. I like to grab her hips and pull her toward me so that I feel her clitoris rub on the base of my penis.

She also loves to reach around and play with my balls, that feels incredible.

Just my 0.2