I'm kinda new to sex and have never been on top. This guy I'm seeing really wants me to try it, but I don't even know where to start. Like, how do my legs go and how should I move? Should I start out slow and then go faster or what? Also, he's not exactly the most vocal partner ever...how do I know when I should stop and he's finished?
Fri, 08/24/2007 - 04:32
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Woman on Top - Help
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Well I'm not a lady, but the best/most common way of doing this seems to be: Him sitting on a couch, position yourself facing him on your knees and kind of sitting on him and just thurst/grind back and forth rather than bobbing up and down. That's the way I prefer it at least.
Take horseback riding lessons with an English saddle - the posting at the trot is the same motion used when riding a man. You STRADDLE both animals btw.
You go as fast and as long as YOU want to - this is a position for YOUR enjoyment more than for his. YOU are in control here and he assists.
You can do the "on the sofa" thing or just pounce upon his defenceless body in bed - either way works. The springs help develop and sustain the motion.
Have fun!
I agree with EEK. It is a great position for a woman. Straddle him and try to find the movement that feels good for you.
You also should talk to him b/c he may not like it you on top. So you should ask him what feels best. I know with my man he don't like it on top, therefore, we don't ever do it with me on top :( but that's just b/c I can not do it like he wants it, mainly that I am not able to preform the way he wants.
Best advice would be for you to ask him straight up what feels best once you are on top. After all the foreplay get on top of him. Just try different things, and see what he likes best. you'll never know for sure if he's not vocal unless you don't ask him.
Hope it helps.
I like the woman on top position.
Summerbreeze "cannot perform the way he wants" - jeez, then he should help, assist, and otherwise MAKE it possible. Imagine you telling him "well, you just cannot seem to get the "from behind" position right so I'm cutting you off from that". Sounds great, right? Think he'd go for that?