Hello!
My and my girlfriend have had sex for almost a year now. It have worked perfectly so far.:D
But a few weeks ago she started taking pills cause we wanted to do it without the condom.
And yea, it feels so much better! And so much easier and more tense to skip the part where you have to put on the plastic.
The problem I have with it is that I come very very early..
I mean, just after like two or three minutes and I almost can't even feel when I come myself. :(
I don't want it to be like that because we both enjoy the penetrative-sex much better without a condom.
Could anyone please give me any suggestion or comments or anything? All appreciated!
The 4 people who give the best advice and most likely have the best answer to this question will tell you that THIS QUESTION HAS BEEN ASKED MANY TIMES SO LOOK AROUND INSTEAD OF WASTING THEIR TIME!
Sorry if I came off rude, but it is very irratating especially since in other threads they gave very good advice that could help you in many ways. Please just search.
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In case you are concerned that you suffer from Premature Ejaculation, you do not. These climaxes happen during the first minute or so and upon the initial insertion, return, or the first couple of subsequent strokes.
Many women will tell you that they become sore, bored, and tired if intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes. With this in mind, you are about average. If you want to learn to prolong intercourse, the fixes are the same for both scenarios. There is an exercise you can practice; and, for immediate needs--like RIGHT NOW while you are in the throws of passion, your partner can use the Squeeze technique.
What you have to be able to do is to learn to recognize the feelings that immediately precede a climax and to keep part of your brain focused on the sensations in order to will yourself to pause, stop, or temporarily pull out until the sense of urgency subsides.
Here is a link:
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controling Premature Ejaculation
Ahem...the uh most overlooked answer is...go back to condoms...I mean all it takes is one day of forgetting the pill, or the few percent chance that it will fail and *poof* you have little ones running around the house.
6 bucks for a pack of condoms is a hell of a lot cheaper than the 250 grand it takes to raise a kid to 18...plus it will let you last longer. Go with poly or lambskin condoms, and youll still get enough sensation to get you off...