Due to medications that my wife is on it is often very difficult to darn near impossible to get her aroused enough to orgasm. While she doesn't mind, I find that I do not enjoy it as much when I am not able to get her to orgasm. We've been talking about getting a vibrator but are unsure if this would help...So.. Although she can get slightly aroused, would a vibrator provide the extra sensual aspect to hopefully help us out?
Also if so, any suggestions? She does not want a dildo, but moreso something that will give clitoral stimulation only.
TIA!
Getting a vibrator is a great idea. It sounds like your wife has never used one before so I would advise that she start out with something smaller and with lower vibrations. Something like this...
http://www.tabutoys.com/catalog/ProductDetails.asp?productid=2020&categoryid=2956
This vibrator like this would be perfect for you and your wife together or when she is by herself. Also, it's not too expensive, so if it doesn't work well for your wife, then it's not a big loss. I have been able to find even less expensive vibrators at the porn store that I frequent most often. If you and your wife are not concerned with the privacy of the internet, I would suggest looking around and finding something small and inexpensive to start out with.
Good luck!
Well you could get that but for beginners I'd recommend a small flat-headed vibe called a clitoral stimulator. Something like this:
http://nightdreams.xxxshopadult.com/details.link/tid/880903/toys/Love-Vi...
I certainly support the use of vibrators and once in a while use my partners. You stated, however, that this was due to medications. That being the case, the suppression of her response mechanism may make this unworkable as well. It is certainly worth a try (they are handy to have around!) but do not expect magic as long as she is on the meds.