I dont know the exact words of what i am looking for, but i will wing it
If I am having sex with a female, and i feel as I'm about to orgasm, if i slow down or stop, will she lose the feeling...heres a better way of putting it... if you rate climax on 1-10... and when im at a 9 ill stop... or slow down.. and ill go down to a 6 or 5... lets say she was at 8... if i slow down or stop will she go down dramattically as well?
on another note.. if i slowed down or stopped... but rubbed her clitoris as i stopped... will that prolong her 8 or at least slow down her descending climax?
I can only tell you by my experience. I don't think it'll be the same for every one, but here is: For what I can tell, there is "a point of no return", once your partner reach that point, doesn't matter if you slow down the momentum will keep things going until your partner has an orgasm, and yes you are right you can do some things that can help her keep going, but be carefull, is hard to know when you are at that point, and if you try something else, it can do the opposite of what you try to do, because some parts get way too sensitive at some point, like the clit, rubbing it too hard or "the wrong way" can kill the mood in a second.
Interesting questions, these.
> If I am having sex with a female, and i feel as I'm about to orgasm, if i slow down or stop, will she lose the feeling...heres a better way of putting it.
You appear to be making the assumption that the intercourse position the two of you are using will bring her to an orgasm as well as you. You should be aware that very few positions adequately let the woman be stimulated or stimulated sufficiently to have an orgasm from intercourse. Most guys will reach around and bring her along by manually fingering her while stroking away. He might also see that she has an orgasm before and/or after intercourse, knowing that it will not likely happen during.
The female orgasm is tenuous at best and any interruption or disruption is enough to kill off whatever level of excitement she has attained.
> if i slow down or stop will she go down dramattically as well?
Answered. The answer would be the same even if their progress toward a climax was as stalwart and streightforward as ours.
> if i slowed down or stopped... but rubbed her clitoris as i stopped... will that prolong her 8 or at least slow down her descending climax?
This is an individual call; it depends upon the woman, the moment, the time of the month, and how much of an interruption or disruption has been caused as you stop or switch around in order to stimulate her genitals if you have not been doing so right along. Keep in mind that the clitoris, unlike the penis, is not the be all end all to a woman's satisfaction. More often than not a man will have to stimulate it indirectly by involving adjacent pieces-parts like the Labia and shaft.