Just respect her choices my friend...don't pressure her, it's her body :)

and at your age that is a bit of a resposability to take on

> I'm afraid that she will not want sex with me, ever.

At sixteen, if history continues to repeat itself, there is every liklihood that you will have several girlfriends between now and ten years from now. That this girls opts not to have intercourse is prudent considering the tremendous responsibilities involved. If the two of you stay together for a few more years she may decide at some point to up the ante'. If not, there will be other girl friends--and, you will be older and wiser, either way.

> She enjoys oral sex so much that when i suggest we have sex, she says no. The reason she gives is that she is fine with the amount of pleasure she gets already.

It is an interesting fact of life that as fantastic as intercourse is, the amount of orgasmic pleasure we receive is generally not as intense as from other forms of stimulation, such as a hand job and/or oral. The act of intercourse has more to do with a meeting of the minds and a melding of the psyches. Consider that the vagina is the gateway to a woman's soul and the penis is the essence of a man. When the two join, we can become one with the other if only for a moment in time. This is where it's at--not just getting your rocks off. It is rare for a woman to climax from intercourse alone. If this is your goal then you should know that most men reach around and finger their partner while stroking away. Shucks, we can do this more effectively when not hooked up!

good for you there are plenty of other things you can do meanwhile