hey yeah another question i need an answer to.when i was 3 months old i had ahernia in my lower stomach it spread and smothered my right testicle which subsequently had to be removed ive gone through my life since then not really noticing till sex ed came,then i realised i was um...different.my parents never told me anything about it....anyway im rambling now sorry lol,im 16 now still ivirgin and im starting to get deep in my relationship with my girlfriend now im worried because im well one piece of clothing off from her seeing me naked now because were getting down to our underear,so when she realises im.....like that whats she going to think? :(
Tue, 08/15/2006 - 04:03
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will my girlfriend still like me?
Maybe she will think, "Wow! what a hunk!
Well...maybe not. Maybe she will think, "my gosh, with something this big there must be a lot of horsepower under the hood".
That you are missing a testicle is no big deal. If she discovers it, just tell her the truth--that you had hernia and as a result the right one had to be removed. Should she appear worried about future performance you can reassure her that even though you do not have built-in redundancy, one will still get the jobs done.
What will she think about a missing testicle? She will probably have some initial curiosity, and after that she will refocus her attention on things that really matter.
Most likely she will not even notice for a while. By then you can have explained it to her. You are no SAFER because you only have one!!! Use precautions.
most of the volume of seamen is produced by the prostrate gland not the testicles so volume wise it is the same as other guys. the one will be a bit bigger to make up this is natural but you will have no performance issues at all unless psycological so don't worry
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2]If she discovers it, just tell her the truth--that you had hernia and as a result the right one had to be removed. Should she appear worried about future performance you can reassure her that even though you do not have built-in redundancy, one will still get the jobs done.
What will she think about a missing testicle? She will probably have some initial curiosity, and after that she will refocus her attention on things that really matter.[/QUOTE]
Rather than letting her "discover" it, I think I'd prefer that you told me about it before we got to that point. Once you're fairly certain that things are going to go in that direction, just explain to her what happened.
Yea...there might be a middle ground between what Brandye and I said.
The two of you may have several lovemaking sessions before she handles your scrotum. If true, then you have some time before telling her. On the other hand if she if is experienced she may be wanting to fondle them from the start in which case Caitlain's preference is the way to handle the matter. You have options and may just have to play this by ear--or, feel. Better to know up front than to be surprised and then having questions and concerns that she may not want to bring up. Nip it in the bud, first.