I have a question. My girlfriend and I are ready to have sex but I want her to suck me off first. I know that after you ejaculate, you lose part of your erection so do you think that she can suck me off and then I still be able to have good sex after?
Sat, 12/06/2008 - 19:38
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Will it Still be Good?
i guess you could wait a while , but tbh in my experiance once a man has ejaculated he tends to be a bit on the tierd side , no energy etc anyway!
So you loose your erection, whatever the reason. Do you mean to tell us than you don't know how to regain it? Come on! just continue fooling around; however, having said that it is important to understand that after ejaculating, you will enter the refractory period from between ten minutes and thirty minutes (depends upon age and "wiring") in which you cannot climax again. Use this time to pleasure your partner one or more times and to rebuild your erection.
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Rose, while a man generally does become drowsy after climaxing, he can easy reverse this by just getting up and walking around a bit or going for a drink of water. All he needs to do is "get the blood flowing", again.
Men and women can each have multiple orgasms per session. For guys, we are limited to about three total, women can have many more and in quicker succession.
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thanks for the info there doc, i didnt know that! i won't take the "i'm to tired excuse" no more! :P
Read the articles in the INDEX as Doc suggests. Now for the personal experience answer. Some men, I am one, remain hard sometimes after a blow job and are able to last somewhat longer during coitus immediately after a blow job and with that initial release of sexual tension from the BJ are able to more easily direct more attention to the partner's enjoyment during coitus rather than worrying about reaching orgasm and ejaculation and losing the erection before the partner reaches orgasm.
If you lose your erection after a BJ and want to continue then while in the refractory period, which is usually shorter for younger men, you can perform a myriad of marvelous ministrations on your partner, cunnilingus is one of them. There is nothing that gets me going (again) like a face full of warm moist vulva, the feel of soft smooth skin on buttocks, kissing, breast worship and overall enjoyment of observing the excitement build in my partner's body and mind.
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Rose, while a man generally does become drowsy after climaxing, he can easy reverse this by just getting up and walking around a bit or going for a drink of water. All he needs to do is "get the blood flowing", again.
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This goes for women as well! Be aware though that people aren't exactly in their normal state of mind after a big climax and might not take it to well if you pick em up to get their blood flowing again and interrupt their post climatic bliss. They do, however, quickly forget what they were complaining about when you go down on them after their bloods been flowing. The second time the persons body is probably still very aroused from before with a lot of blood still in the region so orgasmic responses can be even quicker and stronger the second, third, fourth....however many you want time.
> This goes for women as well!
Certainly not--all women. Most are still ready, willing, and able, and reply being unhappy when their man rolls over and begins to snore.
Men do become disinterested in more sex after climaxing and do tend to become drowsy. It is a hormone thing. Even so, if he wants to keep the fires burning and continue making love, he can if he desires to and wills it.
The thing is, you have to decide which you want - the fellatio or the intercourse. You could have both if you were a multi-orgasmic male, but since you're here asking, this is in doubt. So in the absence of that I would suggest you do what 4 and 5 hour men do - BOTH, but while you enjoy it -and it does feel good - keep your "brakes" on and DON'T orgasm. It is all a matter of control. If you feel your control slipping - back off. To regain and to keep up the erection - game on again. You can practice by masturbating almost to th point of climax then backing off, then moving on and around and around we go. The longer you can hold out, the better.
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