On the days my wife and I know we are going to hae sex (b/c with kids, you almost always have to plan a little) I notice that she seems to masturbate. She will masturbate almost every morning (in bed while I'm in the shower) on the same day we have sex at night. What does this mean, if anything? She is still extremely excited during sex and very active. Just curious if someone has an idea? I have tried to discuss mastubation with her several times in the past, but a VERY private thing for her, she does not discuss!
Fri, 03/07/2008 - 19:17
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Wife seems to masturbate same day as sex
Im not talking about premature. I mean my girlfriend lasts for about 45 seconds in bed and then she comes. After she is extremely sensitive.
She has tried masturbating before hand, and it actually makes her last longer, (which is good for both of us since I last longer)
LOL - Sweety, she's tuning up for the race later! By masturbating in the morning before, she's putting herself on notice that sex will be had - lending a bit of excitement to her day. It is part of her preparation routine. Nothing for you to worry about!
Some people dont like talking about it....simple as that.
If she is masturbating the morning of. Maybe its so that she will last longer...it sounds strange but my girlfriend will because she is usually done in about 5 minutes and gets too sensitive to continue.
Or maybe she is just so incredibly horny that she masturbates cuz she is anticipating that night.
OR she does it everyday and you only notice it on those specific days
Ducy,
Premature ejaculation is a male thing; we women tend to last too long, if anything.
tlsj,
It probably means she is looking forward to sex. Since age 13, I have masturbated about once a week whether or not there is someone in my life. Even while living with a man with sexual activity nearly every day, I masturbated weekly.
Masturbation feels good; sex feels good (with or without orgasm for women). They are mutually reinforcing not mutually exclusive. I guess I just never made it obvious enough that partners knew I was doing it.
I masturbate AFTER unsatisfying sex. That is a different issue.
Ducy,
After one orgasm, say via stimulating her clitoris, just move to her G-Spot and then onto her posterior fornix and back to her clitoris and around we go for as long as you can "hold out".
Thanks for the feedback, I greatly appreciate it. I have to say, this is what I hoped to here, again thanks!
EEK - finding the G-Spot can be haaaaaaaaaard for us youngins.
The spongy area doesn't seem to do it for my girl.
The more a woman orgasms, the easier it is for her to orgasm. She is probably just making preparations for the evening. I also prefer to masturbate during the same day if I know I will be having sex - it makes it easier for me to orgasm and increases the possibility for multiples.