Ok I have been interested in trying anal with my wife. But she does not like it. I think she is more grossed out by it. I think it does feel good for her though. We did try it before and she said it makes her feel like she is going to poop.
I think this because. One time in the bed room she was lying on her stomach pillow under her hips. I was giving her oral sex and for the first time I though ummm lets lick her ass to well I loved it and she was going wild. After awhile of just licking her ass she told me to stick my penis in her ass. We tried now this was the second time and she told me to stop she thought she was going to poop again.
I sometimes try to lick her ass or finger it and she seems to like it but then she will tell me it grosses her out. But when I do it she goes wild.
How can I we get to the point were I can penitrate her ass.


Hold off on all anal stimulation outside and inside until such time as she has been very highly aroused. Our inhibitions are much less at this stage.
Please read this article on the matter:
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.
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There are many women who will tolerate no anal stimulation. There are more of us who will not allow penile penetration.
Your wife clearly enjoys the play but, in labeling it dirty or whatever, is likely saying penetration is not in your future. Do a search and you will find many threads discussing this.
[QUOTE=Brandye;258349]There are many women who will tolerate no anal stimulation. There are more of us who will not allow penile penetration.
Your wife clearly enjoys the play but, in labeling it dirty or whatever, is likely saying penetration is not in your future. Do a search and you will find many threads discussing this.[/QUOTE]
Well, I think it is still a bit of a dangerous area. I am sure I read somewhere that the lining of the anal canal was not designed for penetration. I am all for pleasure but not danger.