Maybe he doesnt feel comfortable with dirty talking, and he finds it awkward?
There's a topic bout it on the site. :) Maybe that contains usefull information?
I knew this woman years ago who could write a letter using some words only found in the hugh unabridged dictionary, string them along and say more, fancier than any of the rest of us, and, her letters were interesting to read and held your attention. She could also cuss you out and never use a four-letter word. I do not like hearing profane words even in a profane situation. It's not that I'm a prude, I just like using more of the Queen's English.
Not too long ago one of the hospital shows (ER I think) ran promo ads for a week stating that there was going to be some profanity used in the next episode. Of course this was going to draw some attention to the program, hopefully improve ratings, and, perhaps challenge the censors here in the colonies. Well, I waited and then watched that week's show.
The episode was about one day from the beginning of the shift to the end. Nothing went right all day and as I recall, things only went from bad to worse. Near the end of the shift the doctors and administrators met in a conference room to discuss the situation and why they had lost patients. After some discussion one of the doctors leaned back in his chair folded his hands behind his head and said something to the effect that "s**t happens". After all was said and done I thought to myself, what an appropriate response. It wasn't really bad or in poor taste. The expression summed up the day perfectly and the censors must have thought so, also.
I suppose it is all in what you like, and for me, using words of love to express love holds more impact than the derogatory or slang terms. To each his/her own.
say doc whats so profane about sex ? (if you love the person you are having it with of course), but yea what the need for swearing there are times and places true
Well at least this topic got some replies. He's not even into the idea of trying it out though. I mean, I could understand if he tried it out, didn't like it, and didn't want to do it again - but after I obliged to have anal sex with him........uuuh, I think he owes me.
....Really....think he owes me. This isn't physically painful. Ya know?
Maybe he doesnt feel comfortable with dirty talking, and he finds it awkward?
There's a topic bout it on the site. :) Maybe that contains usefull information?
There's one person who knows that answer. Ask him.
I feel dumb talking dirty.. it doesn't feel sexy to me... it feels fake =\
yea I agree demon I would never feel comfortable with it
Count me in among this group, also.
I knew this woman years ago who could write a letter using some words only found in the hugh unabridged dictionary, string them along and say more, fancier than any of the rest of us, and, her letters were interesting to read and held your attention. She could also cuss you out and never use a four-letter word. I do not like hearing profane words even in a profane situation. It's not that I'm a prude, I just like using more of the Queen's English.
Not too long ago one of the hospital shows (ER I think) ran promo ads for a week stating that there was going to be some profanity used in the next episode. Of course this was going to draw some attention to the program, hopefully improve ratings, and, perhaps challenge the censors here in the colonies. Well, I waited and then watched that week's show.
The episode was about one day from the beginning of the shift to the end. Nothing went right all day and as I recall, things only went from bad to worse. Near the end of the shift the doctors and administrators met in a conference room to discuss the situation and why they had lost patients. After some discussion one of the doctors leaned back in his chair folded his hands behind his head and said something to the effect that "s**t happens". After all was said and done I thought to myself, what an appropriate response. It wasn't really bad or in poor taste. The expression summed up the day perfectly and the censors must have thought so, also.
I suppose it is all in what you like, and for me, using words of love to express love holds more impact than the derogatory or slang terms. To each his/her own.
say doc whats so profane about sex ? (if you love the person you are having it with of course), but yea what the need for swearing there are times and places true
Well at least this topic got some replies. He's not even into the idea of trying it out though. I mean, I could understand if he tried it out, didn't like it, and didn't want to do it again - but after I obliged to have anal sex with him........uuuh, I think he owes me.
....Really....think he owes me. This isn't physically painful. Ya know?
Shouldn't look at anything in a relationship as "he/she owes me" ;x
[QUOTE=Mark206]Shouldn't look at anything in a relationship as "he/she owes me" ;x[/QUOTE]
I would normally agree. But if she offered up the bunghole and he took it, the least she can expect is a little dirty talk.
I mean seriously, who goes back door on a woman but is too prudish to talk dirty if she wants it? That's not being consistent.
i don't really know "how" to talk dirty to a woman.... thought this thread would have some advice on the "how to" .... can anyone help me?
There are many threads on this, Nightphreak. Look around.