i am very new to the sex scene, i only lost my virginity about a year ago with my boyfriend and it is all very wonderful but strange at the same time.
recently having sex has almost seamed like a bit of a chore and getting both of us to come is becoming a bit of hard work, i dont think i have ever experienced an orgasm because of this, the thing that gets me the most is when he is outside of me he finds it no trouble at all to come but as soon as he enters me it just wont happen. does anyone have anyidea whats going on?
Mon, 06/04/2007 - 22:07
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why wont he cum?
what ive found it to be is that if feels different to when i do it on my own because the grip and speed isnt the same. it just takes a while to get used to. me and my gf have only been having sex for about a month but ive started to cum inside her.
did you say he dosnt make you cum ? because if he dosent just tell him what you like, that what my g/f does, and now that i listen to her i can make her cum and orgasum every time
Does he masturbate alot?
Also try different positions.
If he can't cum doggy style then I would give up.
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dont have sex or let him masturbate for 4 days then have sex. he will cum then.