Please read the section all about "dating" in the Index found near the top of the main screen.

It sounds to me like he is new to dating, new to forming relationships, new to knowing about the opposite gender, new to a lot of things that he will learn about over time and throughout his teen years and beyond.

Girls mature a couple of years ahead of boys, so understand that you are probably ahead of him and others your age with regard to life, love, and the book of life. This is normal.

I hesitate to agree that you love each other having spent so little time together. Relationship stages are:
Like, infatuation, in like, love, in love. My guess is that the two of you are somewhere between infatuation and in like with each other. In order for there to be more to your relationship, you must spend time together doing things and talking and sharing thoughts.

Texting a person is OK if you want to ask a quick question; otherwise, pick up the telephone and make a voice call in which you speak to each other and can hear the inflections in each others voice. Begin now, or you'll likely find yourself texting from room to room when living together! I'm serious.

> And everytime i try he backs
out or says his parents wont let him!
Then the one time he make plans he
backs out!

Find someone more mature, more experienced. Keep this boy as a friend if you want to but let him come to you, not you going to him to initiate some activity.

-doc

He's SCARED. What you should do is to back-off, be friends but not at all romantic or 'in love' etc - none of that - just light and friendly. Then, go and date someone else. The guy is NOT ready. How can one tell? He'll be ready when the desire to be with you overcomes his fears. Period. Always judge a man by his actions, not his words. Got it?