* Cultural norms of behavior
* Religious teachings
* Family beliefs and teachings

* Believing that the body {read: skin) is dirty, particularly the genitals--even if freshly washed.
* Believing that bodily fluids are unhealthy
+ as an extension to these, not wanting to put anything "dirty" or unhealthy into their mouth.

* Not having instruction on how to perform a hand job and/or oral stimulation and thereby unwilling to practice
* Being timid and/or insecure about participating in lovemaking and sex in general.
* Either being afraid to communicate and offering feedback, or not understanding the need for working one-on-one with a partner.

These are probably the major reasons. Would anybody else care to add to the list?

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

Some people like beer and others do not.

Im a bloke and to be honest while i love going down on a girl I find getting head pretty boring.

It depends on who i am with,i didn't like doing it to my ex husband because he used to grab my hair and push my head down and i was afraid of what would happen if i did it wrong.But i loved doing it with my recently ex boyfriend because he let me take control and told me that i was doing a good job of pleasing him (he lied to me about a lot of things,he may have lied about that too)I think i am better at it if i am given the opportunity to control what i do and how i do it,although i do ask if i am giving enough pleasure.On the other hand my ex husband loved going down on me but my recent ex never did it to me although i asked if he would do it on several occasions.

Sounds to me that if you're giving and not getting, it's a one sided deal. But that's just me.

I like going down on my wife. There are sweets people, and there are salty people. I'm a salty over sweets person. Fresh and I'm lovin' it. Particularly when she orgasms and bucks her hips. But again, that's just me.

I like giving oral to him, yet I do not particularly fancy the act itself. I absolutely love to see him enjoy himself. It's a real turn-on for me to see it in his eyes! That's a reason to give a bj for sure. I also like warming him up a bit before he gets inside me. That gives a great reward to me as well! ;) And I must admit that it surprises me time and time again how soft the skin of his penis is, which actually feels very nice against my lips, somewhat arousing even... What I don't like about it is how it is less "cuddly" and it puts strain on my neck and jaws; how I get the urge to bite down! Discomfort is usually less while doing it 69; I love this position!

Usually I like him fingering me more than giving me oral. He just feels so far away with his head over there :( My body seems to get cold... Like the rest of my body doesn't get to be touched enough. I just can't orgasm or enjoy it much. 69 would be an exception. That gives this very warm and cuddly feeling with me laying on top of him. Pleasing him while he pleases me is very overwhelming! :) However; him fingering me seems to be bringing way more variety in sensation. And it seems more easy to find more "cuddly" positions. Those fingering/cuddling-sessions are just about as good to me as actual intercourse! :)

First let me say Caramel, I love your signature LOL its nice LOL

on the other hand I'm black and love to give and receive in all of its various positions and situations. I have only one friend who doesn't care for it, which blows my mind. But I have also noticed that many of my Jamaican associates male and female could careless for it. They sing about it in there Reggae songs as something that they will not do. for example the artisit "Beenie Man" sings in his song "King of the dance hall" as he referes to sex "...this face is no sitting place..." while I love Reggae and Beenie man we part roads here LOL.

But I do think that it may have something to do with sex being dirty and so secretive that they only do the necessary LOL. but yes i have noticed that many individuals from the islands don't personally care for it.

[QUOTE=Caramel_Gal_Loves_Vanilla;259129]I know there is a myth that black men do not do it, or should I say some... why is that?

Why do some women not do it?

I look forward to answers?

I find it quite sexy, because the person who is performing it has some form of power, the power to please the recipient....

What are your views?[/QUOTE]

I like your question (and doc's answer). Doc's answer seemed quite complete. BTW: I love your signature.

P.S. I love giving and getting oral (with a woman). Not hating on homosexuals, I'm just hetero.