i have been married to my husband for over ten years and whenever i pull his pants down hes never hard.......and when i go to suck his cock he always tells me not right now also he has a facial expression that shows hes nervous i guess he has butterflies in his stomach
WHAT DO I DO????
Interesting placement for this post.
I have never had a man turn down a blowjob. Not all were successful, but never refused.
Only found one in my life who did not like it. If he has been your husband for 10 years, is this some new issue? Or one which was there and ignored for 10+?
Do you have braces?
I just love those "sweeping" generalisations on the basis of a single case!
Billies, maybe something you'd want to talk about with him?
... And I can assure you, not all men (or women, for that matter) react the same way, to this or any other situation. Acknowledging this is usually a good start to work out the solution.
Good luck!
Maybe he just doesn't like blowjobs.
Yeah that's a bizzare one, I know i'm I have a small penis before erect, but if she wants to i'll be more than happy to throw my pants off.
[QUOTE=billies-girl;181101]i have been married to my husband for over ten years and whenever i pull his pants down hes never hard.......and when i go to suck his cock he always tells me not right now also he has a facial expression that shows hes nervous i guess he has butterflies in his stomach
WHAT DO I DO????[/QUOTE]
has that been the case ALWAYS between the two of you?? Like all 10years??
OK... I am gonna toss something out there...
Maybe your husband is cheating on you.
Maybe he was afraid you were going to taste or smell something that would give that away.
I have NEVER turned down a blow job.
I am a str8 guy so kinda hard to give advice on how to convince a guy to recieve a BJ, however I do kinda have a idea.
With my wife, I always take a shower prior to recieving a BJ. Normally I take a shower in the AM, but she know that if I am in the shower before bed then it means I am expecting a BJ (not that I will get it).
So when your husband is in the shower, go in there and wash him.
Make sure you give his penis a nice warm up(handjob but don't finish) and that it is clean. Get all the pubic hairs too.
When he gets out, give him a nice drying and then start on the BJ.
If he doesn't want it then, I would suspect something is really wrong and you should consider asking him what is wrong.
Maybe he has had a bad experence in the past.
I know that my penis and teeth don't get along. You want to really ruin the moment that would do it.
[QUOTE=Smuggler;181270]OK... I am gonna toss something out there...
Maybe your husband is cheating on you.
Maybe he was afraid you were going to taste or smell something that would give that away.
I have NEVER turned down a blow job.
I am a str8 guy so kinda hard to give advice on how to convince a guy to recieve a BJ, however I do kinda have a idea.
With my wife, I always take a shower prior to recieving a BJ. Normally I take a shower in the AM, but she know that if I am in the shower before bed then it means I am expecting a BJ (not that I will get it).
So when your husband is in the shower, go in there and wash him.
Make sure you give his penis a nice warm up(handjob but don't finish) and that it is clean. Get all the pubic hairs too.
When he gets out, give him a nice drying and then start on the BJ.
If he doesn't want it then, I would suspect something is really wrong and you should consider asking him what is wrong.
Maybe he has had a bad experence in the past.
I know that my penis and teeth don't get along. You want to really ruin the moment that would do it.[/QUOTE]
GEEZUZ MAN!!! that's why i asked my question before POSTING exactly what you just did!! ROFLMAO!!...
I can only think of maybe either your not that good at it or you bit it before and he's like...Uhh nah baby im cool no thanks
Hard to know why he would be nervous since this is seems to be the exception of what happens to most guys when being approached for recieving a BJ. There could be reasons some of which has been mentioned in other posts above. Do you like to take him to completion and let him finish in your mouth? That was the only thing that ever made me nervous about a BJ only because my wife didn't like to have me ejaculate in her mouth. But it sure didn't stop me from enjoying the oral sex and if she came to me and pulled my pants down, it would stand right up ready for the action. Now I am not even nervous about finishing in her mouth because I just warn her when I'm getting close and she gets to chose how to finish me. Sometimes she wants me to finish in her vagina. There have been other times that she just keeps on working my cock with her mouth and I release in her mouth so she can either swallow it or let in run down my cock. Sometimes she will finish with her hand so I can squirt on her.
Maybe there is something in your technique that he doesn't like. He may just not know how to tell you without you getting your feeling hurt. It's best to just talk to him and not make wild assumtions.